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My loves! It’s been a pleasure… I am signing off for good, wishing you all the very best and if I have had the pleasure of your company I thank you for the memories! The past 11 years I have been one of the luckiest women, what a great adventure this has been! with love xo

It's not "wrong" to ask, but in reality, the question should be "why" are you asking? It's been discussed at length I know, but I can't seem to help myself from repeating this. With only one possible exception that I've read about in the past 5 or so years, this typically only happens when you're trying to save pennies on that scandolous "LeoList witch-hunt"...and once you've been scammed/blackmailed, you haven't saved a thing... The companions with active Twitter/X accts. & legit websites/reviews are not scamming people for deposits. They are, as has been oft repeated, simply looking to confirm your name, for nothing more than their own safety. There's a lot of people out there, having a lot of fun, because verifying an established SW'er is not a challenge at all, and they don't shy away from paying a deposit... Why argue with anyone for verification when there are so many established (& "verified") companions around? Many local, and seemingly even more visiting in a fairly steady stream... Just my unpopular opinion...

I think it should be left, for the post history, for both sps and clients, for future reference

Service providers get assaulted and murdered everyday. All it takes is a quick Google search and you’ll see this happens here in Canada, the US, and globally. This is very much a real fear for us and I wouldn’t doubt almost every woman who’s posted here on Lyla, if not all, has been harmed, stalked, or assaulted by a client in some way. Don’t bother arguing with me on this forum, you aren’t changing my mind. I’m speaking from lived experience. What’s low, is denying that this is the reality of participating in this industry.

we need copies of your drivers license and to know exactly who you are because as a female it is extremely dangerous to be meeting random men online there are many stories of SP’s LITERALLY getting murdered. it’s way more dangerous for us than it is for you which is why we need much verification. You may risk getting scammed out of your money when in reality we are literally risking our lives. I’ve gotten assaulted many times which is why i don’t do outcalls anhmore and if i did i would need extensive verification to know exactly who im seeing. Even bringing them to my location i need verification. It’s scary out here as a female and the fact you’re so inconsiderate of that just shows what we have to deal with on a daily basis.

It is wrong and honestly, imo, disrespectful. The legitimate SPs have gone to great lengths to provide information to validate themselves as true and authentic. Websites, photoshoots, multiple ad platforms, social media accounts (which in today's age are super hard to maintain against the algorithm that are constantly banning us), online content platforms like OF and NLDTCONNECT and recommendations/reviews. Most valid SPs will have at least 2 or those available. Most of us have spent 1000s of dollars and hours to create this. If you haven't followed the links provided in the ad to verify them, that's on you. For the rare ad that was stolen from one platform and placed on another, most of us are google-able. If someone is new and is just building up, that will be up to you on how you want to move forward. If someone is constantly changing names, that should be a red flag it's self. If you take a couple of minutes to think with the big head vrs the little one, you should be able to make an informed decision of seeing someone or not.

It's your job to do the proper research and choose someone that makes you feel safe. A legitimate swer has already done her part proving she's real. https://www.lyla.ch/topic/214084-how-to-screen-an-indépendant/

hey guys!! I will just let you all know I am planning to work this Friday, at the moment for outcalls but I am open to securing an incall with prebookings. I would also like to add to this current thread that I have changed my hair colour to a dark auburn violet. I will provide a selfie with this post but tomorrow I will have more photos done to realign with the change Let me know, Rhyan

Most men who are engaging in this behavior are woefully paranoid. If you're worried about being blackmailed maybe you shouldn't engage in dubious activities to begin with. The simple fact is that these ladies are already at a disadvantage. It is in your interest to make them feel comfortable and safe. If jumping through a few hoops isn't for you, then maybe this hobby isn't for you either. There are plenty of ways to verify if an SP is real on your own without even asking.

There's so many amazing gentlemen out there who screen and follow our booking process without questions. They read out ads and websites and do proper research, they never been scammed. They treat us good and have an amazing time during the date. Why waste our time with the one's who give us headache with just booking lol...

We're actually looking for an assurance that you won't try to stalk, assault, or try to kill us. Most of us have experienced somethinggg that's made us need to add more screening protocols 🙄 It's not just because it's just great for business to reduce accessibility to us lmao Studies for decades have shown that this simple thing saves lives But go on, booking randos from LL who don't know to screen yet, and preaching on here like the risks with those sps are the norm among the entire industry You can control your blackmail risks by not seeing unverified providers with no established online presence. Just like we control ours by not putting ourselves in (literally THE MOST) vulnerable positions with unscreened men. AND if I hear one more thing about that oneeee provider who was scammy 🙄😂 Most of us sps have had more than one absolutely horrible experience as well. Y'all know not to book her, the same way we've learned how to screen out some of the bs that we don't want to deal with Beating a dead horse here, to the same 5 people every time

To be fair, more and more SP's are verifying themselves with social media, OF, Twitter accounts etc. the majority of the ladies I've seen recently all have "verified" using other apps etc. I haven't been disappointed in a long time by any bait and switch scams.

