Holy shit. You guys are still out here patting yourselves on the back for being so respectful to the needs of providers? You're too much 😂
You can continue to give out your personal info to whomever you like. I wouldn't trust my best friend with this info. None of you must have: a girlfriend, a wife, a public-facing job, or a decent amount of money. Because the prospect of potentially ruining your life or livelihood over getting laid is insane. And sure, you go ahead and "do your homework". But at some point you'll send it to the wrong person and you will get in trouble for it. Hell, it might not have to be the fault of the provider. Ask Google, or Canadian Tire, or the fucking federal government. Digital data is not secure.
I've had no issues seeing plenty of people and keeping it as anonymous as possible. And I'm super respectful, I assure you. Often to the point of limiting my own pleasure at the risk of doing something to make them at all uncomfortable.
But I will be doing so anonymously.