To the guys: How do you feel about mature ladies?

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

With age comes experience...I too was the little hottie once with the perfect body but i knew NOTHING when it came to sex. I thought it was all about getting a guy off...at the time i believe the gents felt the same way...lol.

 

I didn't become an Sp until i was in my mid 30's. I have found this to be a most interesting ride...{pun intended}. I now feel free in my sexuality and i certainly know more then when i was younger. I wouldn't even have thought of putting my finger in someones ass back then...{for all the finger phob's}haha

 

Now its a whole new world i want to explore. My gents range in age from mid 20's to high 70's. Variety is certainly the spice of life.

kisses,

Emma A

[Missy Mariposa 234]

Anita, you have nothing to worry about. From what I hear you provide a great service and you're easy on the eyes (which is an understatement). I have a male friend who's about 20 looking for an erotic massage and asked me to help him find someone good. I asked around for recommendations and got several for you. That says something right there.

[d*mm*y 887]

Thanks everybody for the input

 

If we can go by the poll, looks like most guys are not looking exclusively for young girls/women. This is good news

 

I am just wondering how far does this interest go?

 

Let's say there was a Playboy-like magazine about women over 40+ or 50+, with "normal" older women, no excessive Photoshop, not much botox or plastic surgery. With other words, normal, nice looking older women naked. Can you imagine buying that magazine and masturbate to the pictures?

 

Or, let's assume there was an escort board for women over 50, would you go there looking for actual dates, or would you just look at it as entertainment, but would never consider seeing them?

 

I can't see any such magazine or escort board, and the online porn about older women is more like a freak-show, at least the ones I came across.

 

And the million dollar question:

 

If there is so much interest in older ladies, why is the whole escort and porn industry geared toward flawless, pretty young women?

 

(I apologize if any of these questions are too personal and puts you on the spot, feel free not to answer them)

 

If I am going to watch pron or look at magazines I like the eye candy of the hot fit bodies, or tune into to the freak stuff but I think that's just me :)

 

An escort board catering to older ladies would be an idea but I think 36+ is probably the age I think when I think older, for me it is experience rather than age, and by 36 most women have the fundamentals down pretty good!

 

I actually avoid the 19-20 year old's because of the inexperience and immaturity (a lot more cancellations and no shows) now as a plan B if there is one ready to go now than it usually works out for a pinch.

 

The eroticism of a lady is far more important to me than the perfect body, however, I do take both into consideration. On rare occasion that I have met a 20 something with a great bod and a sexual maturity that complements my own I have been extremely happy. The same thing has happened with ladies that have taken care of themselves and have near 20 year old bodies and are in the late 30's and 40's several ladies like this are right here in Ottawa and I really enjoy spending time with them.

 

I may add that I have had a chance to look over your web site and would definitely like a visit with you! Too bad you are in BC :(

 

I do know that there are men for every body type and age of woman, big, little, old, young, the key is to not misrepresent yourself then you will attract the clients that are looking for someone that has what you offer.

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Those who've talked about it have told me that they like to look at the gloriously lovely young women, but they don't feel quite right having sex with them--they start thinking about their own daughters and that makes them very uncomfortable.

 

I heard this so many times :)

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Anita, you have nothing to worry about. From what I hear you provide a great service and you're easy on the eyes (which is an understatement). I have a male friend who's about 20 looking for an erotic massage and asked me to help him find someone good. I asked around for recommendations and got several for you. That says something right there.

 

Oh, thanks sweetie, this is nice of you :)

[a******s.m*****e 187]

But when I began seeking clients more actively, I was pleasantly surprised about the response. I'm not perfect-looking. I'm a smaller-type BBW, very curvy, and I've had three children. I would never volunteer for the hypothetical Playboy feature! I'm not ashamed of how I look, at all. I am who and what I am, and I'm comfortable with it.

 

You are pretty, you would look great in the magazine :)

[a******s.m*****e 187]

I may add that I have had a chance to look over your web site and would definitely like a visit with you! Too bad you are in BC :(

 

Well, it's time for a visit ;)

[etasman2000 15994]

With age comes experience.

 

 

I prefer: with age comes erotism :)

 

And Who says you aren't a hottie today Emma A! Because they would be lying.

 

ET

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[Guest wi***w]

I NEVER lie about my age... When I first got into the biz at age 41, I advertised my age as 40+ but if I was asked my real age I always told the truth 42..Now I am turning 47 and am still busy as ever, infact I can't accommodate the number of requests I have coming in.

 

The majority of my clients are 40+ however I do have clients that are in their late 20's & 30's. It always depends on the maturity and self assurance that one carries. I feel more confident and beautiful now than I did 20 years ago. I am far more knowledgeable and comfortable with sex in my mid 40's and still feel like a "hottie" ..............................

even though I'm a Mother and a grandmother...

 

There should be a board dedicated to us more "seasoned" providers.

 

Willow

 

your sweet...petite...treat

[Sniper22 100]

I love all women... being in my early 30's I can say that women over 40 really do it for me.

