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Megan, I was gonna give you rep points, but I gotta spread the love!:icon_wink: For me, it's always been personality first. Even in my day to day personal life. I've always dated men based on the size of their heart, not bicep. If you're a gentleman, have a good sense of humour, and are kind hearted, you are at the top of my list. If you are good looking and rich, but a mean spirited person, I will most likely never even meet you. There is nothing worse than being as polite and generous as possible to a client, and having them act rude, cocky, or disrespectful in return. I generally never even think about the outward appearance of a client when making a date. As long as hygiene is in check and you are presentable, I'm happy. Also, I wanted to add that I think one of the amazing things ladies in this business have to offer is our genuine appreciation and recognition of kind hearted, good people. That we tend to not be as shallow and critical of men/women when it comes to what is important in a person. Just my thoughts. xox

Cleanliness is always number one for me. Appearance goes as, well groomed, taken care of, clean clothes, not having to have the business man look but casual laid back is always best. Treat us with respect and you will get that and nine times out of ten, much more! I have found that the not so best looking gentlemen have treated me far better than a sexy hunk business man. I think it is rude of us to judge you as we are offering ourselves to you and in that case, no matter how beautiful we are or "out of your league we may appear..That is why we are here so you can experience us and be comfortable! Never put yourself down over looks, its the kind soft hearted, respectable gents I always mesh well with.

I was redirected by another thread to a John Prine song which reminded me that most of my life happens in one or the other of his songs. None of which has to do with these collected words of wisdom: 1 * Accept the fact that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue! 2 * Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them. 3 * Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it. 4 * Drive carefully... It's not only cars that can be recalled by their Maker.. 5 * If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague 6 * If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.. 7 * It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others. 8 * Never buy a car you can't push. 9 * Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on. 10 * Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance. 11 * Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late. 12 * The second mouse gets the cheese. 13 * When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane. 14 * Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live. 15 * You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person. 16 * Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once. 17 * We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box. 18 * A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour. 19 * Save the earth..... It's the only planet with chocolate!*

Opening the door to greet Ivy, I was struck by how gorgeous she is, long, tall, and lean; more beautiful than I saw from her pics. She has a several tats, which are artistic and enhance her beauty. Meeting for the first time, we got to know each other with a make-out session on the couch and as we shed our clothes, the fun continued in the bedroom. Oral pleasures for both parties were exquisite, and I got a little demonstration of how she enjoys the toy she brought along. That really got me going so I asked for a cover and we finished in a sweaty heap out of breath. It was a great first-time meeting with Ivy, and it certainly won't be my last!

I will repeat what I have said many times in the past, as we keep bringing this subject matter up every few months. I have no issues with dating a SP, MA or Porn Star. It's the person and not the profession that attracts me.

There are always great posts about how nice the ladies are in this industry. We've been called many things such as sweet and kind, loving and sincere. We've been told by many how attractive our brains can be, how healthy we are, beautiful and charismatic, alluring. Lately, there has been some talk of feelings for the ladies. Can we do what we do and feel nothing? Can you come to us and feel nothing? The answer is no. We all have feelings, feelings about one another we touch and feel. Heck, I find I can develop feelings for people I've never even met. When it comes to true, honest feelings that develop, I want to know if the connection is there and both of you know it, would you consider dating an SP? If love is love would you take a chance on love with us? Why? Why not? I know that here we are seen as woman, not objects and we are very respected as we respect you as well, but when it comes down to it... Are we different? Could you be with a girl that is with other men without you? Could you bring her to work functions knowing that she may know your boss or if you had children..your child's friends dads? On the upside, you would be with a woman that knows plenty about men, your needs and how to fulfill them, loves sex and is very playful, and all those things that has been said about us. Please share your thoughts

Here is the latest incarnation of the Redhead Poll as posted in the Redhead Appreciation Social Group. Kylie Daniels remains our champion, and this poll is just between these 3 ladies as picked by the RHAG members. As, Cato, CERB's resident redhead connoisseur is going to be away, I have volunteered to tally the votes, so please vote by sending me a PM with your one selection. Voting will remain open until November 1. The Contenders: Carolina Ardohain Amanda Cerny Heather Vandeven

This maybe geared more towards SP's but feel free to chime in guys. I just want to get some opinions on SP expectations (maybe not the right word) of clients when it comes to physical appearance. Here's the situation: I'm the first to admit that i'm not Brad Pitt, a little out of shape, little bald spot, glasses but generally not a bad looking guy. Typically, not the guy that women/girls give a second look to. Basically every girls friend but that's it. Terrible shyness doesn't help the cause either. The only Sp experience i have is that i'd seen a local who now appears to be retired as i cannot get in contact anymore. She made me feel comfortable the first time so i went back a numerous times. But the more well respected local and numerous travelling girls are so attractive that i feel out of their league. Does a clients physical appearance matter more to a SP than a guy who is nice and respectful but slightly inexperienced? Any thoughts?

