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This is a great attitude. If an sp provides dinner dates she has social rates, and they are also in place to help reduce or eliminate line blurring. If a client is in search of more social time, she will work out an option that benefits both. It is rarely double the GFE hour rate, but a much lower consideration per hour with the understanding that that time is sociable, like with dinner or lunch. That is, after all, her occupation. These are attractive women. A lot of guys, client or not, are asking them out. It is not as though she is lacking in friends or personal social contacts. If a client asks her out without acknowledging she does have a social rate for "dates" he puts her in the awkward position of either bringing it up herself, turning him down, or going anyway under pressure of not wanting to appear to be allaboutthemoney.. Once it is dealt with, she is free to go or not go, charge or not charge, at her discretion. A lot of guys spend more than an hour with sps, 3,4 or 5 hour session appts are not all that unusual. They are not paying her to be their friend, they are paying her to be their companion.

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Why in the world would anyone want to cease participating in a natural, healthy activity like sex? There are so many benefits to having an active sex life! There are orgasms, chills, goosebumps, tickles and even slaps that surely feel better getting than not. Life is so damn fleeting, I think the best thing we can all do for ourselves is to continue to partake in fantastic, mind-blowing sex. Have fun while you still can! There is so much atrocity and tragedy that occurs on Earth on a daily basis. I suspect that if more men would shrug off their tired, old morals and call one of us for some good old-fashioned fun, this world would be a much happier place. :grin:

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No offense to the OP, but I have also seen a lot of reviews of a negative nature reminding guys that they get what they pay for and Too Good To Be True regarding the sorts of specials that are so drastically lower than average. If these are sps who would not normally have half hour rates, and their regular hour rate is 200, then I can see it being a fantastic offer. Normally they would be charging 120 at least. But if it is not someone reliable and reputable, all too often what you hear is that it is a rushed service usually less than the promised half hour or there is no GFE included, there is nothing in the way of extra services at that rate, and if the client does want those extras then the price will go up accordingly. Or by client #7 she is lets him in, strips, lays on her back and stares at the ceiling until he is done. In other words, if you see such a special offer, book earlier appts and ask questions about what is or is not included for the special rate. ;-)

Hate to sound arrogant, but my time and personality is worth something too. It is no different for me than doing business with anyone. The guy that fixes my car, the girl that cuts my hair, the RMT that gets the other kinks out - if there's a good, friendly connection there and a mutual desire to hang out and chat outside of a professional environment, it would be ridiculous for me to compensate them for their time. And I view this as the same situation. I have no desire to make friends with someone who does not want to reciprocate. And honestly, when those occasions do arise, the last thing I am thinking about - or hoping for - is a 'pleasant surprise'. No currency on the table...not money and not sex. Two people wanting to spend time with one another with no expectations other than casually enjoying themselves. But like I said before, this is my own personal way of thinking - what anyone else does is their business and that's cool too. And I rarely initiate going down that path, only if it seems obvious that it was wanted in the first place.

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interesting thread topic. I will say that I have dealt with some clients who are serious sex addicts and this is no laughing matter...it can be very dangerous. Trusted clients (whom I would almost call lovers) would turn from good people to crooks overnight. i remember when i didnt even smoke yet used to be the in-between as a teenager for a friend who sold pot and other things.....the return clients who would prove honest at first would eventually come back and ask for weekly fronts......delay paying because their wallet got stolen/ they were waiting for a cheque to come in/ got ripped off by their boss/ whatever story they had to not pay.....an uncontrolled addiction ....which is an oxymoron in itself (of ANYthing) will cause any honest person to burn whatever bridge possible to get what they want eventually...as every addiction has a price. whether it leads to a client digging himself and his family into debt, or not paying his escort, or even worse, becoming a threat to an escort for his lack of respect due to his needs......sexual addiction is VERY serious and generally has very serious results Just because you like the hobby or can't imagine your life without it does NOT make you an addict. losing control over your hobbying and taking advantage of others involved to feed your needs......thats something to worry about...and THATS addiction. we have heard many stories of SPs who trust a regular and leave the money on the table on for the client to replace some $50 bills with canadian tire money when they're not looking addiction states that you dont have a control over your hobby......there are plenty of ppl on this board who are able to keep up with their hobbying.....just because its a sweet "high" and difficult not to repeat doesn't really nail someone as a sex addict.....just the same some of us SPs thrive on the thrill of the idea of being mysterious sex-objects out on a mission of pleasure to strangers each evening.......it doesnt mean we are slaves to our turn ons and we will never put ourselves in harm's way despite our love for sex and our job. funny, I just watched the movie "The girlfriend Experience" (the movie filmed from the client's perspective" and I irked when he talked about the constant need and "going on binges" looking for street-walkers which lead to him eventually stalking a GFE.........that didn't play the role of the more respected client at all! there are so many degrees of being a hobbyist and being a sex adict is a totally different ball-game.....and a recipe for disaster or a plead for help or a proper intervention if you ask me I completely cringe when I see an SP post that shes a horny sex addict or a member jest that they have needs and are sex addicts.......sexual addiction, as buggernot said so perfectly, is more than a need for intimacy. it may start off that way but a true addict will eventually put everything and anything that really SHOULD matter (be it family, or even the women they are supposed to be paying as SPs) as a secondary priority to their selfish addiction. True clients who have needs generally know that being selfish will not land you a repeat date.......I have cut off men who I see as being consumed by a sexual addiction as it is a red flag for problems in the future I've learned many lessons about when to notice the signs, read the excuses of a trusted client. I know better now after being ripped off an over 1k chunk last month by a retainer client who saw too many girls at a time to keep up to what his pocket could manage. Ironically i found out later from a friend that he bought coke behind my back when we were out at a club...then tried to get his money back after he had done most of it because the quality was apparently sub-par. generally when an addict is faced with the invoice for what they owe there will be every and any reason to try and barter or play down the service they have received as a final plea to not have to own up to what they walked into willingly from the start.....drugs, sex, (tempted to say "rock and roll" lol), a once trusted relationship will always be thrown out the window due to money (or lack thereof) addiction tends to present itself in many forms (as I mentiond above).......generally a client who is an addict has little respect in the end for his so-called favorite SP. And an addict usually will be the one to rip a girl off or cut his losses because its not like we're a collection agency that will follow them to the grave, right? just my two (or three) cents

Even prior to becoming an SP, I always felt more empathy to the men who sought professionals to fulfill their fantasies, desires, need for intimacy, ect. than those who sought out a second relationship with another woman. I realize that many of you feel guilty, but sex is natural! And I feel those who treat themselves to an SP rank a lot higher in my books than someone who is truly cheating on their partner by starting an ongoing, emotional and sexual relationship. Many men have high sex drives. So what? Some women do as well. But rest assured that you should feel a lot less guilty for being a healthy, horny male, who still loves his partner but needs some no-strings-attached fun. So many women cannot wrap their heads around the fact that men are able to have sex without love. I also think you're guilt may also unfairly come from North American society's prudishness towards sex. Life is short, have fun while you can.

An asian SP friend of mine worked in Calgary with 2 other girls and they were seeing up to 50 clients a day at a house in a residential neighbourhood. They were busted within 2 weeks. Fortuantely she was not there when it happened. That was her first experience working in-call. Now she is terrified to do low-key in-calls, even in an apartment. I tried to explain to her that was they were doing in Calgary was just plain stupid. Sounds to me like anyone who does high volume in a residential neighbourhood is bound to get shut down (and rightfully so). I think the key issue when the cops evaluate whether or not to bust is whether they are complaints and they are creating a "nuisance".