A few more "thou shalt nots" from me today.
Don't demand to have my phone number. I prefer to work via e-mail until we have a firm booking. I will send you my cell number the night before we meet and I will tell you when to call me. Many escorts publish their numbers: that works very well for them. And many do things the way I do. It's a matter of personal preference.
If you say that you really want to talk to me on the phone before booking a meeting, I will remind you that I don't discuss my fee, what I look like, what I am or will be wearing, or anything erotic on the phone. When I call you, don't ignore those restrictions. Yes, I have a lovely voice and a very warm manner over the telephone. Yes, I'm bright, cheerful and reassuring. I'm glad you feel better. But if you break the rules, this is as much of me as you'll ever get!
Don't barrage me with e-mail or phone calls after I've turned you down. My statement, "I don't think we're suited for each other. Thanks for contacting me. I wish you all the best," is the end of our interaction.
Recently, I've had prospective clients inquire about meeting me for a three or four hour session the first time we get together. My preference is for much shorter, initial meetings which is one reason for asking for substantial deposits in advance of long sessions. I accept credit cards via Paypal and my cancellation policy is clearly explained on my website. Don't say, "You're really asking a lot of a guy you haven't even met. How do I know you won't just run off with my money? This could be a scam."
And never, ever say anything like, "You over-priced girls sure expect a lot." Of course we do. We expect reasonable things like that our safety, time and self-respect are as important as yours.
Don't ask for the address of my incall location so that you can "be prepared" or "efficient" ahead of time.
I tell new clients that I'm near a major intersection. I ask them to call me from an unblocked number when they're near it. Then I give them simple directions to my location. I do not want someone "scoping out" the place ahead of time. I'm in one of Vancouver's finest neighbourhoods. From the intersection alone they should know that there's nothing to worry about in terms of the local traffic and that ample parking is available (and free!).
I won't accept calls from a private or blocked number because I don't accept those calls! Period, No text messagesm either. So, don't call me over and over again from your blocked number expecting me to put two and two together, know that it's you AND be delighted to hear from you. It don't work that way! Two plus two equals I can take a nice, relaxing bubble bath in the now-free hour and a half that I'm not spending with you.
Oh, and one more? If you've never met me and we've only exchanged a couple of e-mails, don't write to me and say something like, "Aww, Sam... you know I'm a nice guy. I'm sure you can tell that already! Maybe you need all these rules for the psychos, but not for me. So relax, hon. I'm the one guy you should just know you don't need to be concerned about. Chill, babe!"
If you think I'm spending my days with psychotically disturbed men as a matter of course.... find another girl. And no, I don't think I can refer you to anyone else,