Bethany Westbrooke 7532 Report post Posted June 13, 2011 I have never been quite comfortable with talking dirty during a massage, but know that many, if not all men love it. My thought is that it might be too easy to misunderstand someone's dirty talk- especially when certain items are not on the menu. Recently, I had a very attractive client who during the grand finale kept saying "Fuck me, fuck me!" in a sexy, albeit disturbing manner- as I had in no way been having sex with him, nor was I going to! After our session I asked him if he was interested in something like that as I had a friend who is an escort with a similar body type to mine who might help him with this. He said he just liked to talk dirty and didn't mean anything by it... In order to ensure that I am not misleading anyone in a similar manner to the above what are some things that are sexy yet not misleading that one might want to hear during a massage, please anyone SP/MA/Hobbyists feel free to respond! Thanks a bunch! Bethany Xoxox Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Liveformassage 138 Report post Posted June 13, 2011 Personally I don't enjoy dirty talk during a massage. I find it distracting as it isn't really why I am there. I don't mind talking though as a female voice can be stimulating, it just doesn't have to be about sex or sex in crude terms. MPs with lovely voices such as yourself, or Megan or Erin could probably read names of of the telephone book and I would enjoy it, but even then at some point I'm gonna need to concentrate on the pleasure at hand. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted June 13, 2011 I have never been quite comfortable with talking dirty during a massage, but know that many, if not all men love it. My thought is that it might be too easy to misunderstand someone's dirty talk- especially when certain items are not on the menu. Not at all! Most men I know find it a turn-off, including myself. We usually tend to make fun of the fake moaning in porn movies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paradise Spa 24019 Report post Posted June 13, 2011 I would say about 20 percent of men do not like dirty talk ......ha ha and I can speak from experience. The beauty of dirt talk is for the men that like it will never become bored because you can stimulate their brains different each and every session and it keeps them cumming back for more no pun intended. Forum is a great tool for dirty talk fantasies :) Communicating during the session you will learn what types of fantasies make the specific gent tick :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300291 Report post Posted June 13, 2011 Of course it helps if you know how to talk dirty Again, Seinfeld RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bewlayb 7480 Report post Posted June 14, 2011 Bethany, I am also not a fan of dirty talk during a massage. At least not the porn star variety. I find it hollow and misleading. (Now, in the context of a FS encounter that's a different matter... then it's challenging and inviting) However, I do like it when my MA speaks sincerely about the way I look, smell or feel to her (fit, clean, warm, smooth, firm, big...) or how she's feeling during the session (comfortable, happy, warm, wet...). One of my favorites, now retired, had a wonderful talent for making me feel much younger, bigger and harder than I was simply by relating to me her perceptions of handling my body and the feelings our massage gave her. I think she also enjoyed hearing what effect her hands were having on me. I guess the best advice I could give is to communicate and encourage communication about the shared experience. I for one, find that very arousing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s**nflute Report post Posted June 14, 2011 I know what eveyone here is saying, it's an acquired taste for some members to really get off from hearing the other persons experience or fantacies during the "final heated moments" Please correct me if I am wrong!.........had a similar experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fastsam 339 Report post Posted June 15, 2011 Talking dirty during a massage? Doesn't really do it for me. It just seems too disrespectful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
poolasaurus 5877 Report post Posted June 15, 2011 I love the dirty talk, the dirtier the better IMO. If the MPA can do it, awesome. If they are not good at it, I'll ad lib on my end. I usually will tell the MPA before we start: "look, I'm really into the dirty talk, I know you don't do these things but will it be OK if during the session I tell you how much I wanna ram my ____ and _____ into your ______ and then have you _____?" The regulars I go to usually will give me a giggle and say no prob. In the end, if it helps get me off better/sooner they do not mind at all ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hornee69 4851 Report post Posted June 15, 2011 The thing you do not want hear, "Oh my God, it fell off!!" 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
poolasaurus 5877 Report post Posted June 15, 2011 I should also add that dirty talk does not include fake moans and heavy breathing...that's a turn off. :) Got a lot of PMs over this, seems like the guys who like dirty talk are afraid to voice their opinions in this thread. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted June 15, 2011 I for one enjoy relaxing and enjoying a nice massage first. When it comes to the finish a nice tease is what's enjoyable, and if the girl finds it necessary a few choice words whispered in the ear can be nice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted June 15, 2011 I love the dirty talk, the dirtier the better IMO. If the MPA can do it, awesome. If they are not good at it, I'll ad lib on my end. I usually will tell the MPA before we start: "look, I'm really into the dirty talk, I know you don't do these things but will it be OK if during the session I tell you how much I wanna ram my ____ and _____ into your ______ and then have you _____?" The regulars I go to usually will give me a giggle and say no prob. In the end, if it helps get me off better/sooner they do not mind at all ;) Hell, if your provider doesn't mind and actually finds it humorous, then the more power to you. I'd would normally think they'd usually find it a little disconcerting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
castle 38816 Report post Posted June 16, 2011 Personally I've never been to see a MP, so don't know how I'd like dirty talking in that atmosphere. However I often frequent SP's and stripclubs, and dirty talking from either a SP or a stripper never fails to turn me on. Like poolasaurus said, the dirtier the better. So chances are this would also be the case with a MP. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted June 16, 2011 I like when they make sexy comments about me or themselves...flirtation is always nice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FlyingDutchman 560 Report post Posted June 16, 2011 Love it. The dirtier the better. Context is everything though... a few choice words during the massage might be nice, but for me I like it more during the actual sex. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Krusty 473 Report post Posted June 17, 2011 Pre flip/tease leave it to regular chit chat. Good bonding time. During tease and post flip, i love a bit of cooing and some nice heavy breathing in the ears, a few whispers of "ooh baby" etc etc. in the right tone can make me melt and are always desired. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Manisaqtuq 110 Report post Posted June 18, 2011 The thing you do not want hear, "Oh my God, it fell off!!" Yeah, kinda like hearing "Ooops" while doc is performing the Vasectomy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
