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Reprinted from my diary I received an email recently from someone accusing me of being misogynistic and that i had a hate on for prostitutes ? WTF I thought to my self! What an odd perspective, clearly this person has no clue of what they speak. If they knew anything about me they'd know that I'm a frequent hobbiest and provide support to many independents in more ways than just financial. I suspect the letter came from an agency or pimp or indy that has made their way to the pages of the diary. My agenda is clear and simple. Honesty is king, if you follow standard honest business practices then you will never find yourself in the pages of my diary. However, if you choose to use bait and switch tactics, put customers into dangerous situations, harm or threaten to harm a customer, steal from a customer, provide poor unacceptable service or bad customer service then yes, you will be featured in the diary. So the next question is why, why do I bother ? Well by exposing the fakes and frauds it kind of levels off the playing field for the honest agencies and independents. If I can filter out the bad guys for the newbies or the unsuspecting then they can focus their attention on the proven quality and customer driven providers in town. Often clients who find themselves victims of a bait and switch situation do nothing about it. Usually fear of violence, blackmail etc prevent the victims of bait and switch from doing anything, they may go through with the service, which is usually sub par and no where near what was agreed, or give the money and leave. Rarely will they leave without paying the fee, which just paves the way for the fraud to be committed again, if they get away with it once then there's nothing stopping them from doing it again, and so they do. I don't publish private information, I don't print full phone numbers that can be easily searched, I don't jeopardize anyone's safety, I don't print lies. Just the facts. The fact is that if you are an agency, a pimp or and "indy" and you use fake photos to lure customers to mislead, ripped off or robbed, then I will print the information you used to lure these victims , to warn them of the deceit that follows. I will prove that the photos are fake and will continue to track your movement as you continue to practice your deceptive ways. I realize not everyone is going to like me , some have even accused me of being a "creeper" stalking girls on the internet , again WTF ? I see bad, I warn others to avoid or be cautious, how that qualifies me as a creeper is beyond me. Do I profit from the site, yes to cover the costs of operating the site and for hard costs. Donations are always welcome and many readers have donated, some do it often some for just a few bucks, others for considerable amounts. To them I say thank you, these readers appreciate the service I provide and I appreciate the acknowledgment. The fact is I donate a good percentage to charities that are important to me. I didn't start the site to make a profit. Yes there are advertisers on my site as well, again proceeds from advertising go towards covering operating costs. When I introduced advertising some said that would impact my credibility and that by advertising on my site advertisers would be "protected" from being outed or exposed. Not True, if any advertisers, indy or agency that advertise on my site were to practice bait and switch photos bait and switch service or put a customer in harms way I would not hesitate to report on them. To the credit of current and past advertisers that situation has never occurred which speaks volumes to their credibility and the type of business they run. To the original letter writer, there is your reply for you and all to see. Take it or leave it. It is what it is...

How do you value your a(lone) time? How do you feel about being alone and/or lonely? How do you feel about the attachment we have to our cell phones, laptops, and ipods? I feel like we're constantly connected to something that may/may not be real. I feel like this 'connection' (virtual or otherwise) might infringe on our abilities to connect with people that are right in front of us. For example, I really miss just sitting on the bus and smiling at people. Being completely and utterly receptive to the present moment. I miss the time when it was more acceptable to start a random conversation with someone, before we all started hanging out with our cell phones. This is a really cool video that might inspire the thread - have fun with your responses:

HEYA, JUST PASSING BY AND EXERCISING MY FREEDOM OF SPEECH HERE ON CERB, WHERE, WE CAN DO THIS! here is some useless personal information My crotch itches and therefore I am itching it My breath tastes and surely reeks of creamy garlic dip Today I split my pants I'm thirsty My nails are painted pink and have silver stars on them My legs have 3 day stubble I have 7 tattoos I sew, paint and write I have stretchmarks I am not wearing any pants Okay, who farted??? I see a psychiatrist or does the psychiatrist see me?(remember to ask) Addicted to facebook and update like twitter Happily Married to a client and Married another for an hour once I LOVE my kitty What do I think? I don't have to, I'm Catholic lol jk I am the friendliest person many have met I still owe $7200 on my student loan I wear animal fur blablabla if you have gotten this far.. XXX my apologies I forgot to mention my shoe size,religion and medical history. Gee, I nominate myself for valued member award; just look at all these values :)

