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For those of us who accept text booking and answer questions via text, sometimes the way guys approach it can be really irritating. You should think of it like an instant email, but shorter. Include your name, and ask if the lady is available for your preferred time. Please do not text random one-liners such as, "hey baby," or "hey, how are you?" I'm great, who are you? I understand that this may be some guys way of trying to start a conversation, but this isn't the best way to approach it. Also, unless I blocked your number, I do not keep your info in my phone, so when you text me, I have no idea who you are. I try to remember numbers, but I'm not a machine! *insert robot smiley here* Ladies, other suggestions, comments? Guys, thoughts?

I like it short and to the point.. For example: "Hi Nicki, this is John and was wondering if you are available today or tomorrow for an incall for 12 pm." I normally respond to texts but won't for the following reasons: - You start off in a crude way or "wassup ( known as the wassup guys)" or "hey baby". - You have pulled a no show on me in the past or cancel all the time at the last minute. - You are what's known as a time texting waster asking tons of questions especially explicit ones and nothing ever becomes of it. It's fine to ask questions but you can also read my ad and recos. Usually I can tell after the first text if someone is a time waster or just looking to "get off". - You harass the hell out of me. And then send texts one after the other wondering why I'm not getting back to you. I know of several people on this board who have done this to me and that's why they don't hear back from me. I will ignore you or tell you to stop texting me! If the above texting etiquette doesn't apply to you and you don't hear back from me within a few minutes I'm either sleeping, busy with a client or done for the day. I am not a high volume SP. I don't ask for much but some of the texts people send can be too much at times.

I personally do not respond to text, as you really have no idea who is on the other end. I would prefer a phone call, then you know who you are talking to. It is very easy to grab someone elses phone. Which could very easily effect discretion. I rather not take that chance.

hey folks not saying anything negative or nothing but just a small remark about the services i have received with the time i spent with Maxim Elite... For the whole hour of our session she was more concerned about replying back to her texted messages and receiving/answering calls and randomly yet repeatingly checking her msn on her computer :( was not to pleased with the whole situation..... i see on Escorts Canada.com she is returning in June so i felt the need to say something..... So guys or gals its just something for you to think about.... Have a good weekend.

Nice thread idea, Voyi. Here is my two cents: An amazing lover is someone who creates a safe space for me to explore my needs and desires. Like you, there needs to be a particular connection. It can be a spiritual, intellectual, and/or sporty connection (etc.). I also need my lovers to languidly explore my body. Not delicately (because pressure is good), but just in a slow and relaxed way. Sex should be an exploration. It's carnal, but there's also a lot of opportunities for growth through sex, if one is open to that possibility in that moment. Gender bending is always nice too. Sometime I'm actively submissive, sometimes, I'm more dominant... never passive.

Independents are way better then agencys. Also, the power of the internet has given customer the chance to provide info regarding SPs to other potential customers. These review boards are good. Some agencys hire people to shill for the girls that work there. Where most independent SPs just create happy customers. Even in the big cities, very few agencys survive 5 years. The word gets out, SPs get tired of getting ripped off and leave. If an SP is good, her customers will follow her. Another good reason to be on these review boards.

ummm guys for the record................. Prostitution is COMPLETELY LEGAL in Canada!!!! Solicitation in a public place (ie. street corners or giving out cards in restaurants and bars) is illegal. Us SP's can advertise in newspapers, websites, magazines, any form of print because the consumer "chooses" to read it. Therefore making it non-public. Any "professional" should know this, and shouldn't be worried about law enforcement. I have a great relationship with the police in my area, and I've worked for agents that are REAL professionals and have seen cops in those agency's. All they care about is that we are safe (yes this is the first thing that the police care about here is the SP's safety) and that there is no illegal activity such as drugs or underage prostitution. Again I say that there needs to be a school for prostitution, and a country wide regulatory system. Not only to stop these scams, but also educate the people working in this profession so that they are not taken advantage of, or advantage of you.

Yes, I agree with you ladies. A one line Pm comes across as it may be from someone who is not serious about getting together however the tone of the Pm says a lot. I have learned that some here are 'men of few words' but that does not make them disrespectful. A message like the one Gabrielle posted though is disrespectful for sure. It is 'funny' some people need to be taught on Pm etiquette. I doubt they comunicate that way when they send an email or letter to anyone outside of this industry. But what bothers me the most is when I get asked by someone to send a message with my availability or upon my return when I have been away only to get ignored. As Meg said common courtesy is very simple to have and expected, especially if you started or requested the communication.

When you send a PM requesting information such as availability, please respond to the response. I answer each and every PM as quickly as possible and if between 8am and 8pm it's usually within 30mins. When I get a PM asking if I am available at, let's say, 10:30am tomorrow morning and I reply within 10 minutes saying, not until 11:30; common decency indicates that you let me know that it's not convenient...even if it takes you 12hrs to reply, a reply is warranted!!!!!!!!!!!