[a******s.m*****e 187]

I feel more confident and beautiful now than I did 20 years ago. I am far more knowledgeable and comfortable with sex in my mid 40's and still feel like a "hottie" ..............................

even though I'm a Mother and a grandmother...

 

There should be a board dedicated to us more "seasoned" providers.

 

Willow

 

your sweet...petite...treat

 

 

I am so happy for you:)

 

It is so sad that most women outside of this business are convinced, when they reach a certain age everything is "over".

It is like they are throwing away everything and give up hope.

Sometimes I try to tell them it is not so, there are guys who would desire them, but of course I can't tell how do I know...:)

 

And thinking you are not desirable is a downward spiral, because it makes women let themselves go. I do blame the magazines for spreading the myth that unless you are young and flawless there is something wrong with you. They are selling the cosmetics and destroy women's self-esteem.

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

And thinking you are not desirable is a downward spiral, because it makes women let themselves go. I do blame the magazines for spreading the myth that unless you are young and flawless there is something wrong with you. They are selling the cosmetics and destroy women's self-esteem.

 

So true! Another good thing about getting a bit older is that it's easier to recognize this kind of thing. When I was in my early 20s, very firm without a stretch mark to be found, I had a hard time feeling attractive. I looked great, but somehow it was all cancelled out when I thought my thighs were too big or my backside was too round. I don't obsess about things like that now. Life is too short! No man ever decided he wasn't staying for the appointment. Not then. Not now.

 

Really, I think that the older ladies in our profession could help a lot of non-SPs re-think many, many things. Of course, if we did that, it might be bad for business.... :lol:

[a******s.m*****e 187]

Really, I think that the older ladies in our profession could help a lot of non-SPs re-think many, many things. Of course, if we did that, it might be bad for business.... :lol:

 

True.

 

But, no reason to worry. Nobody would believe us :)

[YoungStud 468]

True.

 

But, no reason to worry. Nobody would believe us :)

 

I would And so would more people than you think, I think.

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

Sometimes, when I look at pics on CL, I'm getting jealous... Those perfect round breasts and firm bodies...

 

I have something they don't... A PROFESSION...

 

I think when your getting to the 30's, you know what you want...

 

In things man love the most, I think BODY goes after SELF-CONFIDENCE AND RELIABILITY... Things that not much kitten offers... They come and they go... Either pimped or drug addicted... We, older girls, have setup our lives in something we love, A PASSION...

[Jackie James 215]

Nice to see us older ladies still have what it takes to rev up the boys! :mrgreen:

[coachg 388]

Having experienced younger SP's as well as mature SP's, I have to say that I prefer the mature ladies because of the attitude and knowledge they offer.They know what it takes to please a man, how to make him feel comfortable and how to make the encounter a special, memorable experience. I'm not saying that some of the younger ladies don't have the same qualities, but it only happens with 1 out of 10, while with the mature women, more like 9 out of 10. I like the higher odds much more.

God bless the mature ladies!!

[MandalayBay 575]

I have been told my many of my clients (who are middle aged) that they prefer mid thirties and older so they don't feel like they are having sex with one of their daughter's friends.

 

The great part about this (for us older ladies) is that middle-aged men make up the majority of our clientele because they tend to be more financially established and have the means to afford escorts.

[AttilaTheHun 356]

Throughout my lifetime I have enjoyed women who were either up to 28 years older than me (when I younger) to women who where 30 years younger as got into my 50's. The oldest lady SP that I had was a smoking 6'3 58 year old (I was 30 at the time) that totally blew me away once I got over the fact that she was my mothers age. I never thought of the 20 year old who were my daughters age as weird because I usually chose those who were way ahead in years as far as maturity is concerned. But after some reflection I have always enjoyed my ladies more in the 35-45 year old category and that's has held true whether I was 17 and now in my 50's. The level of experience, maturity not to mention that woman at this ripe age who knows how to strut their stuff is what gets me off. Their body type is irrelevant, because I believe that a woman who loves herself can be a sexy sultry seductress if she wants to no matter the age. That is sexy in my books.

 

ATH

[jerican 657]

I echo what a lot of the people have said on this thread. Being 35 I am smack dab in the middle of the ages I prefer, mid 20's to mid 40's. Like ATH mentioned I am also attracted to sex appeal and that can come in tall or short, spinner or voluptuous. Confidence, strong sex drive and an adventurous naughty personality will drive me more crazy then an 18 year olds model body.

 

It's funny all through my personal life I just always happened to be with younger women but have had many an older women fantasy (can't beat experience sometimes). Thankfully CERB and this hobby lets me live out those fantasies!

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

Nice to see us older ladies still have what it takes to rev up the boys! :mrgreen:

Thank you, Ms James... :wink:

[redmachine 1916]

The last two ladies that I have seen were a 21 year old drop dead gorgeous blond spinner MA and a 40+ beautiful courtesan. Both experiences were very satisfying. With me it is not about age or body style its about attitude and the total experience provided.