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Not everyone is good at judging ages, especially for Asian women. Why even respond like this? What value does your comment have to the thread? I don't understand how or why every thread here lately turns into an argument...

Yeah that feels like a trap. The assumption when reaching out should be full service. If the services being offered are limited that is important to know in advance. I try to only bring the exact amount of cash with me so surprising me with extra fees in the moment just pisses me off because I may be willing to pay but if I dont know until my pants are down that's a problem

I find her pics a little hard to descern. Is she fairly slim and fit? Some pics look like she is while others make the slimmer pics look like maybe they are edited or she's sucking in or using strategic angles. Open to anything you're willing to share. DM as well if you're open to discussing in private

Sunny is very cute. And that massage was up there with professional ones I've had easily. She recommends people try her head massage. She told me as I was leaving sadly so I didn't get to try it.

I don't think most of us had any issue with your earlier comments. A thread about grooming. You gave some advice and then mentioned you offered some of the services. Totally fair game to me.

My first time with an SP I didn't know what to do so I showered with soap and everything and then put my clothes back on. She kicked me out 🤣

Some people just think the minute they pay for something they own it. Not the case here.

Totally fair. And I don't like the idea of a checklist either but maybe there's one or two things which are important to me so I will mention them before and then may bring them up during a date. Chemistry is important as is hygiene and many other things. We are all human and we have to make decisions for ourselves. Be respectful and be CLEAN people. Shouldn't need to be said...

Absolutely Ms Manda. All I mean, and again I'll stick with the daty example as that's just easy not to jump around but goes for any specific service and acronym. If daty is important to me all I want to know is that it is potentially on the table. If an SP doesn't offer it or doesn't enjoy it that is good upfront information and may mean I don't book. Of course some people are gross and will be denied service but knowing what might be available is also good. I have never left any 💩 stains and would be MORTIFIED if that happened. I remember you mentioning it in another thread and the last time i saw a provider i double checked the bed because your story made me paranoid even though I had thoroughly washed and cleaned myself twice lol

Whenever I see a comment like this where nothing positive is said it makes me assume quite the opposite. Anything you're willing to share? Feel free to DM me.

I think in this situation being described the provider should be more open and say "these are some things I offer but it will depend on hygiene" or something similar. I find this is pretty common when I speak to various SPs. And if something like, in your example, daty is a required make or break service the person should re-confirm upon meeting the provider now that they have seen each other it will be offered because it's important to them. Maybe it's a breath issue and there's mouthwash in the bathroom so easy fix. But if the SP says no you can get that out of the way before any money is exchanged. Although I'll admit I've had this in the past where I was promised everything. Confirmed it in person then handed over cash. Then with no clothes on I start being told everything costs extra. "There's an ATM down the hall though." I'm naked... The last thing I want to do is put clothes on and go get more cash then come back. Honesty is important.

I have one I posted in October and I never showed up. That's beyond a while. I think it's dead and gone.

One big issue with the recommendations though is admin approval is required. I have a solid amount of reputation points on the site. I don't constantly post complaining or need to have my posts taken down. But the last couple of times I've tried to post a recommendation it never appeared and I didn't get any feedback from the admins telling me they deleted it because it broke a rule or anything. I even reached out to the admins asking why and never got a response. It's frustrating when you try to contribute and put the time in but nothing happens.

I tried to get info on her a while back but couldn't find any. I do believe she's legit though.

Do you mind if I DM you with a few questions?

Stop trying to be a white knight. I've seen enough of the SPs on here defend themselves they don't need you. Also feel free to search my posts because I don't come on here to complain about rates. A post about an Asian provider to let people know she's young and fit rather than the standard auntie is a legit post and you're just muddying the waters. It's stuff like this which makes me less and less interested in using this site or contributing. You're not going to get a white knight discount so give it a rest.

I'm not sure what you're really arguing here. The Asian providers are all bait and switch and typically have low rates. Sometimes the switch is good as is apparently the case here and other times it's not good. Either way for an Asian provider to charge nearly 400 is very high unless they are coming from an agency such as YFL or they are a touring independent provider with a website, tryst, and social media. What is with every thread turning into a disaster lately?!

So do you have posts about you on other forums under the name Maddi Leah?

I assume pics are not actually her? Close approximation though? Slim flat stomach? She sensual or more just wants to get the job done and move on?

Women's razors like the Venus are overpriced and more expensive than male razors for no real reason other than pink tax. If you like it keep doing your thing but I'd always recommend male razors because they are already expensive enough.

In that case any razor you want for the shaft and balls, I like Gillette fusion. For the area around either stick with the razor or go for a trimmer and trim to desired length. Use a shave cream for sure and lots of hot water on the razor every stroke. Use a gentle moisturizer like cerave lotion or cetaphil. You don't need to go crazy expensive. You want quality because it's a sensitive area and the expensive ones aren't always high quality and can be full of different perfumes and scents which aren't actually good for the skin usually. I've never tried using Nair but I hear it works well. Just get the stuff designed for sensitive areas if you give it a try or you'll have a bad day lol

Gross... I'm extra paranoid from hearing horror stories like that. I shower as close to the date as I can and scrub EVERYTHING thoroughly. Usually hop in the shower at the incall and again scrub thoroughly. Also not going to the dentist is awful. I go every 3-4 months... As for the original post body hair is all personal comfort and preference. Hair does trap odor though so less hair mostly means less smell. Don't forget to moisturize the parts you shave. Women are all going to have their own personal preferences so better off going with what you like yourself and as long as you're clean and smell good you should have no complaints (although I'd avoid letting things go full wild but as I said you do you). Providers are professional and as long as you are clean and good to them they will treat you right no matter how you manscape.

She has advertised here before. I never got a response when I messaged. Someone said at least a few pics are stolen and someone else said she was a bait and switch but I don't think anything was ever officially confirmed in the other thread I started on her last posting. You should TOFTT tonight and report back 😉

The truth? You couldn't have thought for even a second publicly comparing visiting an SP to ordering a fast food burger was smart. It's ok to be disappointed you didn't get services which were mentioned but you probably could've found a better way to word it. In my experience in this very YMMV industry any services discussed before meeting in person are not guaranteed and are up to the discretion and consent of all people involved.

Interesting. I also saw her before she joined YFL and then again after she joined. I couldn't get dfk or lfk. There was no k at all lol. And I've talked to others. You're one of the first who I've heard say she offers dfk. Just shows how much the hobby is YMMV I guess! Still to my above point for OP know what you want and what you like and try to make sure it's all offered. Don't be afraid to ask the ladies in person but make sure you ASK and don't demand. Consent is king/queen.