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I'd like to know too.

I've had it a few times from a kind of regular, and its overrated in my opinion. Well the sliding all the way down is kind of nice, but coming all the down is a bit weird because there's no stimulation on the head. Prefer to come in the front of the mouth where the tongue action is. Just sayin'.

One time a sp asked me to spend a little time spooning with her. She liked the relaxed contact, and I guess most of the guys want to get to the action. Well and some of the busy girls do too, but this was a kind of part timer.

I've had a lady ask that question, did I want the hj first or last. Actually I like it first, then relax with a rubdown after. The way some of them are tho, they think its all over once they've got you off, so make it clear that you do expect the massage.

cumon, just do it yourself. baby powder and a disposable razor, double or triple blade. go easy and don't try to get it all the first time.

I rigged one up for myself many years ago, as a private sex toy. I read up on it a bit, then I used a stereo set, and the speaker wires, one in my bum and one in the urethra, something like that. The vibes could be changed by playing different music, and adjusting the volume. I know what your're thinking, but its true! I've always been a do-it-yourself kind of guy. It was pleasant, and interesting, but strangely not sexual. Kind of like giving yourself a climax through your pants with a vibrating power tool. Possible, and interesting, but not really sexual. Also I was worried about damage to the urethra, and the possibility of getting used to too much stimulation and not being responsive to a smooth vagina. So it was just something to try a few times, then leave behind.

I feel for you. I still miss Connie, the asian girl.

I like snowballing. If a lady will let me cum in her mouth, I ask her not to swallow or jump up and spit it out, but to give me a long wet kiss. Whew! Haven't cum on anyone's ass and licked it off, but I've done it on the breasts, and looking forward to the bum.

Great question. I've been in a number of ladies' incall apartments. What I would find really nice is one that is blatantly feminine. What is not nice is stale cigarette smoke, dirty ashtrays, perfume to take home, and clutter. Oh, and obviously used bedclothes. And a wastebacket beside the bed with used tissues and condom wrappers is not a turn-on either.

If I'm going down, I just keep going. If she doesn't like it, she'll say so, or tighten up. If she's ok with it, she'll give you better access. Some years ago, it was really taboo, but nowadays all the porn movies do it, and its getting to be just another lick.

I'd suggest no drugs or alcohol, of course, no toys or vibes, just a massage encounter where you don't have to do anything at all, and you know she's going to get you off, whether you're soft or hard. O.

If you could scrape up another twenty, I could probably make a couple of suggestions.

Ok, so I'm a budget priced player. But seriously, I"ve met girls who will suck you off but don't want your athlete's foot in their shower stall. If I've been out jogging, or after work, I'll go to a public pool for a shower, then to the appointment. I won't presume to shower in someone's private home unless I've been there before and feel comfortable with them. I wouldn't hesitate to ask for a washcloth and time to 'freshen up' tho, tho I never have. O.

You're right, its Connie. An excellent budget priced regular with me. She was looking for some more clientele just a little while ago. I'll pm mgwmgw her number. O.

7-11 gave me a free phone for buying $100 of air time. good rates per minute. absolutely no info to give when starting it up; just key in the pin # of the purchase. since it was a cash sale, I can not be looked-up in reverse. call logs are eraseable. has call display and voice mail. uses Rogers tower network. pretty well a perfect hobbying phone. O>