I am a new user who joined last month. After poking around and learning from others, I?ve decided to start contributing to share my perspectives and experiences. This is my first post.
I?m in my early 50?s, my S.O. relationship is under reconstruction, and I?m really questioning things I?d always taken for granted. That?s a lot of crap floating around in my head, but fortunately it motivates me to live a little more in the moment. I mean, fuck, if I can?t enjoy each day NOW, when will I? I stumbled across CERB in August and my first impressions bordered on voyeuristic ? all these juicy details, the women, stuff happening right here in Ottawa! That was fun for a bit, but then I wrestled with actually joining and becoming a ?hobbiest?. Was this wrong? What about my S.O.? How would this change me?
It?s all still a work in progress, but I look at ?hobbying? very differently than just a month ago. The women I?ve met through CERB have been friendly, caring, and talented (Michelle, thank you for the warm welcome!) while the people who write reviews have been unbelievably helpful. It truly is a community where all members ? hobbiests and MAs/SPs - gain from the sharing of information and building of trust. Also, it feels ?normal?, even sensible, to spend time with these lovely ladies so they can work their own brand of magic to make us feel very, very good.
I never thought I?d be interested to see an SP, but their liveliness and uniqueness jumps out at you from reviews and their own posts. Instead of saying ?Why would a stranger want to have sex with me??, I now think ?Whoa, she?s funny, smart, sexy AND she wants to make me feel good.?). This could get expensive! More to come ?