Tsukiyo_Chevalier 3242 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Hi this is to all the SP's every where. with all the posts and polls that have been going on, i have read somethings that i have found to leave me feeling sad. things like sp's feeling they will lose there clients unless they perform a service they might not want to do, to hearing just how bad and not understanding some clients are with regards to condoms. I will not get into the muck of the business as i know people are trying to make a living but i would like to say one thing and that is this. The Sp's that i have been with i have always tried to make sure they know that i truly appreciate the time they have given to be with me and to treat them with as much respect as i can. and i want everyone to remember that every sp is a living being and should be treated like such. again this is not a post putting anyone down it is just a reminder and a way to get this off my chest. so to keep this short i as a MAN want to say sorry to any Sp who has been treated in a ungentlemanly way by a man. And as myself i want to say thank-you to every SP i have been with and to the ones i have not yet been with. And even thou it has been said before i will say it again. I can tell that all the SP's out there are strong and smart and know what they are doing just by reading their posts. you do not need anyone to tell you what services you should be giving. I can only imagine how tough it is in the business to add services you are not comfortable with doing, and to any SP anywhere with whatever you decide to do I truly wish from the bottom of my heart, all the best for a happy, safe, and long life. and that you only get the great clients that you all deserve. Will that is it i do not know if all this need to be said in a post but i think that even thou i am only one person i hope others can come together with me in giving strength to any SP who might be dealing with some of the issues that have been talked about lately. Have a great day all :) 16 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livefast1098 2151 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 :D 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashley Ann 75247 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Some may view the OP as an ass kisser....while some of us see him as a gentleman :) :D 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
O'Cahla 4352 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Well said ODL. I've always tried to make each experience a pleasure for both involved. And I hope most of the MAs I've been to see had as much enjoyment as I did. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Good post ODL. But as long as you are the best client you can be, in other words a gentleman who completely respects a lady's boundaries you have nothing to be sorry for. And if a lady you see chooses to put restrictions on what she offerred in an encounter, you will still continue to see her, so she won't feel economically pressured to perform services she no longer wants to do then you have nothing to apologize for Be the best client and gentleman you can be. From your post I'm guessing you are. If you are a gentleman, you have nothing to be sorry for. RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Good post ODL.But as long as you are the best client you can be, in other words a gentleman who completely respects a lady's boundaries you have nothing to be sorry for. And if a lady you see chooses to put restrictions on what she offerred in an encounter, you will still continue to see her, so she won't feel economically pressured to perform services she no longer wants to do then you have nothing to apologize for Be the best client and gentleman you can be. From your post I'm guessing you are. If you are a gentleman, you have nothing to be sorry for. RG I agree with everything Roaningguy said. Big hugs to you and all the men who treat us like ladies. Thank you, to the gentlemen who make our jobs so rewarding. Please remember there's more gentlemen out there than people that try to push the limits. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ot**w***og****n Report post Posted March 29, 2013 (edited) Every lady/SP is somebody's daughter and as such I treat them with respect, dignity and courtesy. Limitations established by her are always adhered to without question. As I stated previously in other posts dealing with unprotected services, I respect and support anyone's boundries. Like many of the gents here at CERB I make an effort to be the best client I can be and have done so all along (25 + years) with my companions/friends. That's all I have to say on the subject. Edited March 30, 2013 by Ot**w***og****n Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MightyPen 67414 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Thanks ODL, for a heartfelt feeling honestly expressed. It's too bad we're so often discouraged from such honesty. I've had many experiences with SPs, and the vast majority of the time it's a tremendously rewarding experience of real intimacy, openly expressed passion, and mutual caring. Just because the circumstances are artificial and the time has a boundary, doesn't prevent it from being a real and valuable human interaction. I appreciate the talented SPs I've seen for the experience, both while it's happening and for the days afterward when my sense of well-being is so buoyed up. I've been a bit shaken by those same threads on protected vs. unprotected services, and like you I will continue to take great care that my SP companion's boundaries are always respected. I'm really glad I live here in Canada where sex work is legal, and therefore a little more open and a little bit safer for everyone. Let's hope things progress further so that this awesome service can cast off the last shadows and lingering stigma. Then more people can discover its value, and appreciate the striking talents that SPs bring to bear not just on titillating sex, but in satisfying the deep thirst for a healing human touch and gentle intimacy. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livefast1098 2151 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Wow! My BBFS thread and Peachys BBBJ one have really made everybody super sensitive! I guess we can't move on to "humour" just yet! Let me know when the minefield has been cleared ... I'll be the one in the Dog House! in the meantime ... Happy Easter everybody! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tsukiyo_Chevalier 3242 Report post Posted March 29, 2013 Again just to clear things up i am not saying sorry for anything about my self as i know i have done nothing but treated every lady with respect and dignity , i am not trying to be an ass kisser at all, as one person said. In my life i have done nothing but worked with people to help them through the hard things in there lives and some of the stories that the other SP have been through has made me want to say sorry just as a form of empathy and understanding only, and i must admit that the ass kisser comment did hurt as it was not my intent. As someone who grew up in a home with a lot of presser to be something i was not i can understand how hard it can be not the conform to what everyone else wants. and it must be even harder with what every SP goes through everyday as they are trying to make a living. My only point of this post was to give every SP out there more strength in what ever choice they make and to let them know that there are people out there that will support that choice. and i am sorry if other people thought my post was for something it was not. I wish everyone a great day and thank you for the posts 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lowdark 5613 Report post Posted March 30, 2013 :D I'm sure the number of ladies who have expressed gratitude to him for his sentiments indicates how much he and his attitude are appreciated. His sentiments echo a number of previous threads as well as feelings a good number of people have for the ladies and their integrity. Mocking him isn't going to make you any friends. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted March 30, 2013 As I have often stated, I love ass worship as much as the next girl tho I found nothing in odl"s post to qualify in that vein. I appreciate his words regardless of his intention as I would not assume such a display to have ulterior motives... cat 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OGson 178 Report post Posted March 30, 2013 just let them do watever they want....they're big girls let them make their own choices Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
