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Ever thought about going the other way  

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  1. 1. Ever thought about going the other way

    • No way, never.
      24
    • Thought about it, but could never do it
      12
    • I'll do a MMF with the girl as focus, but that's it
      24
    • Want to try it once
      5
    • Already been there
      15
    • I am bi-sexual
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This one's for the boys here only. Just for fun and we may get some interesting discussion out of it - for those that can be honest ;)

 

Where on the scale do you put having a sexual experience with another guy?

 

Doesn't have to be a full blown love affair, only some type of experience. You know, maybe get some head from someone who understands your 'parts' (a mouth is a mouth is a mouth) or try catching for once.

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I have had many opportunities to be with men over the years. I worked in a gay bar as a bartender for awhile, for instance. I had many men try, but it just isn't my thing.

Sometimes I wish I was gay. All the gay guys I know are really happy and have great lives!!!

 

Seriously, though. I can honestly say that I have never had any homosexual thoughts or fantasies. mmf 3-way...done it...it was fine.

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For me, I'm straight as they come. The thought of kissing another man is - no offense to anyone - repulsive. Probably a common thought, I'm sure.

 

However, the phallus is a very intriguing sex object. Everything else attached I could do without but, when I really think about it, what the hell is so damn appealing about watching porn with well hung guys? You'd think that there would be a market for normal size weiner porn since all those monster cock vids must be making most men suffer from an inferiority complex. And many porn shoots are really a woman and a hard dick as a prop - you barely see anything else. A nice cock can be appealing though.

 

I've tinkered with the thought of a TS since the other non penis bits are female. So having the experience of getting fucked or perhaps giving head is a thought. Getting head from a gay guy might be an experience as well, but that's a tough one. Takes a great blowjob from a girl for me to get off, so who knows what the impact would be if I can't get the negative thoughts from my mind. Just close your eyes and enjoy the ride? Who knows?

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I have tried it with a TS and I was not quite satisfied like I hoped it would be. But I am always willing to try it again if I get tempted by a very good looking T-girl. I remember reading recos from Tiger claw here on CERB and would see myself in the same scenarios as him, I guess he might have got better luck then myself with is picks of the TS.

 

As for MMF threesome, I think if the girls is to my liking I would want to keep her to myself and not share. ( call me greedy if you want )

 

One thing that does cross my mind though is a threesome with a lady and a T-girl this way maybe we could all enjoy each other and satisfy our appetite for great sex.

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I believe there a lot of guys out there who are open minded but still a little aprehensive when it comes to talk of other guys. Add to that a topic that has not be included in this thread, guys who enjoy the use of toys on them. There is still a stigma in this day and age concerning anal penetration of men. I am 100% straight but very open to a lot of things. Most men are not like this, they consider the back door to be exit only! I wonder how many guys have had toys used on them and actually enjoyed it? I would really like to hear from the ladies on this one. I imagine they have some information to share with us on this topic!

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Im pretty open... Have visited with a TS... and that was fun... although I didnt go all the way... was way nervous about being on the other end... but we had fun with other things and she was very hot... Have been curious about a MMF, not sure again if i could actually take it or give it to an actual guy, or even kiss, but probably more in the oral sense...giving a blowjob with a woman...or mutual masturbation/oral...or just watching each other get off... as someone above said there is something to a nice cock.

If the TS i saw before ever comes back to Ottawa, I would probably see her again and try again... not sure if I would be able to take it, being a neurotic, inexperienced spazz that i am...but again theres other ways to have fun... been a process for me over the past couple of years of exploring my sexuality...not that im a true regular as visits have been few and far between... but its been fun too!

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I couldn't do it. Have thought about TS but... no I don't think so.:confused: I would do WWM with me the M. MMMMMM:-D

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I know there are alot more men interested then will probably reply to this thread. I have been with a man and a T-girl as you may have read in my reco's. I also have been with 2 bi-curious males at the same time...and a straight guy and a gay man at the same time...it's all just sex and you never know until you try. Most of my adventures in theses types of situations did not involve kissing...male kissing male that is..i took care of that. Like buggernot says just close your eyes and enjoy....or you could be blindfolded and never know...hehe.:wink:

kisses,

Emma

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I've been flattered to have been hit on by so many gay guys, and it is nice to know that if I ever did swing that way, there would be plenty of options. I've even been close to taking part in MMF (non-SP), but then backed out when I realized it wasn't a straight/heterosexual MMF.

 

I love pussy too much...I just couldn't do it. My ass is exit only.

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I've been flattered to have been hit on by so many gay guys, and it is nice to know that if I ever did swing that way, there would be plenty of options.

