Honey Man 12759 Report post Posted September 4, 2017 I have been in a relationship with a lady for the last 5 years. During many of those years I have had no physical attention from her. At best it would be a bit for a week and then nothing for months. I found myself seeking the attention I was not getting at home elsewhere. I have been totally miserable. I stayed in that relationship in order to bring some stability to my daughters life and because I do care for this lady and had hoped things would work out. And I tried very hard to make things work, however I finally reached the point where enough was enough and I asked her to leave. She is leaving end of this month and then I can be free to have fun and enjoy life. Having her go has cost me well over $100,000 so far, but omg in the end its worth it. I am planing a vacation to Jamaica this November and another one to Cuba in the spring. At 59 I still have lots in the tank and am able to enjoy life. I just could not be miserable any longer. And could not continue to lead a life of lies. 10 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
1963Kennedy 10698 Report post Posted September 4, 2017 Yes, if it's not working, it's best for all to move on. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KarynSvensen 2074 Report post Posted September 4, 2017 It's never too late to enjoy life! I am glad you've been able to find your way out of misery. So many people will stay in unhealthy relationships for the bad reasons. You made a good choice with Jamaica, you will come back all relax. Enjoy your trips :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wayneme 1000 Report post Posted September 4, 2017 Good luck, its important to enjoy life wihout complications. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luckyme 41401 Report post Posted September 4, 2017 Congratulations, Honey Man. I am glad you are finally breaking free and are going to enjoy life the way it should be enjoyed. Wherever you go, enjoy yourself and make sure you stock up on JH's! :biggrin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted September 5, 2017 Glad you're free! But your post reminds me of a very old bit of wisdom, that I'm sure a lot of folks here will appreciate: paying for sex is cheaper than not paying for it :) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites