Emma Alexandra 123366 Report post Posted January 27, 2014 This maybe a touchy subject for men but i believe it's time we talk about it. Ed-Erectile Dysfunction This is nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. Ed happens to most men if not all at some point in their life. How common is erectile dysfunction? Erectile dysfunction (ED, impotence) varies in severity; some men have a total inability to achieve an erection, others have an inconsistent ability to achieve an erection, and still others can sustain only brief erections. The variations in severity of erectile dysfunction make estimating its frequency difficult. Many men also are reluctant to discuss erectile dysfunction with their doctors due to embarrassment, and thus the condition is underdiagnosed. Nevertheless, experts have estimated that erectile dysfunction affects 30 million men in the United States. While erectile dysfunction can occur at any age, it is uncommon among young men and more common in the elderly. By age 45, most men have experienced erectile dysfunction at least some of the time. According to the Massachusetts Male Aging Study, complete impotence increases from 5% among men 40 years of age to 15% among men 70 years and older. Population studies conducted in the Netherlands found that some degree of erectile dysfunction occurred in 20% of men between ages 50-54, and in 50% of men between ages 70-78. In 1999, the National Ambulatory Medical Care Survey counted 1,520,000 doctor-office visits for erectile dysfunction. Other studies have noted that approximately 35% of men 40-70 years of age suffer from moderate to severe ED, and an additional 15% may have milder forms. Believe me when I say most of us have seen it....Seen different ways men deal with it. We have dealt with it. The thing i don't like is to be surprised and even blamed for you not getting hard. I'm sure those of you who have it or have had this happen would never want the lady your with to feel bad about herself. We as Escorts understand that ED happens. You have to understand that it happens too. It's treatable. don't be shy to tell your doctor what's going on. Don't be afraid to tell your provider either. If we are informed before the date we can prepare for it. I know it's a big thing for men to always be able to perform but we do understand when you can't. Just be nice and know that we know what ED is. Here's article on ED there's even a quiz. kisses, Emma 13 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ice4fun 78396 Report post Posted January 27, 2014 We all know Emma is correct in what she has shared. I am 53 almost 54 and I know all too well that I am not always able to get an errection.... there are as many reasons for erectile-dysfunction as there are men who experience it.... physical problems.... medical issues... mental health and stress all play a part. That said I also know that my ability to maintain or achieve an erection has nothing to do with any of the wonderful ladies I am with and I sincerely hope I have never made a lady feel like it was her responsibility to "fix" it or that my performance was in any way her responsibility. I like to think that I have been very forthcoming with this issue that "I Have" but to be 100% honest I gave come to learn either as a result of my age or my issue that companionship is about so much more than my being hard.... that great sex is mostly a mental exercise. Hey if I am wrong about this and I have been a client of yours and I have made you feel responsible or caused the time together to be difficult.... please let me know... never to old to learn. Emma... thanks for raising the issue. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Highsexdrivebabe 11800 Report post Posted January 27, 2014 Hi Ice4fun, really nice actually that U come up and say it out live. As an SP although new in the biz but still with men anyways, have experienced it and I felt more bad and sad when he would say I'm sorry, don't know what's happening... for I am there to provide pleasure and receive some in many cases. But being able to face it and expressing it is great! Wish I would get to be with U one day just because U face and cope with this honestly!! Have a great and sexy night babe! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BarrhavenWoody 10776 Report post Posted January 27, 2014 Good post Emma. I took the quiz. It wasn't very hard! haha pun intended :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted January 27, 2014 I've seen it in all ages. Sometimes it is stress, and sometimes it is medications, so sometimes it is always going to be an issue, other times it is situational. What I most have a problem with is when I don't find out until well into if not near the end of the session, that the client knows this about himself, and didn't bother to mention it to me. I like to take things slow, because in a lot of cases, things can end too soon, but a person with ED, that is someone who can take a lot more action a lot sooner, and in fact may need more action sooner rather than later in order to finish at all. Had I known going in, my session can be tailored to individual needs, for the maximum possibility of a successful ending. If I am not told until after we decide to call it a day that this 'often' happens, or not until 10 minutes before the time is due to end that this is an ongoing issue, i kind of feel that i've been taken advantage of and/or not given a chance to ensure a successful ending. Also from time to time there is a type of ED client who believes that the orgasm signals the end of the session, knowing full well it is unlikely to happen for them, or they want to switch from fs, to bj, to hj, to fs to bj and on and on, even tho i know that all that stopping and going is only making things worse. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
