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I know that I've learned a lot of things in my time as a paid companion. Thinking about some of that made me wonder what the men, here, might have learned from time they've spent with paid companions about sex about women, women's bodies and responses about their own bodies about themselves in general If you feel that you haven't learned, or needed to learn, anything, that's perfectly okay. But if you have learned something you didn't know before, I'd love to know what that might be! Additional Comments: To be fair, I thought I should say something about what I've learned. Two things come to mind. First, I am continually and profoundly saddened by the stories men tell me about their wives' apparent loss of interest in sex over time. I believe what men tell me because I hear the same things over and over again, deeply personal, sometimes painful stories or admissions about the lack of intimacy and erotic connection in their relationships or marriages. I was married for along time, myself. I know how exhausting raising children, running a house and managing a career can be. I recall too many times when, by the end of the day, I was worn out and couldn't imagine wanting one more person to touch me, to need something or to require my attention. But sex has always been very important to me and I never wanted to do without it, so I wasn't willing to let it go. I also recognize that only some men seek a companion's services because of the loss of intimacy at home. Many men are content with their marriages, their partners and their sex lives at home, but the want something else, more variety, or to scratch an itch or two that they can't, at home. I don't judge any of these reasons for seeing a paid companion. But I do feel sorry for other women who have decided to give up on pleasure, or who for whatever reason weren't able to find it to begin with. The second thing I've learned is how many men have felt inhibited about exploring women's bodies fully. Men who thoroughly enjoy sex, who say that they're happy in general, and who seem truly to like women, but who haven't been able to have the opportunity to examine, touch, experience and talk about things like g-spots or the anatomy of clitorises. That has surprised me. I've spent a lot of time lying back and showing someone what's where and how it works or how it feels to me. I'm happy to do it. It's often a heck of a lot of fun! But, since most of my visitors are over 50, I also feel a bit sad that they haven't been able to do this before.

I try not to think too much about that since it's something that is totally out of my control. Instead, I try to focus more on finding ways to improve my own business and worry less about what everybody else is doing...lol.

Bonjour Cerb community, I am not sure if that is the place to post what I need to share, sorry if it was inappropriate to do so. I would like to say that I know that I am a big, voluptuous, chubby, fat, what ever you call it, woman. I don't need to be reminded of it by insulting anounynous emails from people pretending they saw my ads on Cerb. I promote myself with this particularity, I think i am quite well aware that i am big. I believe that Cerb has proven to be the most respectful board regarding the sex industry - at least here in Canada. If you have nothing better to do with your time than insulting Cerb ladies, I believe you just don't belong here. If you disagree with the words that I chose to advertise, make a complain to the administration of this website, not myself. Let them be the judge of it, I believe they have criterias that advertisers should respect, if mine are out of the line, I trust that will do what they need to do. Finally, if you believe that a fat woman is insane to offer escort services, and even more at the price I offer mine, that is your opinion and I don't have a problem with it - your allowed to think what ever you want. But if you use the anonymity of Internet to insult that same person, I also believe that you are a major immature loser with way too much time on his hands. I think I made my point, I have nothing more to add. Lou

I only have some much money to go around $200 is equals to 2 days work for me.............I cannot not afford to hobby as much a I would like to. What matter the most is value for that $200, GFE, time spent making me feel welcome like you want to be there with me, kissing, enjoying yourslef or teaching me how to please you if I am not doing so. If I can get that for $80 sure that's more than fine by me........ IMHO what an SP/MP charges, does have the effect of putting limits on volume people they see. It also has another effect there are hobiest out there that cannot afford the high over inflated prices that are being charged.

I much prefer working for myself than working for or with anyone else. I like calling the shots and giving men options that cater to them that I wouldn't be able to give them working for an establishment with time limits and rules and such. I enjoy providing a service as much as the client receiving it, and working for myself I can provide and achieve this. We can focus on what's important for instance, your needs, no interruptions or distractions, what you want , being able to provide a variety of services custom to you, in a personal setting.

Prices are based on many different factors, ex. location, services, in/out calls, etc....! It is up to each individual to choose how much they wish to charge! I have been in my area for almost 3 years and I charge less then the rest in my area, I am also low volume! But most of the girls here will do things I would never consider! It is up to each individual to decide how much we think our time is worth! If a new girl came to town who charged less then me, I would not think of it as under cutting, because to each their own! We all need to stick together in this line of business, there are too many people in the world who degrade us for what we do! The more support we offer each other regardless of rates, services, etc.... The stronger we become, not only as individuals but as a group. Just my 2 cents!

I really appreciate the contributions everyone has made to this thread. It's valuable for me to see the range of opinions and preferences. It's also interesting to see how much we tend to agree about the kind of experiences most of us want to offer or to have with clients and companions. WiT and Lou, I'm in your debt for being so clear about the state of legislation and the potential changes and implications ahead of us all. Thank you! I think it would be wonderful fun to have an extended, multi-person fantasy play, though, in the Western theme. I've long admired Miss Kitty from Gunsmoke, and Dolly Parton's character in The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas. I'd be delighted to pour drinks in such an establishment! Imagine: Shortcake is the Madam, I'm the bartender... fun! That aside, I know I'm not the only one who has clients who are well-known public figures who would not want to run into anyone, ever. Being able to offer completely private, discrete encounters is very important.