How would you describe your dreamgirl - Special qualities you seek in your girl

[p22*** 236]

LOL too funny Emma, I can also tell you when it starts to rain.

ETIENNE.1 - thank you, your very sweet.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Height/weight/skin color/ are really not a issue with myself or something that I'm looking for specific in a lady.

 

I guess I love all ladies, and really could not give you a specific discription.

 

Sure fully appreciated. We all love ladies regardless of height/weight/skincolor/eyecolor/shaved/unshaved/..... for sure. But we all have only one dreamgirl even though we love them all. It is like choosing the Miss Universe. All the participants are obviously beautiful but only one can become Miss Universe of the year. As another example we meet hundreds or may be thousands of girls in our lifetime but we marry only one (the dreamgirl).

[Guest i***k***]

Personally I don't think I have one particular description for my "dream girl". There are so many beautiful ladies out there of all shapes, sizes and personalities that I can't pin it down to just one. So I think I'll have to agree with PistolPete and say all ladies! :) Although I do have a special soft spot for a couple here...

[Capital Hunter 18263]

You guys can not be a judge in a Miss Universe contest :lol: as you have to choose only one out of all the competing beauties lol. Or is that because you are being diplomatic:-).

 

No seriously, although I can't personaly relate to that, but I can understand that. In a way I think you guys are lucky that all the girls are your dreamgirls (everytime you sit in a bus, half the people are your dreamgirls :lol: or in a shopping centre or .....). I spend more time on researching (reading reviews, exchanging PMs, inquiring when I call, etc.) to get someone close to my dreamgirl than the time that I have to do research related to my work.

[etasman2000 15994]

i love tall people ...you can even protect me from all the meaies out there...hehe...i'll pass you my heels to hit them with...lmao

 

crush! crush yet again. *sniff*

 

E 'shorty' T

[buggernot 588]

You know, I had a definitive list of what I thought would make all the qualities of my dream girl or soulmate. And I was fortunate enough to meet my soulmate - but she wasn't anything like that fictitious girl in my head, mind or body. If I went by my 'list' she would have been crossed off right from the beginning...

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

crush! crush yet again. *sniff*

 

E 'shorty' T

baby you know i love you too...why do you think i just get you to lay down all the time i'm with you....hehehe

 

You guys can not be a judge in a Miss Universe contest :lol: as you have to choose only one out of all the competing beauties lol. Or is that because you are being diplomatic:-).

 

No seriously, although I can't personaly relate to that, but I can understand that. In a way I think you guys are lucky that all the girls are your dreamgirls (everytime you sit in a bus, half the people are your dreamgirls :lol: or in a shopping centre or .....). I spend more time on researching (reading reviews, exchanging PMs, inquiring when I call, etc.) to get someone close to my dreamgirl than the time that I have to do research related to my work.

 

 

i'm an idiot.....here i was flirting and teasing Mr. secret admirer all this time about me being his dream girl and PMing him asking if he was still making me dinner....lmao...then to realize ...hey this isn't who i thought it was.....Simon where are you? All i have been writing to Secret was meant for Simon.....my apologies secret.....:oops:

kisses,

Emma A

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Not a problem dear Emma. No need at all for apology. I was just surprised as I knew we have never met :shock:.

 

I sometimes do that too. May be even worse (I called my ex-girlfriend's name, Melissa, when I was making love to the new one, Stephanie, the girl I picked up from the Dome in Montreal 10 years ago :oops:). Lucky Simon guy though lol.

[simon_templar 161]

My apologies Secret how do you think Simon feels???....lmao (no disrespect intended to Secret ha ha!!)

 

YES.....EMMA A.....please forward all PM's....because I think that I have a surprise for you

 

Oh and yes...my dream girl is about 5'3", between 40-43, blond hair, charismatic personallity, a smile that would launch a thousand ships, eyes that you could melt into, a body that brings beads of perspiration to my forehead and a laugh that makes everything just right!....OH...and she laughs at my jokes (to paraphrase Shakespeare....she's all that and a bag of chips!!)

 

i'm an idiot.....here i was flirting and teasing Mr. secret admirer all this time about me being his dream girl and PMing him asking if he was still making me dinner....lmao...then to realize ...hey this isn't who i thought it was.....Simon where are you? All i have been writing to Secret was meant for Simon.....my apologies secret.....:oops:

kisses,

Emma A

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

My apologies Secret how do you think Simon feels???....lmao (no disrespect intended to Secret ha ha!!)

 

YES.....EMMA A.....please forward all PM's....because I think that I have a surprise for you

 

Oh and yes...my dream girl is about 5'3", between 40-43, blond hair, charismatic personallity, a smile that would launch a thousand ships, eyes that you could melt into, a body that brings beads of perspiration to my forehead and a laugh that makes everything just right!....OH...and she laughs at my jokes (to paraphrase Shakespeare....she's all that and a bag of chips!!)

