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Good afternoon, I have been giving a very tough decision at this point in my life. I had a choice to make. I have been thinking long and hard about what my decision was going to be. I had to do what I felt was best for me. I am excited and sad at the same time. These last couple of years of my life have been amazing. I have meet many friends, who I feel I have developed a deep bond with. You were always there for me on a personal level. I am ever so grateful. You guys all mean a lot to me. The ladies and the gents. I hope you know that what I have learned from all of you will be with me forever. You are a big part of me and always will be. After the Ottawa Christmas social I will be unavailable. I am not sure if this will be forever, but it will be for a long time. A wonderful opportunity has been giving to me. I would be crazy not to give it a chance. I am not closing my account or my website. I will still be logging on line scarcely just to say hello. I always want to be in contact with all of you. A few of my friends have know that this was a possibility. You know who you all are. I want to thank you for thinking of me and listening to me. Generally begin a friend. For that I love you. Hehehe As I said, this may not be forever and I will get online once and while to stay in touch. Remember, always lots of love and live your life. Sincerely Carley xox

I'm Jewish. Just kidding.

I have noticed in the past week here on this board, that some tempers have been flared and opinions have been presented. We had a thread closed by Mod, but left people wondering why those comments were made in the first place. Where is your Christmas spirit? We have another thread going on right now, I read it this morning, and YES I stayed out of it, why because that person is so DAM wrong and it is beyond me how some need to 'get their digs in' at other people for no apparent reason. Where is your Christmas spirit? I have been down that path, I have been suspended for 7 days from here,I have been later called out again past August. But, I kept my mouth shut,and seriously have answered nearly 60 pm's from good friends asking where I have been on this board. I think the answer lies within, I just need to stay away from the threads that are mean spirited or a witch hunt after someone, after all I learned my lesson. Well I have been here, and I just do not post a whole lot more on the board because there can be people here that just rub others the wrong way.Where is your Christmas spirit? Well for me, I have a new look on life after losing my mother past early summer, now have had buried both parents. I will post some comments on this board, I will continue to speak to those that are dear close friends. For those that need to get their digs in at others, step back take a deep breath,exhale and ask yourself...... Where is your Christmas spirit? Hope you all enjoy your 26 days before Christmas, peace to everyone, and most of all be nice and hey...make love not war :)

I've posted this before and I will post it again. Please use a hobbiest email! This has nothing to do with being a secret agent and concealing your identity from your service provider. Every month or so I receive a spam email where one of my client's computers gets a virus. The virus is then emailed into everyone on his contact list. This enables me to see everyone on his contact list. It makes me so sad to see all his family members (by the same last name) and professional contacts mixed in with escorts and massage provider email addresses. His entire family and professional network are outed to me, and all the service providers he's emailed are now known to his family and professional contacts. Please be open and honest with me about who you are by giving me your name and phone number, but consider using a hobbiest email for initial contact. If you are going to use your regular email, at least make sure your anti-virus is up to date! Be careful gents, Megan

And I had a client inform me today that, 'You can't do this forever Soleil.' If I keep fit and healthy why the hell can't I do this 'forever'? I have no pension or retirement fund people! lol

Today for lunch it's peanut butter on a toasted, 2 day old pancake. Gone in 15 seconds. No syrup on mine. Just Peanut Butter

I don't think age has anything to do with "when a lady should stop sp'ing" as there is a demand for every age, however, the 18-23 age bracket will always be the most demanded :) IMO A lady should stop sp'ing, at any age if : You do not like what you do-and/or you feel the necessary need to have some sort of buzz going on (alcholol/ drugs) while you are with a client, because that stuff will not only destroy you on the inside, it also destroys your looks too :( Till then, if there is a demand, and if you are truly happy doing what you do, no need to stop due to your age ;)

I punched mine in the throat repeatedly and left it for dead in a shallow ditch! ;) But seriously folks, it seems to me that PP is just trying to use a very common phenomenon (the whole getting into the xmas spirit thing) to remind us of something. We may all come from different walks of life, and as such, are going to have a variety of differing opinions, but that does not mean that we can't be respectful of each other and extend a certain level of goodwill and such. I highly doubt he was trying to offend people who do not celebrate Christmas, he was just trying to say we should be excellent to each other with his own perspective of things as a backdrop/example (the whole xmas spirit thing in this case). BTW, I'm almost positive almost everyone here would happily help Berlin light her non-existant menorah candles! (Sorry B, couldn't resist! your post made me crack a huge grin!) Additional Comments: Hey folks, It has been brought to my attention that I do not have all the information to properly gauge the context of this thread. I have not read the previous threads that have been mentioned, and to be honest, I have no interest in doing so. From the sounds of it, they are a giant mess I would rather not stick my foot in. The basic intent of my post was in regards to some negative reactions to the Christmas spirit theme expressed by the OP, not any context regarding previous threads, or disagreements. My apologies if I have offended anybody, I just want us all to have a good time! :)

So who did you end up seeing?

You have to go through Blue Balls to get to Intercourse, PA, too. ;) There's also Chicken, Alaska. They wanted to name the town Ptarmigan after the little birds that kept them going up there the first while, but thought people would make fun of their town ... Chicken is much better.

Am I too late? Was this Special Angel already mentioned? If not, better take a look ladies and gentleman. This is my nomination, hands down. Oh Yeahhhhh!!!:bigclap:

She's not on Cerb....but for those that like the slim rump ;)

I have to concur with Ottawaadventurer. Part of the excitement is the thrill of meeting someone new as every beautiful lady on this board has their own personality, their own twists (in more ways than one), and their own unique perspective. Over the years I have been amazed at how sensual the art of massage can be. How simply the art of touch and tease, or the whisper in ones ear, or the hint of something more can arouse the senses. There are so many lovely MAs in Ottawa (Michelle_MA (sadly retired), Emily, Gina, Megan, Bethany, and many many more) that at times it is hard to choose because they are all so lovely and genuinely nice people! So go forth young man and enjoy!

I don't think there is harm in asking a potential provider what her boundaries or options are as long as you do so in a courteous and respectful way. It is better to be a little awkward at this stage in the process as opposed to encountering an awkward situation during an encounter.

You ignore these requests. They are simply wasting your time. Or you simply say there will be no more pics, and leave it at that. And you provide discretion and therefor require it, so you are not going to provide a face pic for any reason. To see you, they need to commit and show up so that both of you have better reasons for privacy and discretion. (I tell enquirers asking for more pics that if pics are their sole reason for booking appts, I am not the one for them. I require someone who puts a little more thought into their sessions). You don't have to do anything, in some cases these requests are testing you to see how far you will go. In this biz, being too accomodating, past your own comfort level is a bad thing. For a newer sp, it is dangerous. I know this is an old post, but what you really need to do is spend some time reading many topics in the lounge, the new section, the ads, etc, and learn all the things in a short time that it took some clients and sps years to figure out. It will benefit you in the long run, and keep you safe, and keep you happier doing the work when you learn how to advertise and screen to attract the sort of clients that are going to be the best match for what you provide.

maybe she is new, just learning he do's an don'ts.... maybe someone else is involved in her marketting? we dont know for sure... but if she is new we need to help educate her and others and at least give her a chance to learn right from wrong. i know 99% will never learn but that 1% can be gold!

I have to fully agree with Cowboy kenny. I can't see anyone here wanting to spend any time with her after what has been said.