Miss Jessica Lee

if you call me I can talk you through it Kay :)

there should be a link "upload pictures" on the left side of your new album... no? when you upload others might not see them immediately as they require moderation... but you should see that they are there and in queue.

I communicated at great length once with a gentleman about a meeting. It was his first time with a paid companion, and he had many questions and concerns, as I'm sure you can all appreciate.

He explained he owns his own successful and busy company and that he was tired of the bar scene and casual pick ups that stayed over one night and never left. I explained I was no gold digger, that I had my own pot of gold and that his payment ensured I would a) leave, and b) not call him the next day.

Despite living alone, he was reluctant to have me visit his home (again understandable) and he booked a room at an upscale resort hotel. When I arrived I knocked, and could hear him finishing up a phone call on the other side of the door.

When he opened it he still had the phone at his ear... his jaw dropped open and he said "oh my gawd! it's YOU!"

He was a senior in highschool when I was a junior. He was my sisters' age, and although we weren't buddies we sure knew eachother.

He quickly recovered from his shock, invited me in and said he was so glad it was me, he'd been so nervous but now he felt better. I explained that discretion was my middle name and of course it was a two way street... which of course he confirmed.

We continued with the visit and I've seen him several times since. Nice guy :)

I drove out of my driveway afterwards to run some errands and the two kids (aged between 9-12) are on their front yard waving goodbye to me. So I drove around the block and came back. They were walking across the street. When they saw me coming they pretended they were just walking down the road.

This morning I wake up and their two cats are sleeping on my upholstered patio furniture on my deck.

So I think today I will just walk into their house, crack open a beer, put my feet up and start changing TV channels. Think they will get the hint??

LoL

on a serious note ... I have drafted a letter and I think I will try that route first. It's polite and simply explains the liability issue and that the quiet, private enjoyment of my own yard is being compromised. I've also got a live trap for the cats, which I will return to them when caught. Once. After that they can pick them up at the humane society.

I feel like super bitch. But I've had enough.

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Additional Comments:

This is riskier stuff. And so these concerns are valid on all sides. And it's not insulting to ask or there is no intent to insult. Just like there is none if an sp does a visual inspection before a bbbj. I don't see why regar tests couldn't be posted online or elsewhere . I have been

Shown results before- without asking. Ideally hobbyists would have them too. I've been to parts of Theworld where the hobby is legalized and upper scale sps have them there for reference

 

 

This is a business and posting results would probably improve someone's brand and maybe marketability. Also people would be more secure knowing an sp is getting themsves tested.

 

I know the response is the hobbyists Need it to test ad well and they are right but it's a numbers game. On average sps see many more people a week.

 

 

Absolutely everyone needs to protect themselves to their comfort and risk levels. And there are limitations to their usefulness as mentioned above but to argue that they are of no point and people would not be secure knowing flies in the face of current scientific thought.

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I'm sorry but this is about the craziest suggestion I've ever heard!

You think test results should be posted online?

My real name isn't Jessica (right?) ... how will you know when you find MY test results? Or should I post my test results along with my given name address and health card number and indicate that these are the test results for Miss Jessica Lee ... ?

I don't know how that would improve branding and marketability. I do know about stalking ....

or maybe I misunderstood...?

Fortunateone I get what you're saying, but you're also assuming that just because something is "prohibited" that people won't do it. If any governing body was to start regulating or prohibiting specific services wouldn't bbfs be the one thing they'd be most concerned with?

It would be a perfect world if regulating bodies could just expect everyone to accept, and comply, with every rule, law, and prohibition, but that's obviously not the case.

Just the other day I picked my sister up from work and she was giving two guys trouble for being in the shop without safety footwear (she's on a joint health and safety committee).

Just because they ATTEMPT to regulate something doesn't mean they will be even a little bit successful. I mean are they gonna sit beside us and roll that condom on for us to ensure it's used?

I'm just stating the obvious here.

what's up with my neighbours ... that they think it's ok to let their entire brood of offspring sneak down the side of my house and play on my dock???

I live on a nice river and unfortunately the houses across the street aren't on the water. But three houses down (and right across from the neighbours in question) is a public beach!