 

i'm an idiot.....here i was flirting and teasing Mr. secret admirer all this time about me being his dream girl and PMing him asking if he was still making me dinner....lmao...then to realize ...hey this isn't who i thought it was.....Simon where are you? All i have been writing to Secret was meant for Simon.....my apologies secret.....:oops:

kisses,

Emma A

 

thats better....snuggles.....no offence meant to mr secret_admier but i like men that cook for me....lmao....{inside joke}kisses

[Capital Hunter 18263]

No offence taken. I explained (in my PM) why I don't cook food, but I do like those girls who are cooking with me :lol:.

[PistolPete 61421]

I'm not here to pick out a Miss Universe, I'm here to experience the true delight of love making,fulfill fantasies, sharing each others souls for a intimate time.

 

So being able to experience the wide variety of MOST participants(lovely ladies) here on CERB is such a pleasure in its own, that is why I could not give you a discription, or as you said be a judge in a contest.

 

While I really enjoy pooning, I also really like to look at women, in resturants, shopping malls, buses,...I guess you can say I really love all women of all discriptions.:-D

 

Sure fully appreciated. We all love ladies regardless of height/weight/skincolor/eyecolor/shaved/unshaved/..... for sure. But we all have only one dreamgirl even though we love them all. It is like choosing the Miss Universe. All the participants are obviously beautiful but only one can become Miss Universe of the year. As another example we meet hundreds or may be thousands of girls in our lifetime but we marry only one (the dreamgirl).

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I'm not here to pick out a Miss Universe, I'm here to experience the true delight of love making,fulfill fantasies, sharing each others souls for a intimate time.

 

So being able to experience the wide variety of MOST participants(lovely ladies) here on CERB is such a pleasure in its own, that is why I could not give you a discription, or as you said be a judge in a contest.

 

While I really enjoy pooning, I also really like to look at women, in resturants, shopping malls, buses,...I guess you can say I really love all women of all discriptions.:-D

 

Just to clarify that the question in the thread was not intended as a reference to escorts or SPs but a question in general as what description would fit a guy's dreamgirl (the one and only that most of us eventually get married to at some time). She could be a wife, a girlfriend a co-worker, a classmate, a neigbor, a stranger in a bus or shopping center as well as possibly an SP, cerb member or not.

[PistolPete 61421]

question SA, in your start thread, and know it was not intended as a reference to escorts or sp's.

 

So again you can see my discription would be of a wide variety of discriptions of a wide variety of women.

 

Not to sound like a pain in the ass, but why ask out in general your discription of a dreamgirl here on CERB..would it not be a little prejudice?-(any preconceived opinion or feeling, either favorable or unfavorable).

 

Again, not trying to be a pain just asking .

 

 

 

 

Just to clarify that the question in the thread was not intended as a reference to escorts or SPs but a question in general as what description would fit a guy's dreamgirl (the one and only that most of us eventually get married to at some time). She could be a wife, a girlfriend a co-worker, a classmate, a neigbor, a stranger in a bus or shopping center as well as possibly an SP, cerb member or not.

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

crush! crush yet again. *sniff*

 

E 'shorty' T

 

you know i love you etasman...big hug...

[Capital Hunter 18263]

question SA, in your start thread, and know it was not intended as a reference to escorts or sp's.

 

So again you can see my discription would be of a wide variety of discriptions of a wide variety of women.

 

Not to sound like a pain in the ass, but why ask out in general your discription of a dreamgirl here on CERB..would it not be a little prejudice?-(any preconceived opinion or feeling, either favorable or unfavorable).

 

Again, not trying to be a pain just asking .

 

A little bit prejudice!!!:shock:. Where did that come from (asking men what qualities they like in ladies or their dreamgirl is prejudism :shock:).

 

I sometimes ask fellow gentlemen about their likes and dislikes to see how widely they differ to mine (or look into similarities). For example a few months ago, I started a thread asking about shave versus unshaved kitties and I found out about 20% like unshaved (From what I heard in the SCs I thought I am the only one). A couple of months ago I started a thread about gentlemen's sexual act preferences and to my nice surprise I found out that very similar to myself, Daty came out at the top and FS in the middle lower than daty and hence found out many have similar preferences. In fact the above two threads ended up with a large number of comments and replies (75 and 96 replies respectively) that they showed up at the top 10-15 threads with most responses a few weeks ago.

 

I was in a debate with a friend a few months ago who used to have a pale skin and tanned recently citing her reason that most men prefer tanned or colored skin and again out of my curiousity I wanted to know if that is really a fact or a fiction in many ladies' mind (many dancers tan and almost all shave). I am sure that many men do love tanned or colored skin but is that a majority?

 

I was also curious to know as how many (or what percentage) of gentlemen prefer taller larger ladies (like myself) and how many small cute, schoolgirl type (again became curious as someone told me most men prefer smallies!!).

