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  1. Posted

    Was it the length of the tongue in DP which made you book them? 😜

    23 hours ago, Katherine of Halifax said:

    I stupidly deposited to a "lady" Monica last weekend. Pic was a face  close up with tongue sticking out.  I guess when you are honest  yourself you don't think things through . of course that was the last contact.    Silly  , silly me.

     

  5. Posted

    I would suggest talking to established SPs and see how they do it and learn from them. 

    Wish I worked for CRA 😂

    14 minutes ago, SarahAlexxx said:

    I would love to, I'm just not sure how to, or if it's even legal under law. My big worry is being audited and it getting any of YOU in trouble. It's not that I'm trying to avoid it because I'm a liar. Its that in terrified and still fairly new to the lifestyle. Its help I need, not judgement. Lol. If any of ya'll work for CRA or lawyer... maybe some advice would be awesome. 

     

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  6. Posted

    Filling taxes is a good idea. I totally understand some people have situation where they can't. Biggest benefit is that if you register your work as business, you can claim travel, rent and car payment towards taxes. Few SPs I know have 'personal wellness consultant' as their main business category. 

    Doing so will also help with credit history and RRSP for old times. Credit score allows you to pay less in car payments/mortgage. Yes, it sounds great to not paying taxes, but individual benefits over long term are way more than what you put in. Again, I am not judging whether you pay tax or not. Just suggesting that everyone should. Another trick is not declare all of income, just declare enough to keep tax man happy. 

    2 hours ago, SarahAlexxx said:

    Unfortunately, I'm not one of those who do. So, still wont apply to me. 😕

     

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  7. Posted

    It's the same logic people give when talking about climate change. Our collective greed (yes, greed not survival) has destroyed the earth and we are still doing it in this situation. 

    And yes, everyone judges every one. Stop lying to yourself that there is something called "no judgement". You really think these positive messages from clients are true and without judgment? 

    If SPs shouldn't be judged for working, then what wrong restaurant workers did that they are being forced not to work? What wrong taxi drivers did they are losing jobs? What wrong people coming from outside did that they have to stay indoors for 14 days? It's unfair when one part of society comes with survival theory and justifies their actions while another part of society is locked in their homes.... 

    During the last economic recession, probably a Wall Street guy had same logic - I need money to pay for my car - and they did everything to 'survive' resulting in hundreds of suicides and people losing everything they owned. But hey, let's not judge Wall St, they were trying to survive. 

     

    1 hour ago, SarahAlexxx said:

    Not all of us have the option of saving money. 

    I pay $800 a month to own a car... I miss one payment, it's gone. I have NEVER been able to live in advance or save money for anything. Luckily, most hobbiest are boomers who have lots of savings after crashing our economy. Why else do you think they have a 'fun' limit of cash they spend on us.

    For me, I had to wait to see someone before I could even buy toilet paper or feed myself. The entire month of February, I saw 2 people... I chose rent over food. If you wanna take up issues with what I'm doing, go ahead. But dont you ever come see me if you can't respect me.

    I really dont even know why I feel the need to explain myself to you future. But may, just maybe you could open your eyes and realize how seriousness the likelyhood of homelessness is for some of us.

    3 hours ago, katie said:

    Exactly! We are in this for the Long Haul. Canada has more "Postive Cases" than they think. They just aren't "Testing Enough". New Bruswick Has More Cases, they aren't testing enough. Most likely the case all around, in most parts of Canada. Clovid 19 has hit Canada before they said it did. Anyways, Shaming SP's choosing to work.. No way! There's No Shaming the Hobbyist for still Hobbying! It's one's choice, their own decision. Everyone needs to survive, weather it's a Virus Crisis, War, or whichever. There will be one's the "Still Seek" and there will be one's the "Still Provide". Unless your going to open your Pocket Books .. Don't Judge. Everyone needs to Survive ... Including You! 

     

     

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  8. Posted

    There are many SPs who have switched to online content. Skype, Onlyfans, selling photos directly etc. Opens up client base as well, this way you are not limited to only local clients. It needs hardwork, might have to work 15 hours a day to make reasonable money, but it can be done. 

