''only service''

[Ann Gallerie 7910]

The economy sucks, and apparently, so do certain clients.....:)

 

Some clients have an itch to scratch, without the scratch to afford it. They probably stiff servers in restaurants and bars too. If they pay $200 for full service, one service costs half that - at least, they think.

 

At least they are being up front about their up fronts before they show up. Providers so inclined can put a time limit on it, such as half an hour or twenty minutes, which has its own depraved, erotic appeal. I suppose! ;)

[SarahMarie 201]

I agree with you here! I am not a shopkeep in a bazaar with whom you barter the price of a wooden statue. I am a service provider...you are receiving my time, given to you at a set price. You pay the set price on the menu for a meal even if you do not clear your plate; one doesn't say to the server 'well I'm ONLY going to eat the chicken and carrots but I'll be too full for my potatoes, how does 70% of the bill sound?'

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I understand what you mean and I myself already offer a price for a specific service (example X$ for 15min BJ) and many offer it as well. No problem! We all have the right to advertise what we want.

 

My problem comes when people try to negotiate my rate because they dont want "all" the services that I offer. Example; want cheaper rate because dont want daty. My HH and H rate are all inclusive (I dont charge extra) for a my services but if you decide that you dont want one of them, dont expect a deal!!! If I go at the restaurant and I dont want the potatoes in my plate.. I wont have a reduction.. I just dont eat them. (Sorry for the comparaison)

 

I've experienced this as well. I just tell them I don't do it. They don't get the fact that I offer an experience and I don't provide just "only services". We as SP are entitled to run business our own way but some guys will try to take the extra mile even if an SP is already providing lets say a certain amount of time or an only service. I just tell them there are plenty of other people out there who may provide what they want and say goodbye. It will be interesting to see how people who negotiate will be able to do this once new laws are passed.

 

Stick to your guns. There are low ballers everywhere. We are not a restaurant, we are not tires, we are offering an encounter of an intimate nature and to me (and this is JMO and my opinion only in case anyone decides to twist my words again or infer that I'm insulting them) the experience of seeing an SP has gone by the way side. I'm old school. This new wave of clients I do not understand and do not care to understand because of how I run my business and what I'm accustomed to. I don't feel I'm missing out by not offering these only services. If another SP wants to do that, that's her perogative.

 

There are plenty of gentlemen who enjoy spending time with a woman all inclusive and not trying to "take the potato out of the meal" for a less expensive price. Life doesn't work that way. At least not where intimacy is concerned in my world. To each their own but I know how I like to run my business and won't have someone tell me otherwise or that my rates are too high because they want to save a few bucks. You get what you pay for. If $20 for example is a big deal then they need it more than I do. Sorry but true. This is a luxury service, not a need or necessity in life.

[Shiraz55 160]

Hi Rebecca,

 

It is certainly not for the classy individuals like you appear to be to be nickel and dimming and entertain anything similar. With a full service provider, one should have more class and not try bargaining for this or that. Don't entertain such requests, and you will have a respectful clientele!

 

Take care

[chiefmugwhump 130]

The "only" concept is stupid but try not to get wound up by it. Just ditch those people.

[FranZKafkA 231]

A must read thread for any new members. Nice to see good group of thoughtful people.