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

I walked in to find her decked in a matching combination of white top, blue skin tight jeans and boots. This is one hot young lady. I expected that, having admired her pics. What I didn't expect was to be swept away by her charm and sex appeal. In conversation she told me a little about her interests in Montreal. She is ever so charming with her bright eyes and that smile. I move in closer to whisper in her ear..to tell her how beautiful she looks. I do ...she turns her head slowly toward me, our lips meet. That first kiss. We sit, making conversation allowing me opportunity to swoop in and savor her some more. We talk about our respective days, we kiss..it is like this was meant to be..I help her out of her outfit, kissing her lips, cheeks, shoulders, admiring her soft warm body. I kiss her as I reach round to undo the clasp on her bra. Off it comes revealing her glorious well defined :boobies: She asks me to lie down.You first I say and help her get comfortable. I kiss her lips once more, lingering to taste them and feel her warm breath on me. I tear myself away from her..kissing her neck, down to her heaving bosom. I stop and linger, showing admiration for her wonderful form. Her hands are now running through my hair, caressing my shoulders. I sense her breath quicken. I kiss her torso, moving slowly toward her softness. I am there, her hands hold me in place, she is soft and inviting. My tongue explores her...coaxing her juices out. We take our time, we're in no rush. It's like we have all the time in the world. I hear her breathing quicken, her movement increasing, her passionate whispers..her moans of pleasure. I could tell she was close, I felt her and heard her as my tongue stimulation triggered wave after wave of orgasmic delight on her body. She needed a moment...I kissed my way back to look into her eyes. I found her lips again and latched on to them, continuing to savor her sweetness. Your turn she whispers, and helps me roll over and get comfortable. She hovers over me, kissing me, allowing her hair to caress my face, my torso, as she makes her way down to a very excited Junior. She takes him slowly, charming him with her sensual technique. There is something about her technique, innocent, seductive, teasing, sensual, all rolled into one. It is heavenly! I was tempted to stay the course, close my eyes and feel the sensations of her oral prowess. I could not help but think...to have that body against mine again, feel her warm breath on mine, look into those eyes and taste those lips...on comes the cover and my wish is granted. I felt her warmth as I entered her..her hands holding me in place, her eyes looking into mine, closing slowly as our lips meet..breaths exhaled and inhaled, tongues playfully dancing, teasing...wanting...yearning... Our movements were slow and passionate, almost seemingly choreographed for a reunification of lovers. Tonight it seemed nothing could come between us. With some vocals and some cheering through the finish we ended up wrapped in each others arms, catching our breaths and sharing more kisses. Naomie is angelic in nature and for those of you that have met her, you will admit she is a gem and a sweetheart in every aspect. For those that have not, well when you do, treat her with respect and you will be rewarded.

Well, I'm one of the "there is something missing in my marriage" guys. I'm currently a massage only guy, but the reason is that I initially started by seeing a couple of escorts and I was not satisfied with the experience, something was missing. I found that the escorts relied too heavily on the full service aspect. I found that massage providers worked much harder at creating an erotic experience. They were much better at using atmosphere, eyes, words, hands and other body parts to provide pleasure. They are better at stimulating both the mind and body and realize that men have more than one erogenous zone. Although now that I've found CERB I'm thinking more and more about trying escorts again...

Although not a Ottawa boy (actually smalltown Ontario boy) I'd thought I put in my two cents. When I started this "hobby" (and I really don't like that term) I was looking for and only considered SP's But as my awareness grew of other facets of the industry, primarily through CERB, I wanted to try new things...specifically erotic massage. The opportunity came to try it sooner than later (and thank you Megan for travelling) and my view of escorts vs massage is that if I lived in a major city, it would likely be a 60/40 split between seeing SP/MA And irrespective of whether I see a SP or a MA, for me, a large part of the encounter is the social side. One more thing, I don't view this as a hierarchy of services, what a SP provides and what a MA provides are different services, but one isn't greater than the other For whatever it's worth RG

I would have to say that a visit with Megan is very relaxing and personal. She is very friendly and open to chatting about things and she has the ability to make you feel like your time with her is important to her and that she wants to make sure you truely enjoy the full time together. She is very professional about the meeting and if you respect her you will be rewarded with an A plus experience.

It is because of you that some guys I know decided to give hobbying another chance after being ripped off by unscrupulous people. I showed them your diary and explained to them that not everyone in our industry should be painted with the same brush.

One of the biggest stereotypes that sex worker activists are constantly fighting against is that we are all drug addicts. Posting that you are an addict in some people's minds will only prove that stereotype. Yes it is true that there are recovering addicts in all industries, but the sex industry is one of the few where we're all tarred with the same brush if one of us is. And as Tiffany pointed out, from a consumer point of view, what you post on these public forums basically amounts to advertising. It is bad PR for you if you are posting that you are an addict--recovering or not. If a potential client knows you are an addict, maybe they will also wonder whether or not their money is going to your next fix, or whether or not you might try to rob them.

here I was out of touch for a few days and this thread blows me away..... I am speechless.......stunned... I debated saying anything.......and yet there is so much to say...... But I read every post.....and I usually read every thread.....and if I do not like it I move on..... reading a thread about not liking to read threads is...well..just a little odd.....but I still read it.... why? because it gives me incite to peoples thought patterns and personalities.....some I like..some I don't like.....and by getting to know some people I decide if we are at all compatible for friends or an intimate encounter........or to just not get involved with. so I decide what to read and what not to read......and if I am upset....so what..it is only a forum.......

I am so happy beautiful Berlin is discussing this issue! I wish some of you knew this: The female body it is made for multiple orgasmic experiences thus if you care to make us come and have an eletric session with you. All you have to do is ask us: How do you prefer? Where and how can i pleasure your body, breasts, thights? How can i perform date on you, to arouse you? We are in the age of the Godess, thus most sexually confident female knows what she likes and dislikes in bed. Some of you even get mad at me when i try to give you tips on my sexual likes and dislikes. And some of you are all about been generous and sensual according to my personal sexual preferences in order to make the best of our encounter and the result it is hot sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Some guy even told me it is "natural to penetrate a lady hard". I would say the word natural it is a dangerous word to use in sexuality and aesthetics. It is natural to allow gas to flow freely, should i fart on your face during sex because it is natural? No right? I prefer gentle and slow sex, but once i am more warm up i will ask for more action. I think desire and lust should lead in bed, not the strength of your male hips. I would prefer that you touch my arms, my legs and my back and my waist and my back before you touch any sexual part of my body, and please be gentle and please warm up your hands before touching us. The beauty is: Some of you already aim to please, but you are rare and you know who you are;). When you penetrate us hard without any care to increase our pleasure we just want to make you come asap, because it hurts.