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Hello hnh, In my opinion it is simply a matter of respect for the lady to have her permission to review, and also for her to be comfortable with certain details of the review. Someone said it earlier in this thread, we are not dealing with used cars or appliances here, we are dealing with real people who have real feelings - beautiful, open and real people. I have met allot of people in life and I can honestly say that I have met some of the nicest and most genuine in this hobby. Relative to the issue of negotiation - I personally just find it without class to attempt to negotiate with a lady. That may sound bad to some who like the art of negotiation - but if a lady is priced out of your range - why bother? There is plenty of variety. I guess it all comes down to a few basic principles: Always treat the lady with respect and surely she will do the same. Always exhibit class. Always be genuine. Have fun, jman47

Reminds me of Fight Club..... The first rule of CERB is....no one talks about CERB. The second rule of CERB is ............... no one talks about CERB! ;)

I just discovered Discreet Treat Izzy's album... this is one of my new favourite pics... Mmm, mmm what a fine looking lady...

You can't have a secret society without mutant powers!

I want to just make a point here, which is the fact that "we", as in SP's & Hobbyist's, are somewhat (meaning most of us) a type of secret society if you really do think about it. We are cautious about almost everything we do & say when engaging in this lifestyle. Whether we are using alias names, screening, requesting discretion, requiring an i/c or o/c location etc...the bottom line is that we are overall trying to maintain some degree of discretion, right? So when it comes to something like bumping into someone outside of the experience, the discretion becomes vulnerable. The question of what to do shouldn't be too hard to think about whilst seeking the best answer. Just saying...:rolleyes:

Very good point Annessa. I have not yet met anyone in public....just giving my thoughts on what I would probably do. I do like your comment about treating them like any other stranger you would encounter....I often smile at complete strangers in the grocery store...both male and female. Guess I should reconsider my answer LOL But that being said...I would never approach but would be congenial if he did.

Either does the Queen of England - probably why she looks so stern.