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Carlos. I think you need to clarify what you mean by mileage. Experience? how comfortable a woman is with her sexuality? Maturity does take a part in both but I've met girls and guys who were young who had way more open attitudes to sex than many counterparts my own age. Certainly I've gotten more comfortable with experience and age.. but someone who gets into their sexuality at 50 could be just starting out on the same scale as someone in their teens. All depends when you start experimenting with your likes and dislikes as well as how open-minded you are and comfortable with expressing yourself sexually.

I have been thinking about doing a bit of specialization and focusing on the needs of dis/abled clients. A close friend of mine from high school has cerebral palsy and has a severe walking impairment. He was a virgin until he was 27. The unfortunate truth is that most people see the dis/abled as sexless, but they have needs like everyone else. So I'd like to be that open-minded individual who can help them reconnect with intimicy and learn to be sexual. Plus, I slept with my friend and it was some damn good sexin'. Also, I feel that for me, this would be a way to reconnect to sex in different ways. Consider someone who is deaf/blind: you talk using the Deafblind Manual Alphabet, using touch to communicate. I found this brilliant page on the subject: http://www.tlc-trust.org.uk/advice/page6.html I'm wondering if anyone knows of any forums relating to sex workers and dis/abled clients? Where might one advertise? Any ideas or suggestions appreciated! xx Erin

I think you'll find most of the girls are pretty good at starting conversations-- we're used to making nervous guys feel comfortable. I'm pretty chatty so I usually launch into a variety of topics. Many escorts are in this business because they're naturally social and sociable, with good people skills. My advice is to not worry about it at all, we want to get to know YOU as much as you want to get to know us. If conversation really falters I always go for: "How bout that local sports team??" :lol: Whatever breaks the ice, right? lol Too bad I know nothing about any local sports teams... Also, sps tend to be quite open-minded and up for most subjects. Just stay away from personal questions, just in case. Hope this helps!! xoxo Amelia

So true Spike and so eloquently put. I learned a lot by seeing Big Al, and feel exactly this way about him.

I really need some kind of conversation and basic connection if I'm going to enjoy the session at all. It just starts simply -- how are you? how long have you lived here? how do you like Ottawa? -- and goes from there, unfolding naturally for as long as we're both comfortable. On average, maybe the first 15-20 minutes of a two-hour appointment. I have no illusions about the depth of my relationship with an SP, but at least some friendly conversation and a little laughter lets me feel I've spent some time with a person, and not just someone's body.

I think sometimes men are just nervous. They read the site, then call you. They are on the phone, thinking oh god, I have to say something, she's on the phone, :) They, then say whatever pops into their head, which will probably be something that was on your site, because you and what they just read is what they have on their mind. If they write the question in an email, I have no idea, lol