    If an independent contractor (no matter what field), runs out of money on day 6 of a situation like this, then its time to reevaluate choices they make. If it was day 60, I would understand. 

    49 minutes ago, SarahAlexxx said:

    Whoever wants to judge me on continuing to work, can feel free to send me the payment for my rent, car and other basic necessities. One missed payment can easily result in repo. Keep that in mind when your local booty call has to keep her booty available. Ps: please deposit here [email protected] 

     

  9. Posted

    Yes. That's what people are doing. I am shocked at the ads by ladies (which I always respected), even with some saying let's quarantine together. In my another post on this topic, I mentioned that if people are willing to risk this virus for money, there is probably an amount you can pay for any fantasy/dangerous endeavour you want. Everything is for sale apparently. Not just own health, but health of our whole community. And then people argue to legalize this hobby, guess what, if it was legalized, govt would have shut it down as non-essential service during these times... Stay safe. 

     

    1 hour ago, Lookingfor said:

    You're kidding me that all you people like the fact that she's going to stay hosting locally. Does she have a screening kit for the virus that tells her no you don't come in you have the virus when they are testing.

     

  12. Posted

    Well said. Regarding the posts in this thread comparing general health risk of the profession to covid-19 situation is ridiculous. An sti at most will spread two or three times the client's an SP sees. This virus can spread to a community by one person.

    Also, it seems like in this thread that money is a major factor - that makes me think that at some point on money vs risk graph, there is an amount you can pay to an SP and have bbfs or other risky endeavours. Hey, it's risky but look at the money.... Also, if a person is on minimum wage and they hit financial troubles this quickly, I can understand. But this hobby isn't minimum wage (well, I don't know if it is, but logic dictates it isn't, if it was, SPs might as well work at Tims instead of this profession - here comes comments with logic of choices and do what you like). 

    As far as EI goes, if SP are doing things properly and declaring money they make to govt (under business/consultant category) and contributing to EI, they would have EI. As with any profession (which is not minimum wage or low income), if you don't have money saved to survive at least six months, then I feel sorry for you. It's not a virus fault or govt fault. 

     

    On 3/18/2020 at 8:33 AM, Lookingfor said:

    The situation of COVID -19 is getting worse every day and the precautions you take should getting higher and higher. So for those of you wishing to continue the process of arguing about a mere dollar instead of taking precautions to prevent people from getting this disease is ridiculous. What everyone should be doing is stopping intimate contact altogether until this problem is solved. It only takes one person to get in the room with COVID -19 and guess what you're going to be spreading it instead of stopping it, it only takes one. Wishing you all the best please be careful and stay safe.

     

  13. Posted

    With this situation constantly evolving and nearly all public sector working from home and people practicing social distancing, I think SPs should take a break too. I know I have no right to stop people from working, advertising or earning money but some times things need to be changed. It will cause financial hardships, but better than spreading the virus. Search patient 31 for how one person spread it to hundreds in S. Korea. Is it worth it? The way things are moving, soon the chances of someone having an sti will be way less than they having this coronavirus. 

    PS: I respect personal decisions, and totally support this hobby. Also, please don't use the argument that as a customer you should make the decision not the SP whether you want to see one or not. Everyone has responsibilities during this time. Now is the time to prove that this hobby is just like any another profession and SPs are caring people. 

  14. Posted

    Don't trust the conspiracy around this being man made. There are hundred other ways to make money in pharmaceutical business, the companies don't need to make a virus which is unpredictable. Developing a vaccine costs billions (using genetic material of virus), now imagine how much it will cost to make that genetic material of virus in first place if someone in lab decided to make one. 

    As far as don't worry it's same as flu is concerned, with a flu majority don't need hospitalization. With this the rate is high, and yes, the death rate is low but that's because the countries it has hit hard have good medical system and it didn't get overwhelmed. In Iran the death rate is nearly 5%, imagine it spreads in Africa where health care is none existent or a country where health care collapses and situation gets out of hand then it won't be like flu, it will be much worse. 

    8 hours ago, Jigglerz said:

    Judging by the (relatively)  huge Chinese community in HRM, I'd say it was here a month ago at least. So it's a "pandemic", whoop dee doo. All that means is that it's spread around the world quickly. You can't trust Chinese data, but I read that according to Korean stats it's not much more lethal than the average flu.  