Last year they hauled my $300 inflatable party island from it's moorings, put it in the water, played on it all day ... and then left it there! They didn't even put it back where they found it! I was lucky it wasn't stolen, but it was freaking filthy when I found it there.

They sneak between myself and my other waterfront neighbours homes as there is no fence ... and I know he's had enough of this too. I told the kids again today that they weren't welcome, that if someone got hurt I'd be liable, and that's why there's a public beach. But wtf is with the parents??

Like seriously? In what world is this normal?

When a gent, during an encounter, lists off the names of all the providers he's seen. Especially if it's in some bragging "I'm da man!" kinda way.

If I've already checked your references and you're in my room, you don't need to convince me any further. This is information I don't require.

well sweeties .... ;)

I'd rather use a term of endearment than accidentally call you by the wrong name ;) so that's my defense.

I am never offended by use of any term of endearment ... at $275 an hour you can call me whatever the hell you want to call me :D

Black men don't seem to be attracted to me. I can count on one hand the number I've seen in my career, and each of them was a complete gentleman.

Not sure why ...:confused0024:

I doesn't bother me if clients book through my email and don't tell me if they are from cerb. As long as they are respectful to what I ask for, I'm happy.

 

I know for myself that I don't book appointments through the pm system.

Agreed :)

I don't mind booking a repeat visit via PM, but not a first meeting.

Who can not help but admire a young woman in her supposed,"prime," but the fact of the matter is for me that I believe that women are sexier as they mature.

 

Now to reverse the scenario, when I look into the mirror I only see,"old." I don't feel that but I see that. I wonder if that perception for women preferring the young hard bodied man is even stronger for them than it is for men who look at women?

well I'm sure I'm not the only lady who finds maturity in a man sexy!

I know for me, younger men (under 30) just aren't my preference, that's why I have an age limit mentioned on my website. It's not the look of the older man I find irresistible, although that's often very appealing.

The qualities that appeal to me are most often found in a mature man. Charisma, confidence, maturity, passion, chivalry, a positive attitude... younger men possess them of course, but not usually all of them.

I suppose it depends greatly on what you choose to expose yourself to. I don't watch much mainstream media.

Being in my 40's, I surround myself with my peers and I find their experience, maturity, sense of humour and "live-and-let-live" attitude to be refreshingly sexy.

When I am with my mid-20's son and his friends, I'm often reminded that I'm too hot to be his mom. However, I don't find any of those young men to be very sexy I'm afraid.

Confidence in a man or woman is a trait I find incredibly sexy, and it appears to me to be something that develops with age ;)

That is really sad...I was suprise to hear about the cancellation :(

I'm open for a smaller meet and greet...let me know :)

BJ

I'm down for that :)

I was just going to rsvp to the social when I read that it was cancelled this time around... bummer!

if a small group gets together please do let me know ... I plan to be in ottawa that weekend ;)

ya I actually posted this actual possible scenario on terb (phone issues) before you deleted your thread over there.

glad it worked out and you didn't completely ruin her reputation.

:D

(smilie and so not smiling ... for those in the loop)

I'm going to be blunt. My apologies in advance if I offend anyone, that isn't my intention.

I thank those I agree with. I don't thank those I don't agree with. I nominate those I agree very strongly with and those that make a point so damn fine.

That's a pretty simple way of putting it.

I think, with all due respect, the OP needs to understand that in life..... shit happens, and people you thought would support you through thick and thin sometimes let you down.

That's because they don't feel the same way as you. That's because they are as unique as you.

It's very rare to have everyone in any given community agree with you or support you all the time. Learning this is a part of growing up.

the use of smilies, emoticons or a well place LOL or hehehehehe enables the reader to take the written word not at face value, but as they were originally intended, as a bit of fun.

just a note ... it might just be me (it often is lol) but I find the excessive use of smilies to be very sarcastic, especially if the comment preceding the smilie is up for interpretation.

A smilie in the wrong place can totally change the meaning of your post. A smilie doesn't always mean your smiling.

:D

And this is someone who I have texted 1000s of times with and she never ignores me for long periods like this. I trust her enough that we both know each others' real names, addresses, etc.