 

I was also curious to know as what percentage of gentlemen prefer large boobs and how many small ones (again out of SC discussions). I see many ladies going through expensive breast enhancement operations and wondering why. Do overwhelmimg majority of men prefer large boobs that some ladies go ahead with that? In fact I think that many ladies would also be interested in the responses to those questions.

 

As why I ask those questions on cerb, well for one thing I think this is a place to discuss ladies and sex. I wouldn't have asked those, if this was a religous board or something. What place better to ask sexual questions that you would like to know how others would respond openly and honestly (and anonymously) than an escort recommendation board. This is not the type of everyday questions (favorite sex acts, shave/unshaved kitties/dreamgirl qualities) that everyone can pose in public (i.e. at workplace or school) or even get open honest replies, if they do.

 

It is important to note that the question in the thread asks about preferences NOT dislikes. For example if I say my dreamgirl is one who is tall that does NOT mean I don't like small girls!! I do like all ladies. In fact love them. And when I say my dreamgirl is one with pale skin does NOT mean I don't like tanned or colored ones. Or if I say I prefer small boobs does not mean I am not going to take a peek down a lady's blouse, if she has large boobs :-). I do love them all. It just states my preferences.

[PistolPete 61421]

It is important to note that the question in the thread asks about preferences NOT dislikes. For example if I say my dreamgirl is one who is tall that does NOT mean I don't like small girls!! I do like all ladies. In fact love them. And when I say my dreamgirl is one with pale skin does NOT mean I don't like tanned or colored ones. I do love them all. It just states my preferences.

 

Not to be argumentative, So if you love them all, why bother with the question or stating your preference?

 

My reply is trying to understand where you are going with this? Your dreamgirl preference may be a prejudice against other ladies... (when asked for preferences from gentlemen), and yes I realize you say..to final marry or settle down with. But we are here for hobbying are we not?

 

So choice question thrown out to all men here on the board are preference of tall/short/big breasted/small breasted/pale skin/dark skin/eye color/hair color/weight/spinner / non spinner/ average build /shaved kitty/trimmed/bushy/... are in fact a little preconceived opinion or feeling, either favorable or unfavorable to some ladies here???

 

Just trying get some rationale behind your question of seeking your dreamgirl, afterall you state you love them all.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Not to be argumentative, So if you love them all, why bother with the question or stating your preference?

 

My reply is trying to understand where you are going with this?

 

So choice question thrown out to all men here on the board are preference of tall/short/big breasted/small breasted/pale skin/dark skin/eye color/hair color/weight/spinner / non spinner/ average build /shaved kitty/trimmed/bushy/... are in fact a little preconceived opinion or feeling, either favorable or unfavorable to some ladies here???

 

Just trying get some rationale behind your question of seeking your dreamgirl, afterall you state you love them all.

 

I thought I was clear in my earlier post as why I am curious about responses in regard to preferences for ladies as I explained it in depth with examples. I don't know of any other way I can explain to clarify it further except may be suggesting to please read my earlier post once more.

 

Yes, I love them all but I love the one and only more than the others as we all do ( we all marry one, the dreamgirl and not all the ladies on the planet. On second thought I like the latter more :-)).

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Your dreamgirl preference may be a prejudice against other

 

So if I say that I prefer tall girls I am prejudice against short cute girls and if I say I prefer unshaved, I am prejudice against shaved ones. Or if I say I prefer small boobs I am prejudice against the ones with large boobs!.

 

If so, then we have to be on guard all the time not to be prejudice. For example at the strip bars we have to make sure we take all girls (or none at all) to the CR and spend totally equal number of songs with them in the CR!!!.

 

We should not be calling our possibly favorite SP a second time (in fact it may be prejudism to have a favorite SP) until we have called all other SPs at least once!!!. And when we highly recommend a lady then automatically we are prejudice against those who are recommended or when we assign 10 we are prejudice against all those graded 9!!Also donations range from $200 to $300 in Ottawa. Everytime we call or donate the $300 we become prejudice against all those at less than $300!!! If so, in my view I think there is a whole new definition of prejudism.

 

BTW in my original post stating my preferences for the one and only I did not state any preferences related to any lady's race, religion, nationality or orientation because I HAVE NONE when it comes to these factors.

[YoungStud 468]

Someone who fulfills all my desires - physical, emotional and mental. Who loves me, knows me, understands me and is totally honest with me about everything that counts. And with whom I can do the same.

 

And on a more specific note, someone who has been or is just as promiscuous as I am, but at heart is a one-woman man emotionally and spiritually.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

Someone who fulfills all my desires - physical, emotional and mental. Who loves me, knows me, understands me and is totally honest with me about everything that counts. And with whom I can do the same.

 

And on a more specific note, someone who has been or is just as promiscuous as I am, but at heart is a one-woman man emotionally and spiritually.

 

I think you described her the best possible way, YS.

 

Physical attractiveness does not stay for ever and disappears with time however, the spiritual attraction is inside the hearts and is like writings on the stone and only strengthens with time. Thanks for the ultimate description of a dreamgirl.