Guys, I wouldnt encourage her to get flax from her fellow competition. Shes new to the biz and i really think she should ween out the drama. I've sat in CRs getting dances with buds...the bouncer always comes over to make sure the girl isnt offering herself too much to the guy, its not for her protection at that point and I'll admit I've sucked on a gals tit in the CR...but kissing is something that not ALL strippers are willing to do...it makes all their jobs harder when one girl is offering it right beside them and their guy says "so wheres MY kiss eh sweetie?"
you just have to think about it like that. I'm no stripper like I said, but I know pleanty of the politics of Strip clubs between the gals...and its UGLY. I'd rather not sweet Bella have to deal with all that crap.
sorry guys but you have a differnt angle (from the chair, lol) of the way things go behind the scenes there. Not razzing on you men here just tryin to look out for her. as the CR generally has no real YMMV policy if one drunken guy sees that another girl is giving more milage because her client and her tend to click durring a dance-session more on an intimate level than what hes getting.
if you have to kiss, or rubb your pussy up against a bare leg or put your breast in his mouth or whatever your hightened milage may be above other girls in the CR, Bella, the key is discretion...do it discreetly and teasingly...no prolonged high-school make-out sessions or it will send some very bad vibes all around...well except to your client, which may be a temporary great score for more dances $$$....but in the long-run create a lot of anger and jealousy towards you amongst other girls there (especially being the new girl) that you may not be ready to deal with. I'll admit, you're not there to make friends, but I've heard of some girls going through some very drastic measures to ween out their cometition (ie. claiming they saw a client finger you etc) you DONT need that.
my two cents, I'd like to hear another dancer or lady chime in here not just the guys who say its ok....frankly, I think this is a question that should have been posted to the ladies only, as only other girls or other dancers will be able to give her an honest (and non biased) opinion