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Well, no, but you would ask your family doctor for a referral to someone who offers different services (ie. ob-gyn, urologist, oncologist). We're not all cookie cutters of each other, offering the exact same experiences. If a client wants to see another provider, I'm more than happy to provide a reference because: 1. It establishes contact with another SP, and encourages that SP to give references him/herself. Pay it forward! 2. It shows that the client is willing to go through the reference procedure. I just don't understand why some people have such a hang-up about them - they ensure everyone's safety. Reviews/recommendations are a way of clients to refer a lady, if you think about it. 3. Refusing a (good) client a referral makes me look like a jackass, and probably ensures that he's going to think twice about booking me again. Possessiveness just doesn't mesh with this line of work - I'm certainly not exclusive with a client, so why should he be exclusive with me? 4. If a petite brunette is what has you hot and bothered right now, I'm not going to be able to fulfill that desire. Plain and simple. On that note, I appreciate a note from the client in question asking if it's okay to use me as a reference. Not to ask permission, per se, but it's a sign of respect. You wouldn't give out a work reference without giving that person a heads up that they may be getting a call.

Vanessa, when you say this: "how ever I am puzzled regarding all of the the unprotected activities people are willing to take part in ..so my question is this (to the SP's)....do these "no restrictions" policies apply to whomever you meet with????", it does sound like your judging a bit... But that's ok. ;) I have of course some restrictions but only a few. I'm not comfortable discussing publicly what they are but I still can answer some of your questions. First of all, just a little clarification: it would be nice if people stop assuming that SPs who are more "liberal" only care about making good business. Some of us want to enjoy ourselves sexually as much as possible and that's why we share some specific intimate acts with the men we meet. For example, I really like kissing and that's the main reason why I offer it. I voluntarily meet only a few men weekly so the "volume" is not an issue for me. Would I be so open if I was seeing several men a day? Probably not. Do I offer the exact same type of service to every men I meet? No, I don't. I'm hoping the people I select are smart enough to understand that chemistry and personal hygiene plays an important part in how I will interact with them. Don't get me wrong, I always do my best to please whoever I spend time with. But that "best" is influenced by the context of the encounter and it's only natural that the more we hit it off, the more giving I will be. I never had a situation where my partner told me they were upset because I did not do this or do that. I never even sensed it. If the day comes when someone tells me they don't accept my personal limits, I will have to explain to them that eventhough I'm an escort, I'm first and foremost a human being.

Veronica Sway, great behind very toned lady!

To be honest, yes, it can sometimes be a little disappointing. A brief anecdote: Shortly after I started working as an escort, I met this man with whom I shared incredible chemistry with. Without going into details, our encounter was very passionate and intense. I saw him again several months later and he had completely changed his approach. After feeling guilty towards his family and putting in question some of his choices, he had decided that even though he would continue to meet SPs, he would from now on play very safe. In other words, and as some of you guys would say, there was not much left on the menu! hihi I thought it was too bad (for me anyway!) but I totally respected his choice and we continued to see each other for a while. Bottom line: the most important thing is for my partner to feel comfortable and satisfied. That is, after all, the reason why he pays for my company. If I can have my personal desires fulfilled at the same time, it's just a bonus.