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As summer pointed out on her comment of my post, the group seems to no longer exist for whatever reason. This is an absolute tragedy. new 3somes group coming right up! EUREKA! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=175

I received a wall post today, from a new member who joined today, simply asking for my address. That's a bit forward, isn't it? Though that is a necessary question at some point before we can meet for an incall, just thought it would be good to bring up that some questions may be necessary to pose, but timing can totally make things akward. Some questions may be better left unsaid, true. But we also need to be sure that some questions just need to be kept for a certain time...as in later.

I know of a very fun & exciting social group for oral lovers, with a thread for the "naughty ladies of cerb" photos... might wanna look deeper into that... perhaps other groups for particular acts will start doing the same! there can't just be bj pics everywhere ....as even they don't quite qualify as "raunchy" (i think?!) which, let's face it, is a word with a VERY broad spectrum in this neighborhood Additional Comments: Then again, aren't there mounds upon mounds of XXX photos on the web? and videos too? And live chat sites...One has to wonder why those wouldn't suffice?

Precisely. That's exactly what I was getting at with my comments in regards to body type being irrelevant. And just so we are clear, "skills" in this industry go far beyond sexual capabilities. Let's be honest, would you see the girl who "screws best" if she was addicted to crack and wanted to get high during your sessions, a lady who makes you feel unsafe by having other questionable adults or children present at the time of your encounter? Those are just 2 of the many, many, many different examples of how things like personality, demeanor & attitude, lifestyle, mutual respect, discretion, (the list can go on) many things come into effect when an SP provides you with a "service".... And to clarify : Do not mistake my personality and attitude as the same thing. My personality is WHO I AM, my attitude depends on who you are. DISCLAIMER: YMMV.

A reco being made, imo, should never be brought up by the SP, only by the client when he asks if it's ok (which on a side note I think getting permission is cute but not necessary re: freedom of speech). But you're saying she simply stated permission to, that's a bit different than requesting.... I guess. But really and truly, she is being suggestive, which to me is still a form of soliciting a reco from you. Still considered to be in poor taste, by me (just mho). There are no "Rules" in this business, aside from legalities of course, every lady makes her own rules.

No problem, I find that goes both ways; there are many topics in the past ( you'd have to look at archives from before 2008 ) where my point of view seemed to stand alone as many of the posters did what I call "ganging up" with negative comments because they did not agree with my PoV....but the silent members, the ones who have been lurking for years and never post, well they often feel the same as I do on a particular topic just don't bother chiming in, which can make one person seem like the only person who feels or thinks that way. So keep in mind for the future that if a thread gets 10 replies and they all seem to have the same view on things, there may be another 50 people not commenting who disagree, but will privately let you know they are on "your side". As for your comment about needing to have "smokin body", well that's irrelevant. When I first started in this hobby in 2005 I believed I would be unpopular because I do not have that "tight, fit super model body". This was an assumption and boy was i wrong! Doesn't matter if you're small, big, firm or fluffy, lil tits or giant balloons, hairy or shaved, black white brown or yellow, blonde or ginger, green eyed or blue, freckles or beauty marks, scars or tattoos, none of it matters for the simple reason of: everyone has different tastes. Yes, many gentlemen like that super tiny spinner type, and I'm sure there are plenty of ladies for them to choose from....but if all SPs were spinners, all those guys who feel that bones are for the dog and meat is for them, well they'd be sh!t outta luck, wouldn't they?

I just read this entire thread and am slightly shocked by the above comment (particularly the bolded part) from the original post...shocked not only by the comment itself but also shocked that no one else seems to have picked up on this...Would requesting a review not be considered borderline shilling? Should SPs not treat EVERY client with the potential to be reviewed/recommended? I don't REQUEST reviews per say, but if I'm asked by a client if it is OK to post one; surely it is! But would I request it? LORD NO! Asking to be reviewed/recommended takes away from the act itself, imho. If a gentleman feels a particular lady deserves a reco, he will give her one. If it was requested by the SP, well...that just takes away the integrity. It might be a positive reco, but made on false pretenses as perhaps the gentleman never would have of his own free will as the service was perhaps mediocre and normally he only reco's those who were stellar....but since he was asked to he feels compelled....sorry, end rant.

