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Forums would be positive and helpful if we stopped making threads complaining about our rates and SP'S who choose to screen.

Seems like some fear mongering on the client side regarding safety. If you use common sense this hobby is both very safe, very fun. Totally different on companion side as we have seen as recently as yesterday I have been fortunate to have a lot of good experiences the last 6 months and previously 10-15 years ago. With the caveat, I'm a low volume hobbyist, I have not seem many different ladies, none were bad or scary situations. It's pretty easy to identify legit companions. Why some people participate in this "any info on her?" "Is she real?" "Toftt" it is a little perplexing to me, why? There are so many obviously real, professional, easily identifiable ladies. On communication, our inboxes- hobbyist and companions- they are not in the same league i suspect. The successful companion inbox probably has the attendance and interest of the Superbowl! By comparison, my and likely many hobbyist inboxes attracts the interest of a backyard pick up game. I shudder to think how many inquiries companions receive. I'm saying, their time is valuable! Don't expect to shoot the shit with them outside of the clean, respectful booking inquiry, or yes, crickets could likely be your response.

It's not hostility. A reputable provider doesn't harm paying clients for no reason. Ruining her reputation or assaulting someone would be completely against her own interests. You also admitted that you continue seeing providers who have harmed other clients. That means you knowingly take those risks. Clients who want to avoid being robbed or maced simply do proper research and choose reputable providers.

It's hilarious how bad some of you local men down talk local ladies, probably WHY you have problems seeing anyone Some of your attitudes are shitt🤮 most of YOU are the problem Thank God I travel throughout the maritimes they treat you much better....I highly recommend it ladies TOUR Have some respect when contacting a lady start there!

I have to say a lot of this thread scares me. From both perspectives. Client and provider. 😱 We should start a new thread about all the great experiences we've had. Change the vibe in here

If you're being jumped and maced, do better research on the provider you're contacting.

I’m sorry I am missing your point and yet still remain perplexed after your clarification. Do some people enjoy bear spray and muggings ? Why would you avoid reputable and professional unless you’ve burnt all your bridges?

Very good idea lets focus on the good dates we have had myself I have not had scary dates and have only had great times with the ladies I have been with Do your homework treat the ladies with respect and follow their booking instructions they are meant for your safety and theirs also deposits are there to make sure that you are not wasting their time Do this and you should have no problems

Agreed

That will never happen not on here

Whatever squeaky clean means to you clearly isn't enough research. Or you mistreated that sp for them to randomly turn on you after 10+ appointments.

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Pretty sure moderators are pretty non existent here. If anything you should be contacting the Police.

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Sir. If no SP is answering you, the problem is not them. Either you're not introducing yourself properly, not following her booking instructions stated on her ad, or you're contacting fake ads.

LoL bro... I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I think some of these new members think I'm Escort Google or something. The amount of messages I get asking about SP's is truly wild. I try to be helpful without being judgemental, and not sharing any specific details, but sometimes I get very frustrated as 99% of the things they're asking is easily found right here in the Discussions or Recommendations page. I will also admit to losing patience when they start to refer to SP's in a dehumanizing manner. I am in no way a white knight, but a little human decency goes a long way when your asking about intimate acts with another human being. I try to keep the conversation as business like as possible. I will admit I referred to one provider in unkind terms and have regretted it ever since. The only reason I reply is to try and encourage a respectful attitude and safe practices. As much as possible anyway.

Mikey I agree with most of your reply. Although I have yet to understand the amount of talk that is shared among some of us. You”d think that some of us have nothing to do other than talk about the providers we visit. I will no longer share details about my visits and I don’t feel the need to discuss with anyone my feelings concerning any provider. I hope those I see offer me the same respect

Who is the lady?

I can’t speak for most but after reading numerous posts which lean blame towards the provider when service is said to be lackluster or vanilla, I’ll disagree that there is a general understanding of ymmv. What I take issue with is that making such comments can possibly cause a safe to see and real provider a detrimental loss in their business or reputation . All over something as benign as incompatibility. Why not just move on? Dangerous people should be called out but people who are providing a service as advertised need not be.

Just for giggles... I took a walk through Steve's history... There's absolutely no reviews of any girls. It's all replies to other folks posts where he mostly calls girls scammers or complains about deposited

And interestingly enough, they don't make true crime docs about any of the above .. But they do about what happens to sps Sounds like we're not actually asking too much considering we risk our lives to meet strange men Clearly, even if we find clients in a reputable place like this, it's doesn't mean that we'll automatically be treated with respect People tend to act more respectfully when they leave a trail vs anonymous

I'll never understand why the prospect of screening is so hard for guys to stomach. These women are bringing strange men into their lives on a daily basis. If it were me I would want to know who the hell I'm sharing my bed with. And let's be honest, as a guy, the same doesn't apply to us. We don't care who the girl is beyond, are they attractive and will they perform the acts I want them to perform. So give the whole "the sp should provide id also" argument a rest. The risk is almost all on the sp in these encounters. If your biggest fear in this hobby is being "outed" maybe don't engage in these activities to start. Protect the safety of these girls and appreciate the service they provide. If you don't like the game, don't play.

There's that ONE time that everyone here likes to bring up from a few years ago; a man that we HAD to identify between us sps, who had used fake aliases for screening with at least 10 girls, then written reviews on a number of sps who claimed to have never met him because he lied about who he was. He tried to use multiple girls as references who had claimed to have never met him, hence how a conversation was even started between us sps He also got wrong info from here and was pretending he knew things about sps - leading to safety issues when someone thinks they're paying for something that was never actually on the table, because they discussed things in the DMs here and assumed, rather than discuss with the sp he was booking 🤦 We couldn't know who we were meeting and the situation raised security issues for a number of us. It took 10 - 15 of us sps chatting and screening to sort out who tf this was. So yes, I'll keep to knowing who's visiting my location, thanks. If anything happens, I need to know who you are Tbh with how some men discuss us and circulate our info behind the scenes here, I wouldn't expect any sp to not thoroughly screen, especially lyla members. I've had a stranger describe my entire incall apartment to me - thanks to the pm system 🙄 Screening isn't some new protocol, it's been around for my entire career, but the newer ID screening here came about from necessity, which you can actually thank a prolific poster on lyla for 👀

Screening has been standard since at least 2014 🙄 You're going to limit yourself to certain providers, or maybe yfl if you're unwilling to screen No town is too small for sps to use measures that help keep them safe and alive ❤️

Thank you MikeyInHalifax for sharing this perspective. After my experience with a first time client today, I honestly debated never coming back, but I do have clients in NS who I value very much. I will most likely start screening any new clients when I come to NS. I’m not sure what that will look like as I’ve never had to do this before.

Is there a place to report physical altercations with a client? It was a new client. I am very shaken up. Don’t think I’ll be able to provide service for the remainder of my trip.