Maybe it's just me .... but my first assumption in this case would be that they were not ok, that something serious must have happened to prevent them from getting in touch.

I would not first assume that someone I am this familiar and comfortable with has "scammed" me.

But then I'm a glass-half-full kinda girl ...

I had a delicious dinner tonight at Turtle Jacks Mississauga. I ate every morsel.

When the server came to clear my plate she asked how my meal was and I responded ... "ya that was awful!"

She could see I pretty much licked my plate. I'm pretty sure I didn't offend her :D And I'm 100% sure my comment had nothing to do with my self esteem.. or trying to make myself feel better :)

I'm harmlessly sarcastic all the time! People better not start taking me seriously or I'm in big trouble lmfao ....

I have always tolerated requests for cbj but I'd much rather perform oral without a barrier.

If someone tried to tell me I'd have to give up daty or kissing I'd retire.

Having a gent visit me repeatedly is without a doubt the most sincere complement he could offer me.

I enjoy building a rapport with my gentlemen friends, many of them provide a true 'boyfriend experience' and for that I'm most grateful.

I don't need to spend time screening those gentlemen, and I don't insist on emails to book, which makes booking much simpler, and it makes for a much more relaxed encounter for both of us.

A big thank you from me!! xoxoxo

First, even when I look my very best I'm not 'perfect'. So of course my 'imperfections' haven't kept me from working :)

I just wiped out on a mountain bike trail the other day... and I have a scrape on my ankle, a bruise on my forearm and a couple scratches but I worked. I also have a couple of bug bites. LoL

I am sporty... I ski, cycle, rollerblade, kayak ... and ya sometimes I bruise. All in good fun!! and you guys can't catch a bruise lol

If I was sick with a cold or something I would take the day off :)

I have a couple of gents who contact me every few weeks by text, to say things like:

"nice new pics, I hope I can come see you soon!"

"happy easter, want to book some time soon!"

"happy mothers day beautiful ... maybe we can get together soon!"

"merry christmas babe, I will come see you in the new year!"

"more sexy new pics? you're gorgeous babe! see you soon!"

"happy Hanukkah sweetheart ...." ... ok I'm kidding with that one ... but seriously...

.... guess when was the last time these guys actually booked a visit? My curiosity makes me wonder if I'm one of fifty ladies these dudes text. Maybe he sits on his phone all day every day ... sending happy holiday wishes to all the girls. fml...

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Hi RG, not that I think U will book an encounter with me (!) but just so U know not all ladies, I am one of them, have websites!! As for me it's in the works but not my first priority at the moment so I have to live it with it and this is where for me CERB is so important!

 

And like U say it was just my 2 cents!

 

Barbara!

I don't think it's a big deal because there's plenty of gents who don't necessarily require a website to book.

Another note to keep in mind however, I don't provide references to ladies I don't know if I can't find a website. It's a way to determine legitimacy for us, too :)

Sudbury:

Alexandria's

Tommy's Not Here

Timmins:

Gallery Dining Room (sounds blah but it's freaking amazing)

Osaka Sushi

Sault Ste Marie:

View (Delta Hotel)

Cesira's Italian Cuisine

Muskoka:

Wabora Tepanyaki / Sushi Bar

Dock at the Bay

Tall Trees

Georgian Bay:

Henry's Fish n Chips (water access only, boat or plane)

Ottawa:

Beckta Dining & Wine

Aroma Small Plates & Wine

Still trying to find good food in North Bay ... anyone got any leads???

I gave a very patient man $50 back last night.

I arrived late for an outcall, we had plenty of time and weren't rushed, and he offered the full amount but I offered him a reduction for his patience.

I'm sure he appreciated it although he certainly didn't expect it. What a sweetheart he was :p

Personally I don't think you can ever plan too far in advance. I've had successful meetings planned over 6 months beforehand. There are plenty of gents who book well ahead to make it worth my while to work that way.

Having said that, I promised myself I wouldn't plan any tours this summer and just take it easy ... and I'm struggling with trying to not plan ahead. Seriously challenging for me. LoL