Bro... Who hurt you?

No one is trying to change your mind robert. Stay with your fear and leolist scam ads, we don't care... Point is. As a client it's your job to do proper research before booking. And legitimate swers have a screening process. The end. Simple as that.

Why argue with Sp's, you ask? Its a power play, and always has been I started out new and naive, and jumped through the hoops, so I can attest that the ones who requested the most of me, usually don't book, or are extremely demanding clients because they think we don't know what's unsavory behaviour yet. I did do the ridiculous plz pick me verify pics with the dates, or two fingers up, and all it did was waste my time, gain me stalkers or issues, and have more people asking for more pics because some people here like to gossip about us behind the scenes and now everyone knew that I fell for the pic collecting scam 😂 I even sent face pics.. It's been more than a decade - that was clearly unnecessary It was about power, and seeing how how we'll allow our boundaries to be pushed, before meeting, if they ever even booked. This is why this behaviour will always be met with offense from the veteran sps here. We know where this goes and no ty

Hi handsome, Let me introduce myself, I’m Brooklyn. In my 20s, university educated and residing in Halifax, Nova Scotia. I am a travelling companion and can be found mostly throughout the Maritimes. I would describe myself as a small town girl with big city dreams. I stand at 5’6” with physique that can be described as curvy/athletic. I have hazel eyes with blonde highlighted silky hair. My curves are to be enjoyed and my face is to be admired. I consider myself to be a professional companion, bringing both kindness and sensuality to our dates. I treat others with respect and am a huge believer in treating others how you’d like to be treated. Manners go a long way with me. Due to my down to earth nature and bubbly personality I consider myself a true GFE. I have been told that both conversation and intimacy with flow easily with me, making you feel as if we’ve known each other for years. I value quality over quantity and am particular with who I choose to spend time with, prioritizing longer dates so that there is time to truly enjoy each other’s company. UPCOMING SCHEDULE: 📍 Downtown Halifax: September 4 (late afternoon) to September 6 (lunchtime) FOR BOOKINGS: 📲 Text: (782)-(774)-(9674) 📧 Email: [email protected] 🆕 New X account: @brooklynxallure - last one deleted at 1k HOW TO BOOK: Hi, my name is __ (your name), my Lyla handle is ___ (your username, if any). I am __ (your age) and am ___ (your ethnicity). I am looking to book __ (desired date length) on __ (the date) at __ (the time). 💰 Deposit and screening required at my discretion ⏰ No half hours, if you’re looking for a short session, please look elsewhere Hope to see you soon, Brooklyn

Hi John007, I don't think you are aware that air canada is on strike and ALL flights are cancelled, do you? What are the other options? Buying a last minute ticket at 2500$ or driving 15-18 hours? Not every girls want to do this especially not for a 4 days tour. Yes it happened sometimes in the past that flights get cancelled or girls on stand-by don't get the seat but for sure, this air canada strike is going to cause a lot of delay because ALL of their flights are cancelled and all the girls travel with air canada..One of the girls got stuck in Regina and has to come back by car all the way to Montreal and couldn't make it to St john! Another one flight to Moncton got cancelled so she will start tomorrow because she have to drive all day to arrive there!!! So, we are trying our best considering the situation so please appreciate instead of complaining because by the time they fix this strike and catch up all the delay, it will probably affect us for the next few weeks Thank you for your understanding!

I'm going to regret posting I'm sure... It's not only a power play. You are undermining and underestimating how at risk providers are. Again as stated multiple times if you don't want to do it then don't. Asking for ID tends to make people behave better then when they are anonymous. Having someone's ID also means if there is an issue like assault the provider has the clients real info to take to the police instead of "well he told me his name was X but it's probably fake." Those are two pretty understandable reasons. Now I would hope that an SP would delete your ID and not keep a record of it after you see them and all goes well but I don't know and assume most probably keep it for some time at least. You have to decide if that is worth the risk when you go to book. And to the original topic I think it's fine to ask for verification for lesser known providers who only post on LL. The providers with websites, reviews, active social media, etc you shouldn't ask because you can verify yourself through those channels.

