whiteman 14028 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 (edited) There was a similar poll started at the other place, but it was a general question for all the crowds (massage, escort, stripper). I thought I'd start one here geared towards just the massage crowd. We've all seen the term, YMMV (your mileage may vary), used occasionally in reviews. I'm curious how much mileage some people actually are getting during their massage. In order for it to be a YMMV experience, it has to be something that you didn't think the girl might ever allow but she did. Another thing, it can't be something she charged extra for, it has to be given out of the goodness in her heart, through the chemistry in your souls. 8) It would be fascinating to hear some of these stories too. But please do not name any names or places, even if the girl is retired. If the place is long gone, maybe you can name the place then. Choose all that apply. I'm going to put in an "other" category in the vote, for stuff I forgot about; if you vote for the "other" category, please respond in the thread stating what these other service(s) could be. The list of services are: full nude extra time kissing (either lfk or dfk) bj (covered bj) daty (licking her) rimming (getting ass or hole licked) bls (ball licking or sucking) bbbj (bare-back bj) fs (covered) greek bbfs (bare-back) other Edited June 30, 2010 by whiteman change in the poll format Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 You forgot to add the actual poll? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 You forgot to add the actual poll? Sorry, it was just delayed a bit. Company dropped in, and I had to go into boss-key mode. ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wellie 652 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 I guess I am dense, but I don't really understand the question in the poll. :sad: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ukdiamond 640 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 sorry, but i don't quite understand it either... having said that, i want to dig a bit deeper because the idea sounds promising... is the intention that we recall a specific MP/SP ( but don't mention who... ) and then complete the poll based on a comparison of what we expected versus what we received ? help me out a bit... :bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 4 out of 7 voters reporting bbfs from MA's??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 4 out of 7 voters reporting bbfs from MA's??? I always strongly dislike these polls because they lead people to believe that you get way more out of your typical MA than you actually do. If you want FS, BJ, etc. please see an escort! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 Agreed, Megan. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kate von Katz 49953 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 I also agree. And this poll is confusing. If it's geared specifically towards the massage-goers, what's with some of the poll options? And based on the results, you guys better be giving these ladies a sizeable tip for all the "extra time" and "BBFS"!!!! Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted June 30, 2010 Being an sp and a mp. I don't like this pool either. I keep those two professions seprate. I think if you want a full service go see an sp. If you wanted more from an mp and got disappointed maybe that was your misunderstanding.? IF? something was done out of the good of someones heart. Why are you sharing this is public? People wouldn't expect more from strippers. Why do people expect more from mp's? It is just another expresshion of sexuality. If you let the girls do their job. A better time will be had by all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted June 30, 2010 I simply dislike these type of polls or in fact anything related to services from a MA or SP! It is not just going to see an MA ,an SP as well, either lady may or may not want offer more to you, YMMV. My answer is not in this poll sorry... Move on. I always strongly dislike these polls because they lead people to believe that you get way more out of your typical MA than you actually do. If you want FS' date=' BJ, etc. please see an escort![/quote'] Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***vaga Report post Posted June 30, 2010 I have to agree it could very lead to some cerbites assuming that they have a chance at getting more from their MA. Alot of the extras if we can use that term that I have gotten have been because of the bond created over time and the desire for the MA to offer more in my particular case but while always keeping her final limits very clear. This being said not all girls will offer more over time eighter. This being said be forworned guys because one of us gets extras from one girl does not mean they will all be offering extras and some girl are just willing to offer more, we think it's extras but bottom line is she was always going to offer it up. Most girls seem to be very clear about what services they offer and we simply have to respect that. If she didn't provide what you wanted thank her, tip her and don't come back and see her it's that simple. Just like the next guy I hate when my experience winds up being a bust or doesn't pan out to be what I expected or was lead to believe it could be. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted July 1, 2010 sorry, but i don't quite understand it either... having said that, i want to dig a bit deeper because the idea sounds promising... is the intention that we recall a specific MP/SP ( but don't mention who... ) and then complete the poll based on a comparison of what we expected versus what we received ? help me out a bit... No, just your accumulated experience with all MP's you've seen over however many years. Some may have given you a bit of extra time, some may have given you full nude, etc. It doesn't just mean one MP only. Additional Comments: I simply dislike these type of polls or in fact anything related to services from a MA or SP! It is not just going to see an MA ,an SP as well, either lady may or may not want offer more to you, YMMV. My answer is not in this poll sorry... Move on. That's true, a lot of people have no idea that a YMMV is not necessarily offered on the first visit ever, and often it's something that happens after getting to know each other over many years. They just think they can offer some extra money, and the service will be provided. They are not necessarily given all of the time afterward, either. Somethings just can't be purchased with any amount of money. