One thing I would add here - discussing specific acts in a public place can get you into trouble. I hate discussing specifics on the phone - if I say yes, and get there and I can't get past something about the client - they he's pissed that I said I'd do something and then pressured into this because I said ok ahead. The way I deal with it, if it's really important - let me know in advance. This way, if its something I'll never do - I'll tell you up front. If its something that I will do with certain clients - I'll indicate that "generally" I will - don't want to commit until we meet. I've had clients with obvious cold sores, sick with cold symptoms, obvious drug issues suggesting possible Hep - I'll always decline - crap the money is never worth the possible health problems. Pecks are also different from French kissing - so, just keep the SP wants to go home healthy - if you are with someone who doesn't care about her health - do you not worry that you are going to pick up something????? Just my opinion.
Meaghan