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[john m 100]

Escorts are extremely hard to get a hold of in Halifax. That’s it, that’s all. 

[stevenwilson 113]

its numbers game bud. If one is not responding just text someone else, there's literally bunch of fish in the ocean. never act desperate or simp. 

[clintbarton96 1040]

22 hours ago, john m said:

Escorts are extremely hard to get a hold of in Halifax. That’s it, that’s all. 

I find it all depends on your approach. Most won't answer if you are using a text app. Or if you are looking for short notice appointments. Or if you're not using full sentences. Try a good introduction, like this: Hi, ____ , how are you doing today? My name is YOUR REAL NAME and I saw your ad on Lyla today. I'm wondering if we can meet for 90 minutes on Feb 27 in Halifax at 4:00pm for an incall appointment? I can send ID and a deposit if necessary. Hope to see you soon, thanks.

Not saying it's foolproof, but it's been working for me. 

[Lemmy Caution 156]

Why would you be so eager to give up real name, ID and a deposit? If they steer the conversation to those things, that's a non-starter. This town is too small to have those things floating around out there. And you're putting it in text. That shit is forever.

Try asking them for their real name and ID 😆

[MsManda 25963]

1 hour ago, Lemmy Caution said:

Why would you be so eager to give up real name, ID and a deposit? If they steer the conversation to those things, that's a non-starter. This town is too small to have those things floating around out there. And you're putting it in text. That shit is forever.

Try asking them for their real name and ID 😆

 

Screening has been standard since at least 2014 🙄

 

You're going to limit yourself to certain providers, or maybe yfl if you're unwilling to screen

 

No town is too small for sps to use measures that help keep them safe and alive ❤️

[Cjthomas 1617]

1 hour ago, Lemmy Caution said:

Why would you be so eager to give up real name, ID and a deposit? If they steer the conversation to those things, that's a non-starter. This town is too small to have those things floating around out there. And you're putting it in text. That shit is forever.

Try asking them for their real name and ID 😆

When was the last time one of us hobbyists from this board was outed? Over the past numbers of months at least a half dozen times I’ve read  posts in which the providers incall location was posted. I’ll continue to trust those providers who screen. You can continue  to choose those who don’t. It’s called choice. No one is arguing that. Yet the implications that our id or other information is compromised in the hands of a reputable provider has to stop and before Steve comes at me again to call me me a simp  or that I’m hoping to get free pussy. Let me say that I am here because I enjoy hiring beautiful women and paying for their time. Maybe Steve should do that more and stop watching so many Andrew Tate videos

[MsManda 25963]

11 minutes ago, Cjthomas said:

When was the last time one of us hobbyists from this board was outed? Over the past numbers of months at least a half dozen times I’ve read  posts in which the providers incall location was posted. I’ll continue to trust those providers who screen. You can continue  to choose those who don’t. It’s called choice. No one is arguing that. Yet the implications that our id or other information is compromised in the hands of a reputable provider has to stop and before Steve comes at me again to call me me a simp  or that I’m hoping to get free pussy. Let me say that I am here because I enjoy hiring beautiful women and paying for their time. Maybe Steve should do that more and stop watching so many Andrew Tate videos

There's that ONE time that everyone here likes to bring up from a few years ago; a man that we HAD to identify between us sps, who had used fake aliases for screening with at least 10 girls, then written reviews on a number of sps who claimed to have never met him because he lied about who he was. He tried to use multiple girls as references who had claimed to have never met him, hence how a conversation was even started between us sps

 

He also got wrong info from here and was pretending he knew things about sps - leading to safety issues when someone thinks they're paying for something that was never actually on the table, because they discussed things in the DMs here and assumed, rather than discuss with the sp he was booking 🤦

 

We couldn't know who we were meeting and the situation raised security issues for a number of us. It took 10 - 15 of us sps chatting and screening to sort out who tf this was.

 

So yes, I'll keep to knowing who's visiting my location, thanks. 

If anything happens, I need to know who you are

 

Tbh with how some men discuss us and circulate our info behind the scenes here, I wouldn't expect any sp to not thoroughly screen, especially lyla members. 

I've had a stranger describe my entire incall apartment to me - thanks to the pm system 🙄

 

Screening isn't some new protocol, it's been around for my entire career, but the newer ID screening here came about from necessity, which you can actually thank a prolific poster on lyla for 👀

 

 

 

 

 

[LadiesFirst 857]

Safety and supply demand. 
 

There is not much in higher demand than companion time. There is a lot of supply of hobbyist. All the reputable providers have more or less the same requirements protocols/booking requirements, it’s a simple form.

 You’re just thinning the heard so to speak if you can’t grasp it, so thank you for that. I appreciate that many have trouble with the protocols if it gives an edge to this old man. Nobody irl gives a shit what my name is and if I’ve seen a companion. 
 

real name is Mike btw, please don’t out me

[MikeyInHalifax 520]

I'll never understand why the prospect of screening is so hard for guys to stomach.