Coming from the loudest fear mongerer here 🙄 It IS about power, you're completely right.. And also completely wrong If we reveal ALL of our safety practices and the why, on a public forum, y'all will find ways around them and further risk our lives, homes, and general safety 🙄 We do need to keep some mystical magic about us, for our own safety lol This used to be commonly understood, back when lyla was cerb It's been elaborated here enough that any newb to the forum should get the idea, but if you're still lost, look up any ture crime doc on murdered sps, and see why we screen, if you don't want to believe our lived experiences while we're ALIVE to tell them 🙄 If you can't comprehend why women meeting strange men alone for naked endeavours might want those men to not be anonymous, then this clearly isn't the hobby for you 🤷

Sell your identity 😂 be for real. You should worry about facebook actually selling your real life data more than us just having your name or drivers license.

Yes, because that type of shit really does happen Wether it be asking for I d, a photo, deposit or whatever one needs to feel safe I for one will NOT invite anyone into my personal space without a deposit and will NOT book with private/fake numbers My safety is the upmost important thing to me, I have dealt with a few crazy men it's not nice I will also book or not book based on the energy, if the gentleman is aggressive with the conversation and doesn't respect my boundaries I will NOT see him If the person contacting me is not comfortable providing the information required they are welcome to see someone else The least you can do is do your research on the lady before booking her

I’m always happy to send a verification photo - that doesn’t mean including my face, but I do not edit out my identifiable tattoos and am happy to write a sign of their choosing/pose with something specific that can’t be faked. That said, I do find it offensive to continue to ask for photos, ask for full nudity or special outfits for free. I’ve done my proper verification, provide reviews, and through tryst was ID verified. I don’t have a website, I prefer to stay quite a bit more private. but I also do not ask for their ID or a deposit unless they are asking me to travel an extensive distance. I do sometimes ask for an uber to be booked, as a form of deposit that is of no benefit to me, other then assurance they won’t fall asleep or change their mind by the time I arrive. This is only for first time, late night requests typically. when it comes to multiple verification requests, it’s typically somebody trying to mess around unfortunately.

Don’t forget to book with me 😘

The escort verification debate boils down to two sets of risks: clients worry about being scammed, blackmailed, or losing deposits, while SPs worry about being stalked, assaulted, or worse. From the client’s side, the safest move is to choose established providers with a consistent online presence—websites, socials, and reviews—so that verification isn’t even necessary. If you still want reassurance, it’s fine to ask once, politely, and keep it minimal—something like a non-face note photo. Demanding nudity, special outfits, or endless free verification is just exploitation and a waste of time. If the provider requires screening or deposits and you’re not comfortable, the solution is simple: move on and book someone whose process fits your comfort zone. From the provider’s side, the best practice is to publish static proof once—via ads, socials, reviews, or a website—so you don’t have to repeatedly prove yourself to each new client. Setting clear boundaries around deposits, screening, and acceptable forms of verification cuts down on friction and weeds out time-wasters or power-testers. Both sides need to respect each other’s boundaries; asking isn’t inherently wrong, but bad asking is. In the end, if the fit isn’t there, walk away without drama. And beyond all of this back-and-forth, there’s a blunt reality: by participating in this activity at all, both SPs and hobbyists knowingly step into an environment with inherent risks. Each side chooses to accept that exposure, and while everyone wants to minimize the danger, the truth is that no policy, deposit, or screening process fully eliminates the gamble. Good luck figuring this out—because the risk never disappears, it only shifts.

Counter point. I hand my ID to people all the time. Some ask for it when you pay by CC. Some ask at the liquor store or a bar. Car dealers take it and photocopy it. Tattoo shops make a copy. I've sent pictures of my ID via email (which is not secure). I've uploaded photos of my ID online for various reasons. Hell people lose their IDs all the time and they don't panic. They just go buy a new one and don't care what happened to the old one. So ultimately what is a provider really going to do with your ID? Don't send it to some random provider on LL you don't know but if you've done your research on a specific provider and they are reputable like several in this thread (Ms Manda, Pamela Luscious, etc.) you really think they are going to try and ruin your life over $500 just for fun? No. Because it looks bad on them too and how they conduct business and it will impact them. They will only use it if they have to in situations such as assault.

Just checking in. I've been away for so long. I'm considering seeing those I've met previously. Let me know if you're interested. Pictures for respectful inquiries. Pre-booking only. In-call and out-call with screening.

