You should be unapologetic for your rant.
If one needs to get in the mood, don't self-medicate. Leave it to the professionals and let them do what they do best. If one look at the person your meeting doesn't get you in the mood, you picked the wrong babe.
Don't care what anyone says, alcohol dulls the senses. Sex is about experiencing erotic pleasures of the mind and body. I for one would want to enjoy to the fullest extent every thought, word, touch, suck, nibble and lick.