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alexgrenyait

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  1. hi there i lived in cornwall to for 17 years and just moved to ottawa 2 years ago.cornwall is 1 hour from ottawa.as for advertising...the best place i think would be on cerb or on ec.cornwall doesnt have much of a market for this as it is fairly small and is becoming a retirement community and there is not too much money in cornwall.good luck xo
  2. i myself have found that i was more than once in a situation where i was unable to cancel or rescedule the meeting due to not having a phonenumber that will accept incoming calls so when booking it is very necessary to have an email address or phone number in case of an emergency alexo
  3. i couldnt agree more apex if i was the hobbiest i would leave too...this has nothing to do with this thread but i have a rant and have to get it out.i am so insulted when i have a client call me to say his regular has cancelled and can he see me..too much information and the answer would be no!!this has happened too me a couple of times.also i dont understand the need for a client to ask to see me and then when i am not able he sends me an email to say he has booked someone else and mentions the name too much information.that feels good to get that off my chest!! alexox
  4. hi i am open with my family of what i do if i wasnt everything would be built on lies...xoxoalex
  5. i agree it has definitely put a dent in business..i am considering working at a downtown hotel fridays if there is enough business to warrant that,
  6. well im in if someone sets this in motion i will donate to the cause.it is unfortunate as this man will assume that all women are like this and will have a difficult time every trusting a female again,granted i dont quite understand how he let it go so far....she must have been one helluva a actress thats for sure!!!if this plan is set in motion let me know and i am willing to help out.
  7. hi there i justed wanted to clarify that i do not offer greek.
  8. I agree from an sp's point of view i also enjoy having a drink and a little conversation before we get into the playtime.Obviously if it is a morning appt it is hard to offer a beer!!haha After I am sure that we are just as nervous or shy as you gentleman so relaxing a little before hand is always nice,and of course snuggling after is a must!!xoox alex
  9. i definitely agree with paige on that one.It is hard not to be insulted by that.If that is all you are willing to pay or if that is all you think we are worth...you wont get much for that price.alex grenyait
  10. happy birthday dumpy!!!!!lots of kisses and hugs xoxooxo
  11. this is such a great thread,i can"t help but add to it.I have been in this position more than once,it can be quite awkward.Through experiences that I have had I tend to run the other way when a client asks to see me out of this line of work as I always assume they are wanting free services.Unfortunately my gut instinct has never been wrong.Like Cat says a true gentleman will realize that once clothes come off it is proper to leave an envelope.Maybe I am unlucky but on the very very few instances I have seen the client out of work they were always expecting something else without payment..and that makes it so awkward.As much as I like to ***** i think the clincher for me would be if the client asked me out for fun and wanted nothing else but fun and conversation dropped me off at my door I would be more apt to go out with that person again.There is a fine line that for me cannot be crossed..its kind of like if you had a friend and he was a construction worker and everytime he wanted to hang out with you you had him build something!!I dont think he would hang around long!! I will tell you a situation I am going through presently it is sooo awkward and I still have not dealt with it as I hate to hurt peoples feelings or have conversations like this.here goes...any advice would be appreciated!! I have been seeing a gentleman for a year now..I see him every week.He is one of the few I give a half hour rate too.(a mistake)It is hard though to take away what you have offered though. About a month ago I started to notice that in the envelope the amount would vary I got the impression he was leaving whatever was convenient for him which was starting to insult me.So I decided I would hold him off abit...I then recieved a business proposition from him which interested me it had nothing to do with escorting.So i agreed at that time he left me a 500 business check....i assumed that was for the new job.Alas he wanted more at the end of the talk.I did because I wasnt sure what this check was covering...now he has come to see me twice and not left anything after his business talks a half hour has turned into an hour...and 1 email a day has turned into 20!! obviosly i need to deal with this and have a discussion with him which i dread..i will lose a client im sure through nothing i did wrong but being trusting and nice.This types of situations will make me run the other way. I do this profession obviously for a living but I enjoy it very much also and have met some great people.But i detest being taken advantage of or put in this situation sooo like cat says be clear if you want to have fun publicly thats great but still treat your lady right and respect her.and remember what we do for a living. alex xo
  12. hi there i am probably posting in the wrong section but i have a problem.under my reviews an agency has me posted as working for them that is untrue i am independant and do not work for them.i have emailed them and told them to remove my name and any reviews connected with their agency as i am sure they have made those reviews themself.can you remove this information as it is totally incorrect and not true i am not connected to that agecncy or any agency.thanx alex
  13. hi there my name is alex grenyait and i have an ad on ec if you would like to see pics.i could be available at that time if given 24 hours notice. xoox alex
  14. i myself prefer to have appts booked by email,as alot of times i am unable to answer my phone as i am training like crazy right now.my emails go to my blackberry and i usually respond within the hour.i like to have a days notice as i have a tight schedule and it is impossible for me to see someone with only an hours notice. regards alex xo
  15. many years ago i was not in this industry full time but did have one client.after a couple of months i felt i had fallen in love with him and told him i would not take payment anymore.it was a mistake i made with this person as i really did not know who he was.my heart was broken by him many times.what attracted me to him was that he was older and that he made me feel safe and taken care of.once i stopped taking payment all that changed...i will not even tell you what i lost but it was alot.my world was turned upside down.we went into business together and it was a nightmare.which is how i found myself in this industry fulltime a little over a year ago. perhaps the same thing has happened to other girls.i know for myself because of this past experience i never make the mistake of mixing business with personal pleasure.i choose to stay unattached until my time in this industry is done.i find that is the best way as i am not prepared to stop escorting at this time.there have been times when i felt a client of mine was perhaps liking me too much and if i feel that i run,as i feel it would be hard to have a relationship and also escort. so i believe that unless the girl stops taking money from you the feeling is not reciprocated.always remember it is a business transaction with hopefully both parties still having fun with each other.i think if someone was falling in love with their sp perhaps they should either talk to her about it if you are willing to accept her profession but if you are not the best thing would be to put some distance between you so your heart or hers will not be broken i hope this helps from an sp's point of you. ps.i myself could have easily fallen in love with a client of mine but after past experience am the wiser regards alex grenyait ox
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