What are the main differences between massage service and escort service?

[Luscious Laurel 205]

I have recently switched over to massage service. I thought I had a pretty good idea of what it entailed having been educated by a client who was a regular at MPs in Ontario.

 

He told me the routine and the average prices.

 

Now, bear in mind I am operating in the Vancouver Lower Mainland area,but, I am surprised at the requests I get. What is GFE massage?

 

Isn't the greatest talent of a masseuse the ability to relax the client and have them feel as comfortable as if you had known one another for years? Does one need to advertise that? It seems redundant.

 

How is it possible to massage a client while he is putting his fingers inside your pussy? (a request that surprised me).

 

I am sure there are quite few professional women who can enlighten me, but, I wanted some input from the consumer end of things too.

 

I am trying to word my ad so I can be sure I am attracting my target market.

 

thanks for any input!

 

cheers all!

[RobX 2084]

I am a client of MPs, both salons and Indys, in Montreal. It is probably much different here than in Vancouver, but in Montreal massage services run the entire gamut from a massage (standard, thai, nuru, tantric, etc) fully dressed, semi-nude, or nude with standard finish (HJ or Russian finish, sometimes an Italian finish, and rarely a BSTC or pussy slide) on through LFK/DFK, CBJ/BBBJ, DATY, digits and on to FS,CIM,Greek,etc.). While the vast majority of masseuses, both in salons and indys, offer a HJ or Russian finish only, there is a limitless permutation of services available, depending on the individual masseuse's limits. Some offer DATY, but no BJ or kissing. Others offer DFK, but HJ only, some FS, but no DFK, etc. The extra services, including the teasing leading up to the finish, usually only start during the latter part of the massage session, after the turn, except when one is a regular repeat customer, in which case there may be more flexibility in the structuring of the massage session, but this also depends on the individual masseuse. Fee arrangements vary from an hourly rate plus an option rate, depending on the option chosen, on through a fixed all-inclusive rate on to a no-money-discussion policy, with the fee left up to the discretion of the client (usually applies to members-only salons).

 

To me, a GFE massage is one involving at least one (perhaps only DFK), but not necessarily all, of the attributes usually associated with a GFE session with an SP. Good conversation and a connection between the client and the masseuse are also very critical elements of a GFE massage.

 

In Montreal there are very successful MPs, both salons and Indys, at both ends of the service spectrum, as well as in the middle. In fact, what I consider to be the two best very massage places in Montreal are at exact opposite ends of the service spectrum. One thing I should mention is that those MPs, especially Indys, who offer a massage, with a standard finish only, seem to need to repeat this fact constantly on their websites and in their postings, until it becomes almost a mantra, and still they complain about clients who constantly try to obtain services that they do not offer.

[Amelia Fox 9064]

Obviously I am new to this... You can do massages and fool around? lol.. I am also from BC,and have never heard of or done this service( I am sheltered hahaha).. Please someone fill me in,I may switch occupations lmao... a nice long list of all abbreviations and meaning sent to my email (so I can cross reference) would be the most helpful..... Anyone hehe..

[PistolPete 61421]

Be careful for what you ask for :) :) lol

 

Please someone fill me in, ..... Anyone hehe..

[BarrhavenWoody 10776]

Be careful for what you ask for :) :) lol

 

haha sounds like another extra service :)

[fortunateone 156618]

I think the standard term used is r&t, rub and tug. That kind of states without saying it, massage and hand release. And the client who is looking for massage and hj know enough to ask what the restrictions are, because they are well aware that some r&t providers remain fully clothed, some will be clothed but allow limited touching, some might go topless no touching, some topless with above waist touching, some nude no touch, some nude full touch, some GFE which is basically a GFE without full service included meaning kissing, daty, possible cbj? But the main thing is full service not offered, not requested, not expected.

 

It isn't a very appealing term tho, so usually what you want to advertise is sensual massage with release. That should be enough to attract the guys looking for r&t with no expectations. It is then important that you indicate what your limits are. Most guys don't mind restrictions, as long as they know before arrival what they are going to be. If something, like digits and/or nudity is important to them, then a fully clothed no touch r&t provider is not going to be someone they book appts with. Also, if you do not want genital touching of any kind, then you let them know your sessions can be topliess, but not fully nude. Most clients understand the presence of panties means the area is not available lol.

 

Other helpful words are: mature, older, gentlemen, massage, sensual, tease, arousal, relaxing, rejuvenating, pampering, stress free, etc.

 

Anything that indicates that this is a session where they don't have to do anything, that everything is done to them and for them, and that they are expected to be mature gentlemen who know enough to ask before they do something they have not been invited to do, or something it has not been made clear is OK.

[Phaedrus 209521]

And the client who is looking for massage and hj know enough to ask what the restrictions are, because they are well aware that some r&t providers remain fully clothed, some will be clothed but allow limited touching, some might go topless no touching, some topless with above waist touching, some nude no touch, some nude full touch, some GFE which is basically a GFE without full service included meaning kissing, daty, possible cbj?

I don't think you'd ever expect to get DATY or any sort of BJ in a MP, as my understanding is that this is where it crosses the line into bawdy-house territory. Although I don't *know*, 'cos I've never actually asked.

 

Indies, of course, can do whatever they like :) Although I get the impression that most (but not all) who advertise as MAs rather than FS SPs stay within similar limits.

[Apex2006 1071]

Be careful for what you ask for :) :) lol

 

 

You beat me too it!

[Gentleman11 10508]

I really enjoyed Fortunateone's informative response which put things in clear and concise terms. She should set up marketing company for MP's! Thanks,