All good advice here but I would like to add some unsolicited advice to the OP starting out new and that is this:
Massages with beautiful women with (sometimes) happy endings can be very habit forming, addictive, and very expensive over the long haul. I think back to how much I've spent over the last 7 or 8 years and I basically could have a nice SUV paid off and sitting in the driveway. Set limits and stick to them.