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Hey Gents, My opinion is that the majority of women in this industry choose to enter the profession of their own free will. That being said, we also know that there is a dark side of this industry in which women are coerced to work, and in which they may be economically exploited by a "pimp" who keeps the money she earns. Although I hardly ever encounter these situations with escorts/MA's, I got to know many women when I was stripping who were coerced into the industry. I won't go into all the details, but I will give one example. I was in the dressing room and another dancer was on the phone. She said on the phone: "Please can I leave? I've been here for 6 hours and I've only made $200. I really don't think I can make anymore. The club is dead." She hung up and said to her friend: "He says I can't leave until I make $300." I'm not saying these things to make anyone feel bad, or because the majority of strippers are in this situation (that is absolutely not true). But what I will ask is, what do you as a hobbiest do to mitigate the risk that you are participating in the exploitation of another human being? Do you only see reputable indies/agencies? Do you think you can "tell" when you meet her? Have you ever been in a situation where you suspected the lady was not there by her own free will? I hope no one is upset at me for bringing up such a dark topic, but I think it's important to talk about these things once in a while :) Megan

I like to think my glass is half empty because I shared it with someone who was thirsty.

Every once and a while I love looking up inspirational quotes of any sort. I find them uplifting and sometimes just what someone needs to make them smile! I thought we could use this thread as a good spirit thread! I will start it off with one of my favorites. "What you thought before has led to every choice you have made, and this adds up to you at this moment. If you want to change who you are physically, mentally, and spiritually, you will have to change what you think." Dr. Patrick Gentempo Wishing you and yours a wonderful day ;) xox

"Exhibitionism for the Shy" by Carol Queen, "The Fine Art of Erotic Talk" by Bonnie Gabriel and "Talk Sexy to the One you Love" by Barbara Keesling are all great. Also, I love to read erotica to get ideas of sexy things to say... Hope this helps! :)

I see that some SP's and agencies are self rating their own posts (5 stars of course).....is this allowed? Seems kind of um.....well, what do you think? I suppose it makes people want to view your post, but doesn't it seem sort of fake? Why wouldn't we all give ourselves 5 Stars?

15 MORE DAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who can't smile about that????

Dorinda I rated this thread... 5 stars, cause a) You are a five star(5/5-excellent) gorgeous lady :) and b) Cause I felt like it ;)

We'd have to ask the Queen....

I just gave this thread 5 stars, if you'd like to post an exact copy of this thread I promise not to give it a good rating then we can see which gets the most views. It would be a very scientific study. ;)

And we LOVE making you see stars too!

Put it this way......we know who deserves stars....and we can guess who gives then selves stars........ Personally I love it when the ladies make me see stars..... Posted via Mobile Device

I remember wondering one day if I could even self rate my thread so I tried it out and it worked. I was not very impressed by this flaw in the system and think that to rate your own thread is pnly slightly less offensive than to write a shill ad for yourself. I think having the raters names listed is a great idea, makes it more ridiculous-looking for the ladies who self-rate, and also for the ones who have legitimate fans of their threads it will look better on them. Knowing the ratings are not anonymous can only make people take them more seriously now, perhaps only upon further inspection- though...

Have Mercy! I looked through the list and thought "Are you serious?". You would think and hope that more effort and thought would be put in place on a password for sensitive and private information. Nice post RG

As long as I'm just a bit offensive, I can handle that... lol Not taking a shot at deaf people, it's a shot at how much she talked. That's all...

