Fresh start 17467 Report post Posted August 1, 2013 Consider this a cautionary tale... I have been declined positions pouring coffee, answering phones and cleaning houses in the not so distant past because I was outed as a "former" sex worker which popped up when my government name was googled. I've been told I'm "unemployable" and can't even volunteer my time with any reputable charities that aren't sex work related. One never knows what the future will bring and the stigma will be there whether your life is going well or not. If a provider ends up in front of a judge, potential employer or landlord who know their history or their present; it's a high probability that it isn't going to end well. The real threat isn't from the casual cruiser of the internet recognizing us on the street but from those closest to us handing over the damaging links to hurt us. The ex husbands, boyfriends, best friends, roomies and less than loved family members are the most dangerous. My Canadian notoriety happened because my FATHER outed my decade old history to the Globe and Mail. Please, ladies who are considering showing their faces; don't make the decision lightly. It can never be undone... cat I'm sorry but that's absolute bs to be discriminated like that. Employers should have no right to use your previous employment as a escort against you. If your qualified and professional about the job applying for there should be no reason not be considered for the position. If you ask me this sort of behaviour should violates the charter of human rights and should be modified and clearly state this in it, cause it is discriminating. Thank you Kat for charring such a story it open eye to the reality that you providers must face that as a hobbyist we can never relate to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78396 Report post Posted November 23, 2013 I would never hold it against a lady for not showing her face... it is a very personal decision with lots of things to be considered. I think it would be a bit hypocritical to hold it against a lady for not showing her face when client would never consider it.. I am always amazed at the courage of ladies to accept clients into their rooms with very little info to base their decisions on so i think it is reasonable that ladies will always want to consider their personal safety first. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
