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The service provider amplifies the romantic situation to make it seem that she is more than just a sp, she is the ultimate girlfriend. A no-strings-attached, eager to please, and yet, completely unattainable girlfriend. I think it is a subject that should not be ignored. Myself, I have been victim to feeling more than I should for a client. This can be extremely damaging, especially since professional boundaries have been constructed. Even more so is you already have a significant other that knows nothing of your pass-time/hobby/job. I consider it to be very difficult to write about such a touchy subject, even a misuse of language could offend. However, the GFE phenomenon and its consequences are very real to this community. :oops:

"whats in a name?" said a great poet.... It came to mind reading a new thread about our handle origins that a year ago on December 6th 2008 I turned over a new leaf and took on a different name. Before i went as Chantilly...it was assigned by a wannabe-pimp when I was just starting out trying to go with an "agency" after answering a Kijiji add looking for new girls. I remember it was a week or so before the infamous OC transpo bus strike. I had quit my retail job to further pursue escorting full time when I met with a Toronto agency and was "assigned" more or less the name "Annessa"...I kinda hated it at first,...actually no, I REALLY hated it! I wanted a fun name...something that ended in a "ee" sound....Little did I know that I would have stuck with this name that had grown on me like a new best friend even after leaving that agency and going indi again....and I'm so happy that I did (keep the name AND leave that agency, haha) I cant comment on any other SPs but the ideas that we use what are perceived as "fake" names always makes me cringe slightly.....as Annessa has become every bit a part of me as my birth-name has....just under different circumstances, lol....i even turn around when I hear someone call out "Vannessa!" to another stranger on the street! That being said I think its prety common knowledge that all us SPs use aliases ....any interesting stories, ladies, about how you feel about the differnt name-tags we;ve had? past names and why you decided to junk them. Like I said, I was "Chantilly Wilde" before (the wannabe-agent guy said I looked like a "chantilly"...yah...ok...and apparently I was someday going to be in a Texas porn so I needed a last name..*rolls eyes*) I definitely found that certain clients who saw me under that name treat Chantilly a lot differently than they do Annessa....but then again, maybe thats just the fact that Annessa doesnt deal with the same BS as Chantilly did, lol

Why only a few recommendations? Because I think a lot of people don't like to get into "lists" or "comparisons" or whatever, because you will always leave some deserving people out and thereby risk hurting their feelings and pissing them off. And who wants to do that to any classy SP? So, in addition to those mentioned, sure, there are a number of classy SPs besides Annessa. Who probably haven't been mentioned here for the reason just noted. Annessa's certainly one of the most popular in that category and all that has been said about her here is true. So, if you start there, you won't be disappointed. Once you do some exploring on your own, I'm sure you'll find others. They're out there.