So right you are! Saucy it is.
The too seriously self-indulgent/emotive stuff is NOT sexy. The light touch is so important, esp. in things sexual. The lightness of being, the playfulness of innocence, always with more to do but never done. Now that's fun :razz:.
The heavy-duty folks who can never leave anything left on the table miss the secret of it all, LOL. The literalists, yuch!
Now, to "throw the cat among the pigeons" for the others, take a look at this gal's song, the spinster gal, the ugly duckling, the one who has had a lifetime of abuse heaped on her and has never even been kissed by anyone...but when she opens her mouth....:shock::-D Man do I love this!
http://buzz.yahoo.com/buzzlog/92464?fp=1
http://vodpod.com/watch/1520172-susan-boyle-at-britains-got-talent
The voice of an angel. Brilliant. Just LOVE the first five seconds when she starts, then the the quick shot of the blonde doll's reaction. Juxtaposition: the ugly duckling vs. the doll. Who do you love? Man I love this! What a paradox.
Pink Kitty always goes on about some SP who is going to "blow your mind". Well, this gal does "blow" my mind, LOL. Best "blow job" ever, ROFLAMO. She "dreams a dream that love would never die...." :!:
Listening to the first five seconds of her song is better than sex.
And what about this guy? Not sexy in the least, but the "mouse" that roars. Just listen to him when he gets going at 1:11 and 2:04. When this guy, Paul Potts, the loser cellphone salesman, finishes and Simon Cowell et al start to give their verdict, just look at Potts' face and eyes very, very closely as they are about to judge him. See the wounds. Like Jesus, I would think. It was Easter, wasn't it?
Two beautiful, beautiful human beings, and that's "sexy" in it's own weird and wonderful way. Man are they attractive! What a mystery. Love the paradox. Having lots of fun throwing a spanner in the works here, LOL!