It wasn't the dude she said was trolling.

i need to chirp in too. i do not like anyone trying to promote, encourage or ask or bbfs on cerb. If this is what you are looking for you need to look somewhere else and not cerb. if you pm a lady asking for this (or) post asking for it we will remove you from the site. you put yourself, the ladies and other members in risk and this adds to negative stereotypes and sets the inustry back. in this day and age its too risky for anyone to do and anyone seeking this out is playing russian roulette. ask yourself if someone is willing to do this then they must have nothing to loose. these days it is not about just getting knoked up... your playing with deadly sti's and the rest of us pay for your heathcare!

This will never become the NORM in my opinion. Since the beginning of time, there have always been and always will be someone out there who will do anything for money and those willing to pay to get that. Do you think that all clients secretly want to have BBFS and are just waiting for the girls to offer it and girls will feel pressured to do so to stay in business? I know plenty of gents who would not dare go there, as nor would I, so you go ahead and live in your world, and like-minded people like me can stay in our world. Additional Comments: So are you saying you have been with ladies who offer bbfs and that this is your definition of "true GFE". According to who's definition -yours? I am a "true GFE" and can assure will NEVER EVER offer bbfs. Shame on you. I can assure you that by declaring that, you are probably on most ladies Do Not See List now. Hope the rush was worth it.

Advertising 7-day availability doesn't mean we work 7 days a week. I myself advertise pretty much every day, but I always take days off. For example, I will advertise Thur/Fri/Sat/Sun and then when I have appointments booked for 3 days, I take the 4th day off, whichever day it may be. I have also often advertised availability in the morning/afternoon/evening, but I will never work all three. For example, if someone books me in the morning, then I will not see anyone in the evening. If someone books me in the evening, I will not see anyone in the morning.

Hmm, I'm pretty sure you are being added to many SP's list as do not see.

<p>April, you got that right. We had a very good communication from the beggining, and I was just acting as a refferal. You know when you just don't have the particular intention to meet somebody, but you just feel like chatting one to each other???</p>

While everyone's concern is justified and we should always be prepared to safeguard our liberties and freedoms (all of them, not just the sex industry), we need not fear the Conservatives on this file just yet. They ran on and were elected because of their economic platform and Canada is a fairly, socially liberal country. Make no mistake, if the Conservatives do get around to this, it won't be for another two years or so, close enough to the next federal election and they'll be watching the polls like hawks. Like it or not, their election was not a moral carte blanche, but intstead an approval of their economic policies. And they have already said they have no intention of re-opening the debate on abortion, so for the time being, it appears that they are not prepared to wade into any moral issues. And while I am not a card carrying member of any party and nor could I be described as living on either the Left or Right of the political spectrum, I am growing weary of hearing people denounce the results of the election based on the popular vote. Harper and the Conservatives benefitted from vote splitting on the left, allowing them to form a majority with less than half the popular vote. Yet I would wager that many of the people that are decrying this as an affront to democracy were not displeased when Jean Chretien's Liberals were elected to three concescutive majorities in the 90's by exploiting vote splitting on the right. People who claim to be opposed to our electoral system should be so based on principle, not because their favorite party didn't win. Somehow I doubt that's the case with the majority of people. A double standard is still a double standard, no matter who wins.

I have an auto reply on my email and if you email between 7am & 3pm you will get a reply within a couple hours of your initial email. Anything received after that time will be replied to within 24hrs. if you pm me you will be directed to email as that is my preferred communication. I personally think that unless you are away or taking time off 24hrs is more than enough time to respond.

I would suggest, if you are away from your laptop for a while to: - Have your email autoreply on informing your gentlemen that you are on the road and will get back to them as soon as possible. Also give them a timeframe as to when you think you will be able to get back to them. They will appreciate the gesture and be much more patient and accepting. - A detailed voicemail also works wonders with the gentlemen! - You can also state in your ads that you will be on the road and because of this you prefer to receive emails (they will get the autoreply) or phone calls (voicemails) and do not accept requests via PMs for xxx amount of time. Have fun touring all across Canada!

This thread follows a question asked in another one in the general forum (http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=48326&page=3). SP ONLY AREA is ours to communicate the most confidentially possible. It is not for you guys to follow up our observations about some of you. It is ours and ours only. No need to ask, and as for myself, if you ask me, I will consider it as a breach to my intimacy, and into our safety. Please, do respect this and not bring it up. It's rude and unsafe. Oh, and please, if an SP talks to you about it, please report her immediatly, since she may do it with the wrong person. ThXxX!

Any SP that needs you to go to a website to provide your cc number for "verification" is a scam, the only verification a real PS needs is 2 portraits of Sir Robert Borden.