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[Origin 268]

1) What is your favorite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?

 

2) Is it just as hard for an SP to retire as it is for the clients? Aside from giving up the income, quitting knowing that your sexual variety is going to stop

 

3) Have you ever had guys try and 'talk you out of it' too?

 

4) What general advice can you offer guys on ways they can improve on their DATY techniques and or their sexual skills to please a woman (if applicable)?

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

1) What is your favorite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?

 

Meeting new people and seeing ones you like to spend time with.

 

2) Is it just as hard for an SP to retire as it is for the clients? Aside from giving up the income, quitting knowing that your sexual variety is going to stop

 

Haven't even thought of retirement yet :)

3) Have you ever had guys try and 'talk you out of it' too?

 

Not applicable

4) What general advice can you offer guys on ways they can improve on their DATY techniques and or their sexual skills to please a woman (if applicable)?

 

Ask what she likes, we are all different and like different things :)

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

I much rather men my age and older...although i will see men 25 and up

 

1-Is humour a turn on?

 

Someone once told me laughter is the best aphrodisiac and believe me it's true..

 

2-What is a good way for us to break the ice if needed?

 

A big hug.

 

3-What is expected if you go past your time agreed on if you are both into deep conversation?

 

I guess that depends on the lady...everyone handles this differently.

 

4-Is a last minute request a turn off?

 

I usually won't take a last min. request unless i know him. That's if your talking about an appointment...if you mean a last min. request for an outfit or something then yes that's a pain in the butt.

 

5-What is your fav charity?

I have a few.. REd cross for one, charities for children and the homeless. You'll often find my signature on cerb is to support a charity.

 

 

6-Without names, do you have a favourite client you would like to see more often?:wink:

 

I'm like Jesus and love them all..lol at least for a few hours..wink

7-Do you work if you get a cold?

 

No.

 

What do you find attractive in a man?

A man that can make me laugh is very attractive.

 

Does the perfect man exist?

 

Yes and he's coming over tomorrow..lmao

 

1) What is your favorite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?

 

Meeting some wonderful people,traveling and making people happy.

 

2) Is it just as hard for an SP to retire as it is for the clients? Aside from giving up the income, quitting knowing that your sexual variety is going to stop

 

Haven't really thought about it.

 

3) Have you ever had guys try and 'talk you out of it' too?

 

Talk us out of "working"? Yes

 

4) What general advice can you offer guys on ways they can improve on their DATY techniques and or their sexual skills to please a woman (if applicable)?

 

Every lady is different but if you ask us we will tell you what we like.. but if your to sjy to ask then just watch and listen to her body language.

[CaptJaG 299]

Okay I have a few questions now :)

 

1. Do you as an sp ever give your real name to a client? I understand that it might take a good while of being a regular but I've alwsays wondered that since it seems many people get somewhat close with certain sp's

 

2. I've noticed some girls put in their ads they only cater to gentlemen 30+. As a younger (26) guy I'm curious by this is?

 

3. What do you do if you see a client in your daily life? A few days ago I saw a girl that I had seen before with some friends shopping, I wasn't going to say anything but I was wondering how you'd handle it.

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[JoyfulC 132299]

1) What is your favorite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?

 

2) Is it just as hard for an SP to retire as it is for the clients? Aside from giving up the income, quitting knowing that your sexual variety is going to stop

 

3) Have you ever had guys try and 'talk you out of it' too?

 

4) What general advice can you offer guys on ways they can improve on their DATY techniques and or their sexual skills to please a woman (if applicable)?

 

1) Being my own boss and being able to conduct myself in a way I feel is fair to myself, respectful of my community, and ethical and compassionate to my client.

 

2) I did partially retire once, and yes the sexual variety and adventure is a tough act to follow. This might seem egotistical, but my life has always been defined in a way by those who tell me how important I am to them and how much I'm in their thoughts and dreams. It makes one feel very precious and cherished.

 

3) A long time ago, perhaps. I've learned to see those types coming and sidestep them. Or maybe that's something more likely to be faced by younger women.

 

4) DATY and pleasuring a woman is not about skill but about being responsive to feedback, even when it's unspoken. Be receptive to the clues your lover gives you; when it's obvious something is reaching her, keep doing that. Let her know there are no expectations -- you just want her to focus on her own pleasure and relax.

 

And above all, never rush your partner. She'll arrive in her own time, with you picking up on and playing to the signals she's sending out.

