no reply escorts

[bigdoggiehair 105]

Just want to know guys if escorts return your messages on cerb. I find that most do not and all i am asking for is their rates and services they provide. I only ask if the rates are not posted. I do not want to call but prefer using private message. Your thoughts and am i intruding?

[Gabriella Laurence 301887]

Perhaps the information you are looking for is listed on their websites and that's the reason

they're not answering your PMs.

 

You should also consider contacting the lady by the method she prefers ;)

[roamingguy 300291]

Couple things come to mind as to why you might not get a reply

First, maybe the lady prefers email (or phone call or text) to private message...always use her preferred method of contact

Second are your messages polite and respectful, or rude and vulger. If the latter, you won't get a reply.

Third, are you in any way negotiating or attempting to negotiate on her donation or services, if so, that can result in no replies

Just a few ideas that come to mind

RG

[SmartnSexy 2089]

I know a number of escorts prefer email interactions so that they can track all of their correspondence in one location. So PMs may not be the preferred method for every lady.

 

Quick question for you did you get a chance to check out these ladies websites? Often times the information you need is available there.

 

Unless you're being rude (and please don't infer that I believe you are) or using a non preferred method of communication there's no reason for the ladies not to answer, you are, in effect, their source of income and so answering you is to their benefit.

 

I also find that many ladies dislike short form communication (although I've been known to have the opposite problem in that regard myself), things like "yo bby wats ur rates and menu?" don't usually sit well with many of the fine ladies here on CERB. I myself usually try for a format that follows this general form:

 

Hello,

 

I saw your pictures and they are beautiful! I would very much like to know more about you.

 

I was unable to find your rates or specific services on your website. Could you please provide this information?

 

Thanks,

 

<Insert your name here>

 

It's a tad over the top, but you'd be shocked to find out the effect that a well composed message can have on your likelihood of a reply.

 

In the end, if you've done all of these things and the lady still won't reply to you then you're better off moving on. She's either too busy, or too disorganized for you to really make a proper connection. I know that can be frustrating sometimes when a lady is particularly enthralling, but it's not all about looks, I've come to find that attitude and service count for a lot in this hobby/industry.

[ptgmbguy 120]

I take a no-reply as telling me that the sp is currently to busy? to reply at that time or they just don't want to reply.. That said I in no way was rude or vulger. I guess my time needs to be applyed eltswhere, let me add IN MY OPINON, I will wait for a responce, to a point.then call.

[Old Dog 179138]

Just want to know guys if escorts return your messages on cerb. I find that most do not and all i am asking for is their rates and services they provide. I only ask if the rates are not posted. I do not want to call but prefer using private message. Your thoughts and am i intruding?

 

Aside from Gabi's and RG's helpful comments, there is a big secret to CERB that some do not realize.

 

There are a lot of providers here who have inactive accounts. They sign on, post a few times and disappear. Left the business, moved to another city or found that CERB was not their thing. It happens.

 

When you check a profile, look for "last activity" - you can see it below their profile pic. If there is nothing there, check "statistics"... it's the third tab directly under the profile pic.

 

Now click "find all posts by XXX"... if the last post was in October 2011 or before, the likelihood is that you are NEVER going to get a response. She has moved on.

 

Don't get discouraged... CERB is like the biblical land of plenty... manna from heaven. You will find that perfect experience!!!

[fortunateone 156618]

That is good advice, OD. Also, they may be like me and come on infrequently. I find that unless a pm message is indeed a one or two word like "Rates?" or worse "r8s?", I will reply if only to send a direct link to an ad, with the contact preference all laid out. If I had a website, with the info requested, I would send that instead with a brief note.

 

What we like to know first and foremost that the person contacting us already knows things like location, age, stats, and more. If someone reads my ads, from top to bottom, they know not to bother sending emails, texts or private messages if they are only going to ask about rates/services. My contact preference is phone call only. I know when someone has not read the ad in full if they send me a message of any sort asking those things, and I am unlikely to reply.

[spidee 330]

my experience, contact the provider in the way she want to be contacted, if she doesn't reply after a couple of texts, emails messages, she doesn't want to get back to you and move on.