I was one of the first to vote, SA :)

Giddy Up indeed, spud! I saw Em again recently. I've lost track of how many times that is now, but every time is nothing short of awesome. I love how she makes you feel at ease immediately, even in the presence of such beauty; there's never an awkward moment. She's fun and easy to be with. And then the real fun begins. The massage experience is intense, with body slides and the touch of that gorgeous woman to arouse and please you. She genuinely enjoys her work and her clients, and it shows. Such a beauty, with a great, positive, upbeat attitude. I'll visit Em as often as I can. Erotic Emily, no doubt about it!

Well for celebrations today, highlights included 6 pints and 6 strippers and a cab drive home ;) This lady here looked so much like a lady on stage today...yummy highlight And yes a redhead ...mmmmmmmm....

It took some time, but I finally met Ivy!!! If you think from her pics her legs are long...wait until you see them in person!!!! We've all heard the expression "her legs go up to her eyeballs", well Ivy's go beyond her eyeballs!!!! She is a bit shy at first, but once you get playing she is loads of fun! Ivy is built like a model and has a body to die for, and very innocent eyes that I just could not resist. It's always YMMV depending on how you connect with each other, so I don't go in to details. She is a very orally gifted woman and I certainly enjoyed every moment we had together. I will definitely be repeating and can't wait to play with her once again!

I think that is a bit harsh but again thats your opinion,I personally think she is very attractive and although I am not into women think she has the beauty to do a playboy pictorial.She has been through alot be it because of her own doing,bad chilhood or for what ever reason she is a damaged soul and needs support more than criticism,I personally wish her the best and hope her life becomes easier for her,just my opinion,Cristy

Problems and drama aside, I always thought she was a beautiful young woman. I won't be buying the playboy isssue but I will most definitely look at her pictures online.

I just met Sierra last week for the first time and enjoyed every minute I had with her. Two hours was by no means enough time with this amazing lady. She is a true GFE in every sense. She truely had as much fun as I did and you can tell she really enjoys what she does. Great kisser, passionate lover and an amazing bbbj. Non rushed and very relaxed atmosphere. Treat her good and you will be rewarded. There will be a repeat for sure. Thanks Sierra for a wonderful evening.

Great responses everyone!! On my side of the fence.. Many of you already know I married a client. Several issues have come up in our relationship that makes me feel uncomfortable. My husband, being the honest man that he is...When asked what I do he told them I was a masseuse and they knew what kind of masseuse(I guess men just know these things) A few of his friends and co workers advised him to break it off and that I was using him for money-pressure to dissolve our relationship- At work functions, the wives seem to have a preconception about me that because of my job and gave me the cold shoulder, like I must be a hoochie..One even yelled at me because I told her husband that he makes a good steak and accused me of hitting on him as if I were recruiting new clients geesh! "Can't you see what she's doing"? She yelled! I feel isolated at times times because I don't attend such things anymore. My husband lost a few friends because of what I do, but that's probably a blessing in disguise because a true friend wouldn't go out their way to try to make your life miserable..Once it felt like I was Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman..One of his co-workers even approached me for services and when I denied him he got all freaky on me. Okay so these may be isolated events and most likely and hopefully not the norm for everyone..But it makes me want to pack up and leave the city, leave my job and roots behind me to love each other in peace without judgement or preconceptions..leave the worry and stigma behind us. love is love.A person is a person..It's not what you do, it's who you are.

Well, I'm here to throw another log onto the "it's complicated" fire ;) As far as falling for someone goes, her line of work would be irrelevant. I fall in love with the woman, not the occupation. That being said, I don't think I would ever have the guts to act on my feelings, even if they were mutually shared between her and I. Mostly because i'm not polyamorous and I would never ask a sp to quit. I've got no right to meddle in someone else's livelihood. However, if a perfect situation arose where myself and a sp had mutually fallen for each other, and she was ready to leave the business, I wouldn't hesitate for a second! Her former profession would not bother me, and I would be honored to share a life, both private, and public with the women I had fallen for.

I'd take a humble, respectful, unattractive gentleman over a cocky Brad Pitt anyday!

here's the updated version of the Hasselhoff...

So, a cosmetic surgeon has - after much research - come up with a formula for what makes the perfect pair. According to him, the best celebrity boobies are... these! As it these matters can be reduced to mere numbers....

you're not different; you do something different for a living... I was asked that before actually and I said if ther is love then love conquers all.....in terms of discretion, I think the SP would use that when faced with a public function; yoiu would have as a guy just roll with the flow.... if she loves you, she will only love you......the rest is all business!!

Ohhhh Lee.... I must reiterate my allegiance to the Habs... and Bianca Beauchamp....

Borrowed (stolen) from Fripples, with thanks to NJ! Who is this????

She could be my highlight of the day :)