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted July 1, 2010 That's true, a lot of people have no idea that a YMMV is not necessarily offered on the first visit ever, and often it's something that happens after getting to know each other over many years. They just think they can offer some extra money, and the service will be provided. They are not necessarily given all of the time afterward, either. Somethings just can't be purchased with any amount of money. Correct, If I was to get extra's from either a MA or SP it would never be from extra cash paid out, it would be from a genuine connection between the 2 of us. That said, I certainly would not devulge in any polls or communicate those extras to anyone, it is private between two consenting adults. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted July 1, 2010 1. If you don't hit the shower when getting in, you'll get the worst service ever... 2. If you give me attitude, I'll be doing the same and, believe me, I'm good at it... 3. If you don't respect my limits, I'll kick you out ONE TIME!!! I do believe that YMMV is not even related to services, wich are very different from one profession to another, and that in a way or another every girl is providing it... Also, respecting the girl's profession choice helps getting good YMMV... For my part, I HATE STRIPPING, AND I ONLY DO MASSAGE DURING MY PERIODS... I am an escort... A FORMER STRIPPER WON'T PROVIDE MASSAGE IN VIP, eventhough she may do it, as fs aswell, OUT OF THE CLUB... as for MP, listing of services are available, since it depends on each and every girl, and some girls are using the legal aspect of massage for in-call escorting, WICH I COMPLETLY DESAGREE WITH... Bottom line is: MA: Ask for the listing, and don't assume that she's providing fs or greek (?) on a YMMV factor... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted July 1, 2010 Correct, If I was to get extra's from either a MA or SP it would never be from extra cash paid out, it would be from a genuine connection between the 2 of us. That said, I certainly would not devulge in any polls or communicate those extras to anyone, it is private between two consenting adults. Yes, whether you decide to take the poll or not is completely your business -- of course. But the poll is completely private, no names are displayed beside their votes, and the poll question is open-ended enough that nobody knows who you're talking about. In fact, it's open-ended enough that nobody knows if you're talking about one or several different providers. And you could be talking about things you received yesterday, or a quarter century ago. It's just about stuff you've received over your entire hobbying career. Some of the questions are extreme stuff, only there for completeness. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted July 1, 2010 Yes I know the poll is private, then again so is my affairs unless a lady asks myself for a recommendation, most of my recs are time spent with SP's and there is some with MA's. This is not attack on this poll, but looking at the results so far, Kissing,DATY,BBBJ and Full Nude are on the top. Just an example, me the new guy reads this, and then what? goes to a MA and says well everyone seems to be getting all these extras "why not me" It could lead to individuals wishful thinking? Food for thought.... 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toine 30556 Report post Posted July 1, 2010 (edited) I have to agree that this poll is not informative in any real sense. It merely suggests what is the most one has been granted that was 'above the norm' of the establishment or the provider, and that may have taken place yesterday, or ten years ago, on a first encounter or only after developing a bond with a MA. In some cases, that 'extra' can be pretty tame, such as full nude when it is not the norm of a certain establishment or provider, yet we all know it is the norm 'next door' (I do not know of any establishment where the 'norm' covers the list in this poll, nor would I want to go to a place where bbfs were offered). Whatever that something extra is, it is a gift, and should be seen as such: not to be demanded, nor to be expected... Some may wonder how to increase the odds that angels will be smiling for them. The best attitude remains to be on one's best behaviour, polite and charming as best as one can be and, most importantly, to have the right mindset. If one goes to an establishment eager for that little something more, chances are the experience will be a letdown. If one goes with a true appreciation for what is normally offered, the experience will be positive and, once in a blue moon, you may leave with an extra-wide grin from having got an extra 10 minutes or a peck on a cheek :) toine Edited July 1, 2010 by toine typo... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted July 2, 2010 Yes I know the poll is private, then again so is my affairs unless a lady asks myself for a recommendation, most of my recs are time spent with SP's and there is some with MA's. This is not attack on this poll, but looking at the results so far, Kissing,DATY,BBBJ and Full Nude are on the top. Just an example, me the new guy reads this, and then what? goes to a MA and says well everyone seems to be getting all these extras "why not me" It could lead to individuals wishful thinking? Food for thought.... I don't agree that if a newbie comes in and sees this poll, that they're going to immediately demand these services with the next provider they go to see. First of all, there are no names attached here, no names of specific providers, nor of customers. So a newbie has no way of asking anyone in particular where to get X, Y, or Z services. And of course, if the newbie does demand these services, then they will never get them with an attitude like that. At best, I see this as something a newbie might see as a lesson for how far being charming and courteous (and clean) can go. I don't necessarily mean some of the more extreme ones, but the milder things like extra time, kissing, etc. Even the more extreme ones, I don't think were all that common, they may have been heat of the moment things that just happened. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted July 2, 2010 I don't agree that if a newbie comes in and sees this poll, that they're going to immediately demand these services with the next provider they go to see. First of all, there are no names attached here, no names of specific providers, nor of customers. So a newbie has no way of asking anyone in particular where to get X, Y, or Z services. And of course, if the newbie does demand these services, then they will never get them with an attitude like that. As a massage provider, I disagree. I expect ALL my clients to be charming, courteous, and clean. Doing so will get you the services I offer, not extras. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted July 3, 2010 So far there's been 6 votes for the "other" category, but no one has explained what they mean by "other". Anybody willing to fess up? Or is it too embarrassing? PM if you want. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