So DONT contact someone that requires I.d or deposit problem solved!!! It's really that simple

I am just making a post letting everyone know I only started back up here on Lyla not even one month ago. I haven’t posted on Leolist at all in years, to this day. I only accept Tantra clients through Lyla PM and I have a strict booking process. Here are some of my reviews as well: https://www.lyla.ch/topic/199173-sweetie-•-latino-•-ll-•-1762/?tab=comments#comment-947452 https://www.lyla.ch/topic/198799-sweetie/?tab=comments#comment-896312 ❤️ Tantric Healing Sessions Are Back ❤️ Step into a calm, softly lit space filled with meditation music, incense, candles, and aromatherapy (scents can be removed if you have sensitivities 🌿). My sessions are designed to guide you into deep relaxation, sensual healing, and ultimate pleasure through a blend of tantric techniques. ✨ What’s Included: Full body tantric massage (head to toe) Guided tantric breathing Sensual touch therapy Lymphatic drainage & relaxation massage Temperature therapy with warming gel Gentle head massage & energy healing Intimate connection woven throughout the experience 💫 Session Flow (1 hour): First 20 min: Back body focus Second 20 min: Front body massage & connection Final 20 min: Deeper tantric release & full experience FS HE. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ note: 10-10-10 is hh, 20-20-20 is 1 hr session, 30-30-30 is 90 mins. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 💕 Rates: 30 min: 300 1 hr: 400 90 min: 700 (Oral not included — available for an additional 100 if requested.) 📞 Booking: Please provide your name, age, ethnicity, preferred session length, and a contact number/time to confirm your appointment. Thank you❤️ I am working on a booking website and once that’s up I will be posting real advertisements again❤️ For now to get ahold of me PM’s are the way to go!

Happy September 🙂 I can’t believe it’s already the end of summer! This summer was amazing, but way too short. I want to thank everyone who has booked with me over the last few months, you guys have made my return so lovely! Thank you all for your understanding and patience ♥️ I’m still a bit overwhelmed with emails, so if you’ve reached out and haven’t heard from me, please please try again. September availability Thursday 4th 10am-11:30am/5-6pm Tuesday 9th 2pm-6pm Wednesday 10th 10am-8pm Tuesday 16th 10am-8pm Friday 19th 12:30pm-8pm Saturday 27th 10am-4pm/7-8pm Tuesday 30th 10am-8pm I still have pretty limited availability, so I really do recommend pre-booking. Still taking new clients! Text, email, DM for bookings and more information. Please keep in mind that I have a new number as of last summer, so email may be the best option if you’re unsure. Email: [email protected] Cheers, Emma xx

How is this a double standard? We literally expose ourselves online every single day to prove legitimacy. Ads are verified, socials are linked, we post many photos, we collaborate with others. Our reputations are public and constantly scrutinized. You, on the other hand, are hiding behind a random phone number and nothing else. You call it ‘fear mongering,’ but the truth is we are targeted. Escorts have been stalked, assaulted, and murdered by clients. That’s not overthinking, that’s fact. You asking me to just hand out selfies, my hotel room number, or my ID is reckless. I risk losing my safety, or worse. Those are not the same stakes. And please stop comparing this to hiring a deck builder. No deck builder is meeting strangers behind closed doors in a stigmatized industry with their body on the line. Screening is not a power play. It’s a survival tool. So yes, we screen. If that makes you uncomfortable, this hobby isn’t for you. White male privilege is assuming you can dismiss women’s safety because it doesn’t affect you personally.

It's wild how many men are so inconsiderate of our safety, boundaries and time And it's gotten worse over the years

I have admired Allie Zeon for several years and finally got to spend time with her during her most recent visit to Halifax. Allie has it all...beauty, intelligence, charm, passion and skills that will leave you breathless. She loves life and enjoys sharing her interests and passions with you. This is a woman who knows what she wants and is on a mission to squeeze every ounce of joy from life that she can. If you're lucky enough, you get to be a part of that - even if only for a bliissful moment in time. Being with Allie was a bit of a blur for me but time also seemed to stop as I got lost in her world. She is a passionate lover who is all about you. From the moment I laid eyes on her - she is all of her pictures and more - to our last hugs and kisses, I was hopelessly lost. If any of the above appeals to you, you can't possibly go wrong spending time with her. She is genuine and enjoys pleasing and being pleased. Booking was painless, and if you can meet her very reasonable verification needs, you will be rewarded with something special. I will be seeing her whenever she graces us with her lovely presence!

Well, I wouldn't say unpopular, but not everyone shares this view. I happen to fully agree with you. SPs take risks with strangers we can't fully comprehend. If they choose not to verify themselves for legitimate or less savoury reasons, or require a deposit and that doesn't jive with someone's preference then those folks should move on to someone more accommodating or more easily verifiable through other means. There are lovely verifiable women throughout this board, and many visiting beauties who rock our worlds...all we need to do is respect their person, their wishes and their boundaries.

