Guest aljenkins1983 Report post Posted November 5, 2013 I'm new to the world of SPs, and was wondering if anyone (particularly SPs themselves) could help me answer a few questions.... What are the differences between a GFE and PSE? Is it rude to ask an SP about what kind of services they provide, or to request specific things? any answers would be appreciated, thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IsaMassage 54318 Report post Posted November 5, 2013 In relation to the terms I think they are pretty muxh self explanatory.. GFE : Girlfriend Experience.. you can say a more intimate encounter PSE Porno Star Experience.. a wild experience... things taken out of a porno Asking for services offered is not rude... communication is the key.. but make sure that before you contact the lady in question you read and inform yourself.. most of the time services and restrictions are on their website (if they have one), their advertising and or profiles... also refer to their recommendations as they can also help you find out what to expect from an encounter... 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mister T 45020 Report post Posted November 5, 2013 Further to what Vitto answered, there is a thread on what GFE-PSE means (but she has summed it up well) : http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=10214 Can't add much more than what Vitto posted, at the moment. And welcome to CERB, by the way! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted November 5, 2013 Welcome to cerb. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=10214 GFE and PSE are "STYLES of SERVICE" and not actual services!! You CAN NOT assume PSE or GFE include any specific services. STYLES.... Mechanical Style: This means no chemistry and just what it is (Sex) no illusion of lust or passion. GFE: Girl friend experience (Does not include specific services) this is a style of date where chemistry is tried to be created, feelings of lust and passion. Usually includes kissing and a more intimate fantasy. The lady appears (and often is) genuinely interested in pleasing you and often enjoys being pleasured as well. PSE: Porn star experience (Does not include specific services) this is also a style of date. It is not a romantic/passion/chemistry type encounter it is like what you see in the porn movies (A little dirty and hardcore) SAFE PSE/GFE: means condoms are used for oral sex (and possibly DATY protection is used) - Some girlfriends and porn stars insist on condoms for everything too guys! CONDOMS are used IN ALL STYLES (Some people assume condoms are not used with these styles as often real girl friends and porn stars do not use condoms). DO NOT ASSUME THIS AS YOU WOULD BE VERY WRONG - IT IS UNSAFE TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX! You guys who assume services are included in these styles are setting yourself up to be let down. Just because one lady offers specific services (and possibly markets it as GFE/PSE does not mean the next lady will offer the same services. They are usually similar as a really good GFE would include kissing, bbbj and some touching and rubbing to build chemistry and fantasy. If you feel she is actually attracted to you and into the encounter she may be (or she may be VERY good at her job - just go with it!) Don't EXPECT any services - always ask or research first and if you show up with bad breath, rotten teeth, bad hygiene or dressed like a bum chances are you are going to be even more disappointed. In Addition: One of the ladies PM'd me to mention that one of the reasons ladies may not kiss is from being unshaven. A lot of stubble can do a girl some major damage. I would assume this to be true with DATY as well with some. Your second question - no it is not considered rude to ask about specific services. Just remember however, do your research first. If she has a profile or website spelling out her services, and you then go ahead and ask her if she provides a specific service that she has already stated she does not provide, then it would be considered rude imo. If she clearly states "no anal", and you then ask her "hey can I fuck you up the ass", you will probably be met with silence. So, do your research first. Good luck! 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 5, 2013 Just to add to what has already been said, first read a lady's website. Some ladies don't offer a menu of services, instead encounters unfold naturally. And naturally unfolded encounters have been some of the most memorable dates I have had But ladies without menus may take offence to being asked what services they provide A morning rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest G*mi***3 Report post Posted November 15, 2013 As an SP myself, it really helps to keep me interested when a guy has read what it is I offer instead of emailing to ask what I offer. It show's that he's more serious and interested in my opinion and that counts for a lot with me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Elle Diablo 1345 Report post Posted November 16, 2013 LISTEN while speaking with a lady! Having to repeat oneself repeat oneself over the telephone is most irritating! Asking the same question in a variety of ways will not get you a different answer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