    I believe there was a recent study which indicates that there are HIV traits in it. 

    If you ask me, I think Gilead put a whole shit fuck ton of money into an Ebola vaccine which proved useless, so they released a genetically engineered virus against which their failed Ebola vaccine would work. Hey, they have to recoup their development losses somehow.

    Follow the money.

     

  16. Posted

    Or keep an eye on when ad was posted and only go to the SP if they have been here for more than 14 days. If they open the door and sneeze, RUN. 

    1 hour ago, Greenteal said:

        Other than maybe avoid Asian establishments advertising "new arrivals", I wouldn't worry about it. But as those places are often a front for human trafficking, I wouldn't recommend in the first place.

        Also, would maybe avoid trips to Thailand and sex tourism in that area for the next months.

        But until we reach the level of cases and hysteria currently seen in Asia and Europe, I wouldn't lose sleep over it.

        

     

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  17. Posted

    Some SPs choose not to use their own photos but use something which is closer to their real looks. I think this is not a bait n switch. I think that what he means too, that photos might not be hers but she still was close to what he imagined her to be. 

    24 minutes ago, Redcap said:

    Did you say that the pics are *not* her?

    22 minutes ago, Redcap said:

     

     

  18. Posted

    If you never been a client, then there is a whole process you have to go through. Search this site and you will find info.

    If you were a client and they are not responding, you need to follow new client procedure again. They once deleted my number, so I had same trouble. Once you are in, it's a very smooth process. 

    On 2/25/2020 at 9:45 PM, anotherguy74 said:

    I`m having trouble contacting her

     

  21. Posted

    That's a good point. 

    21 minutes ago, OldandNerdy said:

    I'm not sure that hotels would enjoy being featured here, and I know you mentioned that it would need to include all the hotels in the area, but once this road started to get traveled I think we run the risk of putting providers in a bit of danger if anyone started to reply to the thread with 

     

    "Hey, I'm heading to the Hilton on Main Street, where are the elevators?"

     

    Suddenly, it's outed that a provider is there, if you understand what I'm getting at.

     

  22. Posted

    Yes, online search is what I do. 

    My suggestion was to just have like quick reference guide here on Lyla. 

    7 minutes ago, OldandNerdy said:

    Hotel lobbies are generally similar to each other.  I think the main point is to just walk in, go past the front desk without making eye contact, and the elevators will generally be right there or there will be a sign pointing the way.

     

    The way not to do it is to go to the front desk and ask where the elevators are, or to awkwardly hangout in the lobby looking around anxiously.   

     

    Hotels usually don't make a habit of hiding infrastructure like elevators.  If you are unsure, you can always look up the hotel online ahead of time, and look for a photo of the lobby.  It should help make you feel a bit more comfortable 🙂

     

  23. Posted

    In a past thread around etiquettes around in all someone mentioned that when coming to in call hotel act normal. It's kind of difficult to act normal when you have no idea if elevators are on the right or left. 

    I am thinking we should have a thread which shows entrance level plan showing elevators/stairs. And when someone is meeting an SP they can check that thread for the hotel. 

    Of course we will have to add every hotel so not to bring attention to any particular hotel. 

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  24. Posted

    See this topic:

    On 2/28/2019 at 9:28 AM, Mikeyboy said:

    One hit on the first pic.

     

    https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https://scontent-amt2-1.cdninstagram.com/vp/02d3c236c69f5b15f281e93b0c4c5757/5CE01CC0/t51.2885-15/sh0.08/e35/c0.135.1080.1080/s640x640/49674398_2924180957607946_4172233919811896376_n.jpg%3F_nc_ht%3Dscontent-amt2-1.cdninstagram.com&imgrefurl=https://insta-stalker.com/tag/morelife/&h=640&w=640&tbnid=UtR5PP0YpLdzRM&tbnh=225&tbnw=225&usg=K_GEvXG1U5L1n3II4moC5VAKByRHA=&docid=D6aAK7ZYLRgVzM

     

    Not really sure what it means though. Doesn't really say where it comes from. I'd be cautious. 

     

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