Looking for ultimate escort

[MNO4 789]

I do not kiss sps providing bbbj

And I don't pick up in bars

And am slow to start personal relations

There is lower risk to bbfs compared to bob Greek

And rimming - huge hep risk - which can be fatal - that's accepted

Digits - with abrasion that could be small that puts us into HIV category again

 

But this is not personal

We can set up

Whatever rules on the board or for our personal lives

But as unpopular as the thought is - its risky

 

And once accepted here puts pressure on other sps who might not want to do it - to do it

 

It's all one big continuum of a slippery slope

As unpopular as that may be

[fortunateone 156618]

You describe this as the "ultimate" escort.

 

Here are a few synonyms for "ultimate" that may end up describing your ultimate "unhappy ending". Extreme... Final... Last... Terminal... and Ending.

 

 

 

plus one

 

 

I read thru 3 pages of posts, and still come back to the word in post number one "most" .

 

"most" sps don't offer bbfs. No kidding, really? From the complaints of many sps tho, rarely a day goes by that someone isn't calling asking for it, which is a sad sad thing. Imagine how desperate or how little self confidence his 'ultimate' now retired sp must have in order to provide this 'ultimate' service. Fear she won't get repeat clients, fear she might lose the regulars, fear she isn't worth not providing risky services or no one will like/pay/see her?

 

Thoughts like that run thru my head.

 

 

And yes, there is no reason to side track this bbfs talk into a bbbj talk, which has been well discussed, and well documented, and really as someone who understands the risks well, I don't appreciate anyone coming in to say it is the same as kissing or not a high risk activity. It is, but people do it anyway, enough said. Like bbfs, 'most' people understand it is a high risk activity, but they do it anyway, and 'most' people will get thru it without any problems, but some won't.

[Sweet Emily J 172062]

And once accepted here puts pressure on other sps who might not want to do it - to do it

 

It's all one big continuum of a slippery slope

As unpopular as that may be

 

I assure you I will never feel pressured to offer BBFS if I heard and read about other ladies offering and profiting from it. It is just not something I would be comfortable with providing, regardless of what other people are doing. Yes, I get asked about it sometimes, but I just tell those people I do not offer it, and move on. I am completely happy and satisfied living within my own risk tolerance level rather than doing something I just don't want to do and concerning myself with what others are doing.

 

I also would not blame other escorts offering BBFS or feel contempt for them for profiting of a service that I simply do not offer. I cannot control them; I can only have control over my own choices. And I am much more happy offering the services that I feel comfortable with, making the money that I am, living honestly and being content with my decisions.

 

Others are free to do whatever they like with their own bodies! :) And I am too!

[castle 38816]

Hello, I am one of those guys that stick to one lady if she keeps me happy. After 3yrs of seeing one beautiful open minded lady, she has decided to retire. I am looking for a lady that offers bbbj, bareback fs, greek and cim. I know most don't but some are out there. If there is any lady that offers these services, please pm me. If I posted this in the wrong section, I apologize.

 

Merci.

 

You may as well save yourself some time and just close your cerb account right now. Not only will the mod probably ban you when they see this (and rightfully so). But I seriously doubt that any ladies on here will give you the time of day now. (And rightfully so). And believe me I'm not saying this to be mean or judgmental.

 

 

I understand that sex can be just as powerful an addiction as any illicit substance or drink....and sometimes addictions get away from us (I've had my own minor bout with the bottle so I know a little something about that). But I really hope for your sake that the comments in this thread make you stop and think about what it is you're risking. Not only to yourself but to others as well.

 

 

Chances are if you're taking these kind of risks then you probably have a sex addiction. And there's places you can go to for help. Such as this, http://saa-recovery.org/Meetings/Canada/meeting.php?state=ON

 

There's no shame in admitting you have a problem. Quite the opposite actually. It's much more shameful to bury your head in the sand and pretend nothing is wrong.

 

 

I don't mean to go all "After school special" on you. But there are some things out there that you just can't recover from. You only have this one life. And so do the SP's you see. Think about it, man. Please.

[Fresh start 17467]

Isn't sex suppose to be fun and relaxing? Releasing stress and pressure of everyday life?

Maybe I worry to much but if I were to have bbfs with someone who I don't know their sexual history, proof that they are clean and std free. I would also have to consider myself, how do I know I'm safe and clean. That open wound I got from work, did it come in contact with anything? To worry and be stressed out that she's not infecting me or vice versa. Would be taking the fun and pleasure out of it. Life to short to worry about shit that can be prevented. I rather be stressed about thing I cannot control in real life.

I don't see the big deal in taking an extra 2 sec for a condom and for the loss of sensation it may give, it's not a big difference. Beside sex is just as much mental and emotional as it is physical. If you can't get off while wearing one then you may have problems.

[castle 38816]

Beside sex is just as much mental and emotional as it is physical. If you can't get off while wearing one then you may have problems.

 

 

I'd have to disagree with this. I can't perform with a condom either and I don't consider myself as having any kind of problem. I just simply can't stand 'em. Which is why I do NOT see SP's for FS. And why I only reserve actual intercourse for when I am in a serious, committed, monogamous relationship (no, I don't see SP's when I'm in a relationship...no judgments being made, I'm just personally not comfortable with it).

 

 

Sex does not require vaginal or anal penetration to be considered good sex. There's plenty of different ways to pleasure each other. You said it yourself, sex is as much mental and emotional as anything else.

 

I don't think the problem is the OP's aversion to condoms. I think his problem is not being able to refrain from FS even if it puts himself and others in danger...THAT'S the problem.