Samurai 7678 Report post Posted June 20, 2013 (edited) My wife and I have a sexual fantasy of having a heterosexual threesome experience with another guy. My wife and I had an threesome with a women, (neighbor) who we are still friends with a number of years ago and its something we look back on fondly. Of course we talked in private before hand about rules and things she'd be uncomfortable with. So there were a few boundaries but hey, my wife wants to have a threesome with the hot girl next door...I'm not really in a position to negotiate and it was amazing. Anyway, I'd like to return the favor. And to be honest. Seeing my wife in ecstasy trying to fathom the excitement of a strange hot man sliding it into her as she explodes into an eruption of squirting wet heaven while I'm sliding it into her mouth doesn't sound so bad to me. Any suggestions how I could make this a reality. With our neighbor it was just right... the stars aligned and magic happened. I'm early 40's shes early 30's and both live clean healthy life styles and work out like champs. Thoughts appreciated.... Additional Comments: Is the special guy out there? Additional Comments: I should also note that although it would be convenient, I prefer not finding a guy through cerb but instead I want to consider opinions from the cerb comunity as to which avenue to take to make this a reality. She always says " we'll if we met the right guy". So now im taking it upon myself to secretly find that right guy. Maybe i can surprise her? She actually had a dream about this the other night and woke up super horny. She's sexy as hell, around 5'-0" 100 pounds. Really pretty youthful face( still gets id'd). On line dating site? Not sure. Opinions appreciate. Additional Comments: We're both respected professionals, have children and live a healthy lifestyle. Not sure if that has relevance here but there it is. Edited June 20, 2013 by Samurai grammer 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Samurai 7678 Report post Posted June 21, 2013 I would like to thank everyone who PM'd me on this. Funny tho. Seems no one whats to publicly touch this one with a 10 foot pole. haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
steveyK 4311 Report post Posted June 22, 2013 I have the same fantasy for my gf , I agree it would be too hotttt!! I don't know how you would go about it though, especially if you want to stay off CERB. Your best bet is to find an SP (female) and ask her to bring a male friend or send one. There are posts in NB about this, Fireman somthing. This is the easy way. The hard way is to hit the bars and your wife puts herself out there and someone takes the bait...but this way is less safe for you and your wife wrt std's and notoriety. I would stick to CERB... Hehe maybe my gf and I should come down?? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wellhunghfx 294 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 Funny, Me and my wife have just started looking for the same thing. we signed up to aff and got a membership. So far it looks like the best route. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113931 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 I had, I must stress had a membership here and I wish you all the best..... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungBeautyMirella 5600 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 I do not think cerb is the best place to look for this if you wanted a female for just regular place, but I am certain you can find a man on here that will very EAGERLY be happy to fulfill yours and your wife's fantasy! :) You two should also try lavalife! I have some GF's who go on it,it may be better in the sense of lot's of pics and also info of what they do and do not want etc for your wife and you to browse,as opposed to cerb being an SP/MA community! Good luck!!! Have fun ;) xox 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
halifax76 2855 Report post Posted June 30, 2013 Hi there, Just to offer a bit of ease in this matter and save all the hassle of dating sites. There is quite a large group of swingers in the HRM. They also hold a once a month get together. They have a dance at a hotel where you can say hi and get to know people. This may be an option for you. There is no pressure to join anyone if you don't want to. It's not like porn movies. Your standards, your rules. You decide. PM me if you want some more details. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