[JoyfulC 132299]

Okay I have a few questions now :)

 

1. Do you as an sp ever give your real name to a client? I understand that it might take a good while of being a regular but I've alwsays wondered that since it seems many people get somewhat close with certain sp's

 

2. I've noticed some girls put in their ads they only cater to gentlemen 30+. As a younger (26) guy I'm curious by this is?

 

3. What do you do if you see a client in your daily life? A few days ago I saw a girl that I had seen before with some friends shopping, I wasn't going to say anything but I was wondering how you'd handle it.

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1) I have used my real first name for many years, still some people get confused and call me "Joy" or by that other "L" word associated with another site I ran for a while.

 

Many of my regulars know my last name too. It's not a big deal.

 

2) For me, over 40 is just a matter of preference--just as some might prefer a redhead or a Latino or a spinner or a BBW. Some younger guys take it as an insult, but really it's just a matter of preference and being such an intimate business, it probably goes better if we all stick with the comfort of our preferences. I would never be insulted by a guy who said he preferred a younger SP (I'm 53--although I might wonder why he answered my ad, as I make it clear that I'm older). It's a horrible feeling to be with someone and come away feeling that they weren't

comfortable or satisfied, and that's why it's best that we all stick to our preferences.

 

3) Depends on the situation. I let him take the lead. If he seems okay with acknowledging our acquaintanceship, then fine. If not, I act as though he's any other stranger.

 

An SP probably will not approach you unless you indicate it's okay--but same goes for you. If she doesn't seem receptive to it, you should not approach her in public.

[A***** A***** 510]

Boy did I ever miss this thread, good thing too, I would have given the OP a piece of my mind:handjob:

[VedaSloan 119179]

Okay I have a few questions now :)

 

1. Do you as an sp ever give your real name to a client? I understand that it might take a good while of being a regular but I've alwsays wondered that since it seems many people get somewhat close with certain sp's

 

Ha, not on purpose, but I've slipped up numerous times in conversation. I figure it doesn't really matter all that much since I'm out about being an escort anyway.

 

2. I've noticed some girls put in their ads they only cater to gentlemen 30+. As a younger (26) guy I'm curious by this is?

 

It's a matter of preference. I personally don't care about age as long as you are respectful.

 

3. What do you do if you see a client in your daily life? A few days ago I saw a girl that I had seen before with some friends shopping, I wasn't going to say anything but I was wondering how you'd handle it.

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I will smile briefly and that's it. I leave it up to the client to decide if he's okay with saying hello, etc.

[harmony-bc 319]

What do you find attractive in men? I'm not referring to clients, but a guy you'd meet in "civilian" life?

In this particular order.

 

1. humor, 2. things in common, 3. humor, 4. passion, 5. confidence, 6. humor, lol

 

What do you ladies consider to be the perfect man?

Someone that will put up with all my idiosyncrasies, and that can hold his own against my red headed Leo will.

How often do you meet a client, hope to see him again, but never do?

I notice when I haven't seen a long time regular, and I wonder where he went. If I just met someone for an hour or two first meeting, I of course want him to come back, I want everyone to come back.

 

Have you guys ever had a guy absolutely obsessed with you?

Yes 10 years ago. It was scary. Mainly because he was not stable, and did really weird things that freaked me out. I saved all his phone messages, just in case I would need them if I ever disappeared.

Do you have a role model within the buisness past or present?

I have many women I admire, but no role models in this business

[EmilyRushton 253346]

1. Do you as an sp ever give your real name to a client? I understand that it might take a good while of being a regular but I've alwsays wondered that since it seems many people get somewhat close with certain sp's

Gentlemen that i have gotten to know very well know my name and I have no issues sharing with those I am close to.

 

2. I've noticed some girls put in their ads they only cater to gentlemen 30+. As a younger (26) guy I'm curious by this is?

It is a personal preference, I find I have more in common with a more mature gentleman.

 

3. What do you do if you see a client in your daily life? A few days ago I saw a girl that I had seen before with some friends shopping, I wasn't going to say anything but I was wondering how you'd handle it.

 

I would act as normal, privacy and discretion are 100% assured at all times.

[Maverick 2873]

I have a question.

 

What do you like or expect your clients to wear to the meeting? Jeans and a t-shirt? Something with a collar? Full suit? One of the things that worries me is what to wear to a meeting at the SP/MA's location. And even at a client's place, he wouldn't want to make a bad first impression. Thanks!

 

Additional Comments:

I have a question.

 

What do you like or expect your clients to wear to the meeting? Jeans and a t-shirt? Something with a collar? Full suit? One of the things that worries me is what to wear to a meeting at the SP/MA's location. And even at a client's place, he wouldn't want to make a bad first impression. Thanks!