 

These women are bringing strange men into their lives on a daily basis. If it were me I would want to know who the hell I'm sharing my bed with. 

 

And let's be honest, as a guy, the same doesn't apply to us. We don't care who the girl is beyond, are they attractive and will they perform the acts I want them to perform. So give the whole "the sp should provide id also" argument a rest. 

 

The risk is almost all on the sp in these encounters. If your biggest fear in this hobby is being "outed" maybe don't engage in these activities to start. 

 

Protect the safety of these girls and appreciate the service they provide. If you don't like the game, don't play.

[Lemmy Caution 156]

You guys are right. I guess I will just have to limit myself to the dozens of providers that don't require ID or deposit. I'm so sad I won't get to see the six that do.

[MikeyInHalifax 520]

1 hour ago, Lemmy Caution said:

You guys are right. I guess I will just have to limit myself to the dozens of providers that don't require ID or deposit. I'm so sad I won't get to see the six that do.

The joke about this is that for all the reviews that I've written, I've never once had to provide ID. At the most I've been asked for a reference. 

 

I can tell you one thing. If a lady that I REALLY wanted to see required ID for screening I wouldn't come on here and complain incessantly about the injustice of it. I would just go with the flow and have the experience I want, under the requirements of the SP. 

 

Stop whining and move on

[MsManda 25963]

1 hour ago, MikeyInHalifax said:

I'll never understand why the prospect of screening is so hard for guys to stomach.

 

These women are bringing strange men into their lives on a daily basis. If it were me I would want to know who the hell I'm sharing my bed with. 

 

And let's be honest, as a guy, the same doesn't apply to us. We don't care who the girl is beyond, are they attractive and will they perform the acts I want them to perform. So give the whole "the sp should provide id also" argument a rest. 

 

The risk is almost all on the sp in these encounters. If your biggest fear in this hobby is being "outed" maybe don't engage in these activities to start. 

 

Protect the safety of these girls and appreciate the service they provide. If you don't like the game, don't play.

THANK YOUUUUUU 🙏

[MsManda 25963]

Just now, MikeyInHalifax said:

The joke about this is that for all the reviews that I've written, I've never once had to provide ID. At the most I've been asked for a reference. 

 

I can tell you one thing. If a lady that I REALLY wanted to see required ID for screening I wouldn't come on here and complain incessantly about the injustice of it. I would just go with the flow and have the experience I want, under the requirements of the SP. 

 

Stop whining and move on

That's the lolz 😂

Whole ID verification is only done by a handful of sps, and for some of us it's situational, not standard

 

I still verify who you are, but I don't usually need your ID card to do that, in the age of the internet

 

My kind of clientele want me to be comfortable anyways, knowing that a happy and safe feeling provider is going to give them the best experience. 

They don't hassle me about screening because they understand why we do it, and want me to be comfortable, not on edge, when meeting a stranger ❤️

[MsManda 25963]

1 hour ago, Lemmy Caution said:

You guys are right. I guess I will just have to limit myself to the dozens of providers that don't require ID or deposit. I'm so sad I won't get to see the six that do.

This forum is 🤦 because on one thread people will complain that Hfx has so few providers at all that you should just fly to another continent, but now there are somehow dozens of providers who don't screen? 

The math isnt mathing

 

I'm not even trying to argue, but more I want this on the record for new sps who might come reading these threads and feel the pressure to not screen, like that's standard, when it's not 

[MikeyInHalifax 520]

4 minutes ago, MsManda said:

That's the lolz 😂

Whole ID verification is only done by a handful of sps, and for some of us it's situational, not standard

 

I still verify who you are, but I don't usually need your ID card to do that, in the age of the internet

 

My kind of clientele want me to be comfortable anyways, knowing that a happy and safe feeling provider is going to give them the best experience. 

They don't hassle me about screening because they understand why we do it, and want me to be comfortable, not on edge, when meeting a stranger ❤️

This is the other thing. The best encounters I've had have all been with women who have one common opinion about me. THEY FEEL COMFORTABLE W/ME. 

 

You really want to have a girl open up and do all the freaky things you want, it's not gonna happen unless she trusts and feels safe with you. That's UNIVERSAL whether she's paid or not. 

 

Do yourselves a favor and be a good human. It'll do wonders for your sex lives

[MsManda 25963]

2 minutes ago, MikeyInHalifax said:

This is the other thing. The best encounters I've had have all been with women who have one common opinion about me. THEY FEEL COMFORTABLE W/ME. 

 

You really want to have a girl open up and do all the freaky things you want, it's not gonna happen unless she trusts and feels safe with you. That's UNIVERSAL whether she's paid or not. 

 

Do yourselves a favor and be a good human. It'll do wonders for your sex lives

Rapport is everything, and to establish that with a stranger via the Internet can be tricky, so we screen to establish a smidge of trust.

The client should have done his research and somewhat trust us to even contact us at all. 

 

Both sides are supposed to do what we can to make these experiences go well, and resisting screening isn't exactly trust and rapport building 🤦

 

We're humans after all, not service dispensers lol