I know the OP doesn't want to keep this thread going, but I could not resist pointing out a very important "variable" to his original post pointing out we (SPs) should all be averaging about 60K/yr.... You must have forgotten to take into account the 12 weeks of every year that nature makes us, well for lack of a better word, "unavailable". Even if we did get 10 bookings per week (Who's THAT girl and can she teach me how?!?!?), have you considered how many of those are half hour appointments? How many of them no-showed or canceled? From my personal experiences, if 10 men want to meet me this week, 6 of them are asking for the same time slot and unless we're all gettin together for a gang bang, only one person is gonna make it through. And last I checked, these business costs do add up: condoms clean sheets make up hair products / hair cuts or styling manicures /pedicures (you really wanna see an SP with foot fungus?) lingerie / stockings / shoes those trying to keep a particular body type would need gym memberships sex toys incall rent outcall traveling costs advertising communications (phone bill, internet bill etc) Believe me, especially as I am only a part-time SP, 60K is a far-fetched fantasy. --SIDE NOTE-- I seem to be the only SP not insulted by the original question. Though I do disagree with your assumptions about what we "roll in", I don't personally feel the question is out of line. Perhaps because like the OP, I like having overloads of information on everything and feel strongly that if you don't know something but want to learn about it, asking is your best bet. And I was raised by a hippie mother who led me to believe no subject is taboo. just mho.

I'm super glad Channing won, I personally think he's the nicest piece of eye candy around! --DROOL--

I kinda feel the same way I guess, having a 15mins session implies it is all about sex, only sex, and very fast no time to savor it sex. I'm glad it's offered to those who like it that way, but I for one don't see the connection between that type of service and the word courtesan....just mho. There's a lot more than "quick, hard sex" to my sessions, even if the sex was quick and hard. ;)

Well...what can I say that hasn't already been said... DFK & DATY FTW! ;)

you forgot to mention the gigantic thumbs up icon on the button! how will he ever find it with a man's idea of directions, sheeesh!

I for one do not judge a client on his age, it's not something I ask about prior to meeting. I think everything cat already said pretty well sums up how SPs can be either thrown off or intrigued by the gentleman's approach in contacting us... 50yr old men can be jerks too.

Have any of you used the search tool and typed either "bbbj" or "cof" ? Might wanna start there! ;)

Well first off, posting in this section will get you advice on which ESCORTS to see, though I am sure many of them would offer a massage along with everything else. You may want to view the "new to this" section which has a lot of advice about : a) guidelines to contacting providers b) many discussions about never expecting extras and always informing yourself before hand. You may also want to visit the recommendation threads, as everyone worth recommending is mentioned there already.

I totally need to join this group, pretty sure I'm duracell's biggest client.

"Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most" - Ozzy

Who could forget "The bad touch" by the Bloodhound gang. I can't believe I listed funny & sexy songs without that one...smh

you should be more concerned about her if she is underage...as far as hobbyists seeing her, they are adults who are usually of sound mind to make their own decisions and deal with the results. Though one should definitely be concerned for both, I think you have your priorities backwards.

Nothing wrong with "Old Skool". "Doin' it" - LL Cool J "You're making me high" - Toni Braxton "My pony" - Ginuwine "Splash Waterfalls" & "What's your fantasy?" - Ludacris "Toss it up" - 2PAC (aka Makaveli at the time) "Bump N grind" - R Kelly "Turn your lights down low" (REMIX) - Bob Marley feat Lauryn Hill "I'll make love to you" - Boyz II Men "Sexual healing" - Marvin Gaye "Between the sheets" - Isley Brothers funny AND sexy songs: "Automobile" - Eazy E "Girls, girls, girls" - Beastie Boys "dog sh-t" - Wu Tang Clan "She's got skillz" - All4One "It wasn't me" - Shaggy

French Toast! Frog legs or escargots?

Emily J and I are both trying to share videos online with members of the very special oral loving group... I had used tinypic.com but the links never last as nudity/pornographic content is against the user agreement. Can anyone confirm if tumblr.com is suitable? If not, help us find a suitable uploading site that is BBBJ-friendly, please!

It's now in its own discussion forum, no longer need to go into "General Discussion Area - all of Canada", just choose "New to this" from the main cerb page, hope this was helpful! ;)

My 2 cents.... I never expect a tip, but will certainly not refuse one. If you have requested an item that I list as an "extra", then the appropriate tip for this service is expected, but nothing more. Sure cash is appreciated, but gifts are always a nice token too... as the old saying goes; "it's the thought that counts"

Well I've got the ol' tummy stretchmarks from having had kids... I have long ago left behind any stigmas I had about having them, simply because: I am a goddamn tiger who earned her stripes!