[harmony-bc 319]

I have a question.

 

What do you like or expect your clients to wear to the meeting? Jeans and a t-shirt? Something with a collar? Full suit? One of the things that worries me is what to wear to a meeting at the SP/MA's location. And even at a client's place, he wouldn't want to make a bad first impression. Thanks!

 

Clean is good. :smile: Wear what you're comfortable wearing. On the weekend I get a lot of jeans and sneakers. During the week, I get suits. I think my jeans and sneakers guys are probably in suits during the week, lol

 

:bddog:

[Guest C*****tte]

I have a question.

 

What do you like or expect your clients to wear to the meeting? Jeans and a t-shirt? Something with a collar? Full suit? One of the things that worries me is what to wear to a meeting at the SP/MA's location. And even at a client's place, he wouldn't want to make a bad first impression. Thanks!

 

 

While I like jeans and tshirt for certain occasions but when meeting with a client I prefer he wear something to match the consideration I put into my attire. Business casual is nice. In fact I find it very becoming.

 

I understand that some clients may be more dressed up if they are coming from work. When that happens the sight of the suit is quite welcoming to my eyes but not something I would insist upon.

 

For an evening out I dress up a bit more than for a daytime rendezvous and like my clients to do the same. They never have disappointed me.

[Kyra.Graves 23779]

I have a question.

 

What do you like or expect your clients to wear to the meeting? Jeans and a t-shirt? Something with a collar? Full suit? One of the things that worries me is what to wear to a meeting at the SP/MA's location. And even at a client's place, he wouldn't want to make a bad first impression. Thanks!

 

I agree with Charlotte that in general business casual is a fairly safe option for most dates and most women are very understanding that this can change depending on where you are coming from or going to in a night.

If you are unsure what is appropriate for the occasion you can always ask, I know most people will probably respond with "whatever you are comfortable in" but if you phrase the question differently you can elicit a few more details in regards to attire. If you ask a leading question, something like "I've never visited your condo (hotel, area of town, that restaurant, etc.) before, discretion is rather important to me and was wondering if you could tell me would jeans be better than a suit or perhaps khaki's?" it's likely the lady will not only tell you what is appropriate for the area but also what she is most comfortable with.

 

Now if you are comfortable with your masculinity you can steal a page from one of my dates books - he went with the tried but true "What are you wearing" method that all women recognize but means something totally different depending on who it comes from. Our conversation went something like this:

I was getting ready for our date and got a message that said "What are you wearing?"

I responded "A towel."

He replied, "No, not now, I mean what are you wearing tonight? I don't know what to wear."

"Little black dress, heels."

"Damn, I was hoping to wear mine!"

"Okay you wear your dress and I'll wear my dress pants, jacket, no tie."

"Sounds like a plan!"

About 10min later I get a text that says "I'm dressed now but hoping you are still in that towel."

"No sorry, put my pants and jacket on"

"Shit! Now I know why I'm the girl in this relationship, I totally blew an opportunity for a naked pic and hot sexting!"

"Yep you did, now don't forget to pack your tampons."

I believe after that we exchanged a few more jabs then met up for a great night out, nothing like a little witty repartee to turn me on. ;)

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

1. Do you as an sp ever give your real name to a client? I understand that it might take a good while of being a regular but I've always wondered that since it seems many people get somewhat close with certain sp's

I generally keep my business relationships separate from the rest of my life, but, in rare instances, I have given my name to a regular client.

2. I've noticed some girls put in their ads they only cater to gentlemen 30+. As a younger (26) guy I'm curious by this is?

I rarely see anyone under 40; most of my clients are in their 50s and 60s. I find I have more in common with mature men. I also prefer longer meetings and I older men seem to enjoy taking their time. Generalizations aren't useful, most of the time, but nevertheless, it's my experience that, in their erotic activities, mature men are more skillful, nuanced, sensitive and receptive than younger ones.

3. What do you do if you see a client in your daily life? A few days ago I saw a girl that I had seen before with some friends shopping, I wasn't going to say anything but I was wondering how you'd handle it.

 

I will never violate confidentiality as long as my safety is not at risk. If I see a client in public, I never approach, acknowledge or greet him. I expect that he will extend the same courtesy to me, as well.

4. What do you like or expect your clients to wear to the meeting? Jeans and a t-shirt? Something with a collar? Full suit? One of the things that worries me is what to wear to a meeting at the SP/MA's location. And even at a client's place, he wouldn't want to make a bad first impression. Thanks!