Texted pic of her.

Unclear at this point hence my first comment. And then Robert turned it into a witch hunt again...

You should be more worried about your wife going through your phone and having to sleep on the couch for a week than worry about us screening tbh. Be scared of your own wife, not us.

This thread needs to be thrown right in the trash where it belongs, I can't believe it's still going 🗑 The ignorance and lack of respect towards us is fckn sad But threads like these show people's true characters thank God for that

so we can give a trusted person your full name in case we end up disappearing so at least justice can be served in the worst case scenario… or if you decide to stalk, threaten, harrass, we have your name to take action. this attitude, way of thinking and behaviour from you is absolutely absurd.

100% noted to never offer you any type of services! thanks for showing your true colours on this post babe❤️ xoxo

Sure but let's say I send a fake ID to a provider. Scenario 1: I just used someone else's ID. Either someone I know or a random ID I found on the internet. I arrive at incall and they look through the peep hole and I'm a different person so I get refused service. Or they come to outcall and I open the door and am nothing like the ID and they refuse service. Scenario 2: I have a good fake with my picture but fake info. I assault the provider. They report me to the police who will run the ID but it comes back fake. They run my picture and find my real ID. I'm arrested. Scenario 3: an ID I found online but the pic looks close enough to me that I get away with it. I guess you get away with it and get someone else in a lot of trouble potentially. But honestly in this case I feel like the client would just go for an easier target unless they had already done all the work to find a doppleganger ID. Asking for ID is for their safety as it will likely stop most of the creeps and guys who mean to harm the provider because it would just take a lot more work to get through the screening. Now the conversation about keeping the ID is totally different and I'm sure different providers have different policies for that. Again I would hope they would delete the data after the session but I'm sure not all of them do. But what are they really going to get with an ID? Sure they could sell it but to who? They don't have your SIN. I've emailed copies of my ID for other things and email isn't secure. When you buy a car they copy your ID. People lose ID's all the time and just get replacements so I doubt there's a super lucrative business out there for providers selling pictures of ID's.

Well...I just got caught up on this thread over more than one cup of coffee...and while I'm sure I'll regret commenting at all, I am confident "over-thinking" is not the issue here...quite the opposite seemingly. The only "fear mongering" I recall reading above is coming from a client, who depsite claiming to have given out his ID more than once, has not done so in a manner that would prevent the use of a fake/alternate ID, which is easily achievable, as those who have followed a SW'ers suggested screening processes are well aware. With very few exceptions, I "only" seek to spend time with obviously legitimate pro's who desire screening, for my own security & peace of mind, as much as theirs...the words "obviously legitimate" being paramount here. I'm on board with @TommyRuss who said it best so far..."Can confirm those of us who follow the required booking process are treated to an amazing time!" This. All. Day. The choice, & "power" is in fact, in my hands...screen as requested, and reap the rewards...or don't, and walk away...🤷‍♂️ Adding my two cents...the dead horse isn't much more than a stain on the highway at this point...

Can confirm those of us who follow the required booking process are treated to an amazing time!

I mean.. We don't have to ask for money up front lol Many great clients love to prepay, and you never hear of us stealing their prepayments 👀 You're trying to pull a power play in a place where the providers are mostly verified This rant might be more suited for the craigslist crowd

Wish you had incall more often. Very pretty!

to my knowledge their isn't any in Moncton or elsewhere...they are beautiful ladies working the food industry!!

Another very real reason collecting real information is important. What if there is a medical emergency? We will have the basic information to provide the medical team so you don't show up at the hospital as a John Doe and your emergency contact(s) can be notified through the medical team.

Hi! Just wanting to clear up some confusion. I’ve been to Benna for services in the past, she is 100% legit and proffesional and would be embarassed to even see herself on this site! She does NOT, 100% NOT offer services that us SP on lyla provide. ! ❤️ despite that, she still gives amazing regular services which i highly reccomend to anyone! 🥰❤️

Not sure what job I did… Other than supporting both local and touring providers. Lots of amazing choices out there. For the most part, I think that Halifax has a respectful group of gents that appreciate the talents of these lovely women.

Maybe it is just me but... I find that when it was Cerb previously and it had the chat room, it drew a lot more people in because you had the opportunity to chat with people prior and get a sense who best suits what you are looking for or what the lady or gent is like or offers. Maybe if the chat came back it may liven the site up a bit more again but... yes the site is very quiet. I barely post here anymore but... I like to come on and catch up with those that still do use it.

She does facetime verification, no deposit required and I got GFE (for extra)