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First, I take exception to comments that it is his military background...bullshit!!!...I was in the infantry, never any sort of the training we had would even remotely make you want to do what Williams did. By that logic, since Bernardo and Williams both went to U of Toronto, I guess U of Toronto produces serial killers...same dumb logic. It also demeans every man and woman serving/have served in the Canadian Armed Forces (some in harms way), and especially those that have lost their lives serving to make such generalizations. Williams would have done his murders even if he was a night manager at a convenience store. And his first murder victim served in the Armed Forces. Second, they finally caught him...I don't think these two murders are his first. I'll bet he has a string of bodies to his name, and I bet there will be cold cases that end up solved. Third, the speed in which he was caught and convicted. While to the layman, it may have seemed a long time, in fact the first murder was in Nov 2010, by Feb 2011 he was interviewed by police, arrested, and in October 2011 sitting in Kingston Pen beginning his Life Sentence. My sources (very reliable) tell me that Williams is in Segregation, on suicide watch, doesn't shower, doesn't take yard. Bernardo is in a completely seperate isolated area for high profile inmates...they are not in cells side by side as media would like you to believe. Finally don't refer to him as Col. He lost his rank, commission, medals. He is just Convict R. Williams RG

I have always found it funny, in a sad sort of a way, when one person comments negatively on anothers mind, body, soul or beliefs. I mean what gives one person the moral authority to pass judgement on another just for being what he/she deems to be either different or not in his taste? I understand that it "takes all kinds to make the world go 'round" but is what Luxie is speaking about not sad and pathetic? Being what I consider to be a respectful person, who happens to be male, I find these comments to be in the absolute worst taste. The fact that a lady or anyone for that matter must endure receipt of text messages, emails, etc. that are more or less derogatory drivel is appalling...at least in this mans opinion! Gentlemen, and sadly I must direct this question at the men, what do you think would happen if roles were reversed in this situation? Could you imagine the amount of threads that would be started. The amount of conversation, PM's and emails sent and received. The general uproar here on Cerb IF a SP sent a potential client a text with the words "I would love to see you but you are too big for my tastes!" I wonder how our male egos would react to being called "a fat slob?" Personally speaking I wouldn't know whether to shit or wind my watch as the saying goes! So Luxie with my last words I will offer some advice and some encouragement...if you don't mind. Firstly the advice. Forget about the ignorant, small minded people who are the guilty parties that you speak of! It is obvious that they are not worth the time, effort or trouble to give them a second thought. You are a beautiful woman and you should be proud of the body that you have...period! Now for the encouragement! Unless I miss my guess the "gentlemen" texters are probably not former male models and therefore have probably never been on the cover of GQ themselves so you probably aren't missing out on much! But I suppose it is possible that he/they look like Brad Pitt...but probably not! Chin up and take care!

I don't think you can read too much into it. In some areas of the country, adding an extra charge to specific services (like bbbj or even adding GFE to FS sessions) is fairly common. What it does is allows the client to choose the service session, and I think you can be fairly confident that an sp is not offering the service unless she is agreeable to it. If she is not, the option will not be available (there are some non-GFE FS sps for example in some mps in Edmonton. The rate is lower than a GFE FS session. There are many clients who do not want GFE, and having the GFE as an add-on means that the FS only guy does not have to pay as much as the GFE FS guy, which is fair considering he is not getting the same menu as the GFE FS guy. An sp who starts out in this way may find she does the same kind of options wherever she works. The other reason described to me by someone who offers greek at an extra charge, is the additional 100 means that there are fewer takers. This means the # of greek included sessions are fewer than if she did not charge extra, meaning that her body is not undergoing that additional stress as often as it might be. Even someone who enjoys greek is not going to enjoy it 3 times a day 6 days a week, or at the very least that will be super hard on her body, and/or she will end up not being able to do it one day but she won't know ahead of time, which will upset the client. The same might be said for bbbjs. It increases the risk of her health, so an extra charge means that not every client is going to choose to have it, so in the end she won't be doing it every session every day.

Agree. However, I admit that I am a bit biased. Having worked as an executive assistant and transcriber most of my adult working life, bad spelling is one my pet peeves. I hate to sound judgmental, but I believe its says something about a person's character when they don't take that extra care to review the spelling or grammar in their ad. If a person is disabled so to speak in this area, perhaps have another person look it over for them. When I do office work, I would never dream of submitting a report that was fraught with typos. I'd get fired! I suppose most would-be clients don't care, but I have had some tell me they chose my ad because it was the only one on CL that morning they saw, that "didn't" have typos. I think now days with a lot of younger people or people who's first language is not English, we are seeing more and more bad spelling and grammar. It's truly unfortunate, but reality. My nieces for example, use short forms when texting and in chat, and their regular writing is horrible. They don't seem to care - just shrug it off as "oh well". I see far too many people rely on spell check when words can be taken out of context or have variations in spelling (e.g. there, they're and their).

Hello people I am not sure if is just me (part of me hopes so) but lately I have noticed in a few threads very hostile comments either by the OP or as a response to someone's comment. I don't think this is right. Most of us come to cerb to forget a bit about our problems and leave for a bit the 'real world' aside so if even here we find anger or as I said hostility well , let's just say is not as fun. I know sometimes in particular situations is tough to be friendly and hold our tongue but some of those negative comments I have read really make no sense and do not affect or relate to that particular person. So I'll invite all of you (and of course will start doing it myself) to try to keep the harmony in here and I'm not saying not to express our thoughts but making an effort not to be harsh or aggressive and definitely not insulting others can make a difference in other words ... let's treat each other with respect :) I place a high moral value on the way people behave. I find it repellent to have a lot, and to behave with anything other than courtesy in the old sense of the word - politeness of the heart, a gentleness of the spirit. Fran Lebowitz