Cleanliness and clothing appropriate to the time and place do make a difference to me and, as others have said, I'm happy to be asked for advice about what to wear to go to a particular restaurant or event. In addition, if the client smokes, I appreciate it if he's freshly showered and is wearing smoke-free clothing. Some smokers don't seem aware of how cigarette smoke can cling to their hair and clothes. Heavy smokers' skin tastes of stale smoke, too, which I find unappealing. I once had a meeting with someone who obviously smoked a

lot

of marijuana. The aroma from his hair, skin and clothing hung around my place for hours, even after I'd showered and washed the sheets. I wasn't available to meet with him again after that!

[roamingguy 300291]

Okay I have a few questions now :)

 

3. What do you do if you see a client in your daily life? A few days ago I saw a girl that I had seen before with some friends shopping, I wasn't going to say anything but I was wondering how you'd handle it.

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As a hobbiest I can only answer for myself. If one of the ladies I have met sees me in a public place (especially if my friends, or better, ex girlfriends are around;)) I'd like them to come running up, give me a big hug and kiss, and ask "when are we going out again, you never call"

OK, dream over, reality has set in. I would pass the lady as if I don't know her, and hopefully vice versa...afterwards I would pm/text/email just to let her know I saw her, and wasn't being rude by not acknowledging her

You never know if she is with family/friends, and she doesn't know about you either

RG

[Origin 268]

1) What do you find most attractive about a man's body.

 

2) Shower just before encounter in room? or shower before arriving?

[Andee 220524]

1) What do you find most attractive about a man's body.

 

2) Shower just before encounter in room? or shower before arriving?

 

1) His eyes, his hands (are they clean, nails trimmed, etc.) Good personal hygiene, all round is more important and attractive than what their body looks like.

 

2) Shower before arriving is fine. If he hasn't had a chance to, and needs to, he is welcome (this often happens in the summer time when it's hot and they are working outside or have just come off the golf course, etc.).

[EmilyRushton 253346]

Okay I have a few questions now :)

 

1. Do you as an sp ever give your real name to a client? I understand that it might take a good while of being a regular but I've alwsays wondered that since it seems many people get somewhat close with certain sp's

 

2. I've noticed some girls put in their ads they only cater to gentlemen 30+. As a younger (26) guy I'm curious by this is?

 

3. What do you do if you see a client in your daily life? A few days ago I saw a girl that I had seen before with some friends shopping, I wasn't going to say anything but I was wondering how you'd handle it.

Posted via Mobile Device

 

1) there are a few gentlemen that I know well that know my real name, it was in a situation that i felt comfortable with and have connections outside the industry as well.

 

2) It is my preference to visit with mature men as I feel i do not have that much in common, nor do I feel I can relate with a younger gentleman. At the end of the day it is what I am comfortable with.

 

3) 99% of the time I go on as if I do not know them, there is that 1% that I chat with in public but our circumstances are different from the norm.

[NaughtyNina 101]

Here are a couple answers to some questions I particularly felt I had something to say.

 

 

What is your favorite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?

 

I like the freedom to explore your sexuality that being an escort gives. I know when I first started there were things that I did as an escort that I'd never done before and hadn't really thought I would be all that into but ended up finding I really, really enjoyed.

 

Do you as an sp ever give your real name to a client? I understand that it might take a good while of being a regular but I've alwsays wondered that since it seems many people get somewhat close with certain sp's

 

I don't use my real name when escorting, but that was a choice that I made in a large part due to the fact that my name is usually "a boy's name" and I didn't want to confuse people. Also since I use a unique spelling, I felt that it would be more easy to track and I was really cautious when I first started out. The name I use now is actually my middle name which I like using because it allows me to feel a real connection with that name rather than just pretending my name is Kimberly or something and then not responding to it naturally like I would my name.

 

What do you find attractive in men? I'm not referring to clients, but a guy you'd meet in "civilian" life?

 

I'm really laid back in this respect. I don't have a "shopping list" of what attributes a guy has to have to be "my type". Brown hair, blonde hair, no hair, blue eyes, black eyes, or heck purple eyes; it doesn't really matter for me. In terms of personality traits the big ones for me are intelligence (and not necessarily book smarts), ambition, and the willingness to look like a fool and be silly. In terms of physical etc qualities I only really have two slightly kinky ones and they're related. I really like older men and I also like it when a guy is able to physically overpower me (And I'm not saying he would actually do this or is aggressive, but I like the feeling that a guy is strong enough that he could if he wanted to) I guess I just really like the feeling that a guy is able to take care/charge of me... :oops: :icon_biggrin: