The Age Issue

[Andee 220524]

I agree with CHERRY, guys that are younger have little to no respect. They are ruff and disrespectful, asking immature and almost ignorant questions about the trade. That being said not all young guys are like that, I have also now been 3 guys first. I love that I can say that I am there first and I rocked there world....lol

But to the other young boys I have no interest to acting like Im in a 50 cent rap video, Bitches, Pimps and Ho's ( G- Unit )....lol

 

When a young guy (under 30) wants the older woman experience and they call me, most of them are polite and respectful. I get the drift that they may not know much about "how it works", I tell them. When some of them start off like know-it-alls, I usually nip that in the bud pretty good..., but the conversation usually turns around very fast to the point where I've even been called M'am (ugh!).

 

But honestly, being over 40 does have its advantages. I seem to get the young guys who are very respectful. Guys in their 30s and up who like me, it's usually because I'm a little heavier, but also because I'm older, I suppose. Maybe I should ask...

[drg23 124]

So I have an interesting update to this thread. Me and the SP who had this whole "age issue" have resolved the matter. I was contacted by her and we are now offically friends lol. So I guess the moral is to carry yourself in a respectable manner and it will benefit you the most in the end.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Believe me he had no smile on his face, just the terror of dying:(

 

Just imagine somebody like this dies and I have to answer all the embarrassing questions like who is he? How do I know him? How did he die?

If he took some drugs I could even become a murder suspect.

 

So, please, if you want to be "lucky" to go this way, please don't do it at my place :)

 

Been there, done that AFTER leaving a local shopping mall only to find out on the radio that there was gun fire exchanged where i had been parked 2-3 minutes after i had left because of a jewelry store robbery inside the mall. I was on my way to see a client and they ended up having a heart attack when I was with them. DAMN!! I've told that story many times of a client almost dropping dead and all joking aside, it was very traumatic for me. Thankfully it was an outcall, he was from the Midwest and divorced. Usually an escort never entertains that thought... only the thought of who the person is and will they be safe.

 

So I guess being a younger client has its advantages but having been with clients that were my age at the time, they had unrealistic expectations and this is where older men have experience. I found that young men (under 25) wanted a porn star fantasy and would give you cues on what to do. At times I had to contain my laughter because I never considered myself Jenna Jameson. Just a nice, young girl to spend time with. Other times I was never at ease. There were also other issues such as finances. They would often haggle with you and when the time was up, they'd want to negotiate another half hour. While older men may attempt all of the above, they have a smoother way of going about and aren't so obvious to the point where it becomes a larger issue or one you don't want to deal with right off the bat. I'm no longer that young, inexperienced girl and I suppose being "older" has its advantages for both escort and client. For some who are young potential clients venturing out to see a woman, they may be SOL. ;)

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

When a young guy (under 30) wants the older woman experience and they call me, most of them are polite and respectful. I get the drift that they may not know much about "how it works", I tell them. When some of them start off like know-it-alls, I usually nip that in the bud pretty good..., but the conversation usually turns around very fast to the point where I've even been called M'am (ugh!).

 

But honestly, being over 40 does have its advantages. I seem to get the young guys who are very respectful. Guys in their 30s and up who like me, it's usually because I'm a little heavier, but also because I'm older, I suppose. Maybe I should ask...

 

That's been my experience, too, Angela. I've had a few younger guys, not much under 30, who wanted the "older woman" experience, and they've been polite, respectful, even romantic. It made for a nice session. In general, though, I prefer men who are my age or older, and all of my regular clients are over 50; most are in their late 50s and 60s. It's a good match for me, and they generally say that they asked to see me because I make it so clear in my ads and my website that I'm "mature."

[MandalayBay 575]

My reason for preferring older clients is mostly fear of younger men. Younger men tend to be more aggressive and filled with testosterone, making it more likely that they could become angry and hurt you. I know this is just a generalization, but I try to err on the side of caution.

 

As well, being a more curvaceous woman and mother (and definitely not a spinner) I have the stereotype that younger men want an SP with a Miss Hawaiian Tropic body. I'd hate to disappoint, so I just don't go there.

 

The one client I took on under the age of 35 was the only client who took advantage of my trust and didn't pay me in full for our second session. More mature gentleman have made my experience as an escort an extremely enjoyable one! Men are like a fine wine, they age beautifully and get better with every year that passes.

[Guest f***2f***]

I got asked that earlier in the week by a local sp. She asked how old I was and said I sounded really young. Thanks darling!! (I'm in my 50s) When I walked in the door I said "Hi I'm boner and I'm 19!" She laughed and said "I believe you":-)

[Miss Scarlett 25073]

My reason for preferring older clients is mostly fear of younger men. Younger men tend to be more aggressive and filled with testosterone, making it more likely that they could become angry and hurt you. I know this is just a generalization, but I try to err on the side of caution.

 

As well, being a more curvaceous woman and mother (and definitely not a spinner) I have the stereotype that younger men want an SP with a Miss Hawaiian Tropic body. I'd hate to disappoint, so I just don't go there.

 

The one client I took on under the age of 35 was the only client who took advantage of my trust and didn't pay me in full for our second session. More mature gentleman have made my experience as an escort an extremely enjoyable one! Men are like a fine wine, they age beautifully and get better with every year that passes.

 

 

Thank you! You took the words right out of my mouth!