 

This is one reason why I wish I were gay sometimes. I'm sure there's some courtship or wining and dining that goes on for some gay guys, but for the most part it's, "Wanna fuck?" and simple.

 

And sometimes I wish all girls were that simple too, but then again maybe not. The world might be like this ;)

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I have tried it with a TS and I was not quite satisfied like I hoped it would be. But I am always willing to try it again if I get tempted by a very good looking T-girl. I remember reading recos from Tiger claw here on CERB and would see myself in the same scenarios as him' date=' I guess he might have got better luck then myself with is picks of the TS.

 

As for MMF threesome, I think if the girls is to my liking I would want to keep her to myself and not share. ( call me greedy if you want )

 

One thing that does cross my mind though is a threesome with a lady and a T-girl this way maybe we could all enjoy each other and satisfy our appetite for great sex.[/quote']

 

I agree with all of this. Have not had the t-girl experience though, mostly due to not being able to find/hook up with one that doesn't have some minor manly features. Must get over that hump methinks...

 

Was tinkering with the idea of a TMF threesome with one of the sp's here, but when we looked into it, became quite difficult for a variety of reasons. Ability to agree on a particular TS, the fact the more feminine they are seriously driving the cost up, where they are or when they tour, and lastly, if all those other variables fall into place, would the t-girl be into girls as well? I don't know what the ratio is, but many strictly prefer men.

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First of alll I as straight as an arrow but as adventurious as a wild Goat hehehe a horny Goat will try to fuck any thing and any species ....

 

When I was Just a lad (teen) I did a lot of experimenting with a few combinations and a MM encounter was one such thing ...... Details ommited ..... I have nerver forgotten it, I have never repeted it but not for any reason other than a lack of oppertunity, I live in a small comunity ...small in many ways :)

 

In the right place and time I would do it again especially if there were a lady or two involved.. :)

 

Loki318

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I have have done the MMF, and the MMFF, we kept our swords away from each other.:wink:

 

But once the encounter begins in a MMFF or MMF the men need to be very comfortable with each other, in a manner, that you get over shyness. In fact the ladies also need to have great rapport as well.

 

 

As for the interaction with a male sexually, it never has crossed my mind, sorry.

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Not ashamed or embarassed....

 

I have done most of it and will try what ever is out there....

 

I have been with a couple of TS....stilll looking and waiting for one of the special ones to come back to town....hehehehhe

I have also been with a guy for some circle jerks....mutual masterbation....but not much more than that.......

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I've done an MMF, but the turn-on was what happened to the girl (not an sp), her transformation into a complete sexual goddess through DP. It was unforgettable.

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Being one to keep on the look out for new experiences (otherwise life would be rather dull) I have had the opportunity for some FMF (with two lovely mature and experienced SPs) as well as a MFM encounter (with a lovely couple exploring their sexuality). Sexual experiences are just that: an exploration of the body's sensory zones: both in the giving and receiving of pleasure. Having sexual contact with multiple partners at once does not change one's sexual orientation. Rather it is an opportunity to explore how one reacts to the sexual arousal of the other partners and what they can do to enhance your own sexual gratifications.

 

Come on guys, just because there are two or more of us with one or more ladies and there are all types of sexual appendages available for kissing sucking and licking there are no challenges to your manliness: other than trying to keep up with the numerous position changes and the sexual needs of everyone concerned. Go for it, have fun!! Life is just too short to not live it to the fullest. :shock:

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the few times i have done mmf, ther was no interaction between me and the other guy at all. there was also no shyness whatsoever. I can honestly say that, although i have no interest in having any interaction with a man, the one thing that would be an absolute never ever ever ever would be kissing a guy. that is just too personal.

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I have had a few MMF or even moresomes, and generally there is no awkwardness. But you have to choose your playmates carefully and make sure they are of a like mind. There doesn't have to be full on "mano a mano" contact, but you shouldn't be freaked out by incidental contact.

 

I did do one with a buddy I worked with who was a tad homophobic and therefore we both had to stay on opposite sides of the equator, so to speak. This was to ensure that there was no inadvertent crossing of swords. But then he thought nothing of giving high fives after what he thought was a good move. That was a bit weird. "Dude that is cool!" and a high-five seemed a little out of place.

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Ah the high 5 during a MFM. It is very porno. Not at all sexy in my book but I suppose it works with the right people and a playful attitude.

 

I have participated in my private life in all sorts of combinations. I find group sex with a mix of men and women very enjoyable - especially with friends, lovers and partners I know well. It feels more organic that way. I suppose it is the experience of swinger couples in love that make it so enjoyable for me.

 

I also enjoy MFM threesomes but have not had one in sometime. Again it has to be with the right people.

 

I have not been a part of a MFM with cross over contact. This is a fantasy of mine.

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