It is totally relative and based on personal preferences ;) Best beautiful breasts? Breasts are awesome and all beautiful! Cheers xox

Thank you Isabella, I like you not because your a coffee drinker, but your a good caring person But here's a coffee for two for the two of us :-) And I like Malika, she's a fun and positive contributer to this community, enjoy her presence here on CERB I just hope I'm in her good books and don't need punishing LOL RG

I often go to Aquarius. However as someone mentioned it is often a much higher ration of men vs women. That said, I have found Sunday evenings and Tuesday / Thursday noon hours to be the time to go. Sunday evenings are often time where people will set time aside and come put on a show. These same people will often then hand pick participants to assist them. Don't be shy, stand up when they look at you. You will have a rocking time. It is important to note though...this place runs off respect. Just cause you are rocking out the 6 pack abs and are hung like Christ himself does not mean these people are going to choose you to help out. Stand close enough to watch, but do not crowd. Show and voice your interest, ie: expose what you have to offer and always....ALWAYS ask permission. Many rock hard young studs will go home and :jackoff: because they don't have the patience to simply offer to hold the lady's hands at first. Tuesday and Thursday nooners are slightly different. My experience is that these are your lonely housewives who are here while their partners are at work. They are wanting the fun times without the affair stigma. However, respect is again the key. Introduce yourself. Ask her what she is looking for. Often if she is walking around, she hasn't committed to a task yet. When she sits on any of the couches to watch some porn, she's gearing up. Here it is all in the introduction and she will offer to sit beside her. From there....well it's up to you, lol. Aquarius can be a most entertaining time. Be patient and do not expect much at first. You may need to simply walk around a bit. Spend an hour or two, perhaps more. Bring something to drink, and any toys you enjoy. Massage oil is often a great opener on the couch. However, have a back up plan as well. It doesn't cost much to go to Aquarius, $20 or so, but you will find yourself looking for you favorite SP on speed dial about 50% of the time. There are often a lot of 'creepers' there too. And I have found many of the older gay men to be very pushy. Be polite and Very firm to make them change their minds. A point of interest: Many Saturdays when the clubs close down, car loads of 18-25 y/o's have randomly shown up. They are always incredible to watch, but I have yet to simply see them enjoy the company of others. They come and put on a cock tease show, but they have what they need with them, and they keep it that way. But wow, what a show. I'm new to the boards but I was glad I was able to offer info for a thread here.

Movember is a fun month..all the gents look like 70's porn stars....especially the gents with a hairy chest...it's so fun!

SORRY LADIES - WE ARE FULL!!! If you want to go on the waiting list to wait and see if some cancel, let me know. Okay, Gents - to those of you who sent me pms asking me to hold your spot, you have until Thursday, Nov. 24th to pay for your ticket, otherwise it will then become first, come, first served we only have 4 tickets left for the gents. In other words, don't delay. Respectfully yours, Angela :vf: and Old Dog :chug:

I do agree with Megan's comment while most ladies in the biz does it out of their own free will, there is always some that is exploited by third party. How do I decide to minimize this risk? honestly, as bad as this may sound .. there is no sure way to avoid this based on the choice you made be it either agency or indy provider. Could you tell if she is being forced to do it? There is signs one could read, a little hint or giveaway. ex: she is not very comfortable trough the time spent. saying this not everyone gets comfortable with everyone they met. hence its not the perfect indication. it is quite hard to know for sure really. Since i started hobbying, luckily i havent encounter this situation where the lady i am seeing is there because of exploitation. (i would hope not anyway..) but there is one thing a hobbyist can sure do! respect the lady, dont give them a hard time as they are there to please you. be kind as for something that you think is normal might not be so normal. if you are courteous, at least the lady wouldnt have a harder time than what it already is. ** end of my rumbling about ha ha

When I first read this thread and then any time someone would post I would get very frustrated by not being able to remember what I wanted to be when I was a kid and suddenly it just came to my mind. I used to tell my mom I would be a doctor to take care of her & dad when they got old. I have no idea what I was thinking medicine is so not for me but the good thing is I now know I don't have to be a doctor to take care of them,, they are not old yet but I have a plan for when that day comes :)

I actually remember wanting to be a fire truck...

and on that note.... only 66 more big sleeps until the Christmas Social!!! It's a fact that if you save just 10 cents a day for the next 66 days, you would have enough to buy Old Dog a Corona... 10 cents a day!!!! Look at that poor beer starved dog.... for one thin dime a day, you could make an old dog very very happy!!!