TonyK 194 Report post Posted 17 hours ago And btw I received a few dms from fellow hobbyists who have seen both Elite and Regular YFL providers. They gave their honest feedback about their experience which will now help me to decide whether I should go to a regular or Elite provider. That was all I was looking for in first place but unfortunately the post got hijacked and the topic was diverted to something which was not even in the picture. Thanks to the folks who understood the many reasons why this platform is for. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 204 Report post Posted 17 hours ago 13 minutes ago, TonyK said: If it was not in your mind, then you wouldn't have brought it up. You mentioned multiple times in your post. Let me highlight below "But what they don’t have is the right to pick apart women they’re not even planning to book, just because those women don’t fit their budget." "especially by those who were never going to book her anyway." "But that should never turn into a debate about the worth of women who were never on his radar to begin with," Who told you that I don't have budget to book an elite provider? I am pretty sure you will never understand or consider that as being disrespectful to a hobbyist. Do you know what budgeting means? Just because someone has money doesn’t mean they want to fit a provider into their budget. I said budget, not income. There’s a difference. If you wish to discuss your income with everyone, you’re more than welcome to open a new thread bragging about your riches. To be honest, I’m uninterested and won’t be participating. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 194 Report post Posted 7 hours ago 9 hours ago, Pamela Luscious said: Do you know what budgeting means? Just because someone has money doesn’t mean they want to fit a provider into their budget. I said budget, not income. There’s a difference. If you wish to discuss your income with everyone, you’re more than welcome to open a new thread bragging about your riches. To be honest, I’m uninterested and won’t be participating. "just because those women don’t fit their budget." You were being plain arrogant here and disrespectful too how much ever you try to twist your words like budget, income blah blah. You were just trying to implicate that I didn't have enough money so was checking whether to spend more money on elite. And for the second part, who told you that these women are not in my radar? Who told you that I am never going to book them anyway? Do you have a say whom I should book and should not? Where is the freedom of choice lol! Again, your double standards are being exposed time after time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 204 Report post Posted 7 hours ago 29 minutes ago, TonyK said: "just because those women don’t fit their budget." You were being plain arrogant here and disrespectful too how much ever you try to twist your words like budget, income blah blah. You were just trying to implicate that I didn't have enough money so was checking whether to spend more money on elite. And for the second part, who told you that these women are not in my radar? Who told you that I am never going to book them anyway? Do you have a say whom I should book and should not? Where is the freedom of choice lol! Again, your double standards are being exposed time after time. Gaslighting, deflection, ego stroking, power games… yawn. Textbook. It’s none of your business to ask if a woman is “worth” her rate. End of story. I don’t care how offended you are, my words weren’t meant to coddle you. If you’re offended that I support women’s rights and autonomy, that’s entirely on you. You were never my clientele to begin with. I’m uninterested and bored about your income. I’ve said what I needed to say, and I’m not entertaining it. You’ve exposed yourself clearly as a client, my job here is done. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 194 Report post Posted 6 hours ago 51 minutes ago, Pamela Luscious said: Gaslighting, deflection, ego stroking, power games… yawn. Textbook. It’s none of your business to ask if a woman is “worth” her rate. End of story. I don’t care how offended you are, my words weren’t meant to coddle you. If you’re offended that I support women’s rights and autonomy, that’s entirely on you. You were never my clientele to begin with. I’m uninterested and bored about your income. I’ve said what I needed to say, and I’m not entertaining it. You’ve exposed yourself clearly as a client, my job here is done. Lol! If anyone is exposed in this conversation, it's you. You even lost a potential client, I saw one of the guy who said he will never plan to book with you based on your attitude shown here. So let other folks decide who got exposed here. If I was wrong, I would have been cornered from all directions. But fortunately some of the hobbyists understood what my question was and I did not intend any disrespect and answered it clearly. You don't get to say whether it's my business or not. You don't own me, you don't own this platform. You are not entitled. You are just a member, like me. I have every damn right to ask whether my time and money is worth. I don't give a damn about what you care and support. You can support hundred movements and indulge in verbal diarrhea anywhere you want. Who cares? And like you said even I don't even care if you are offended or not. I will keep asking what I need to know as long as I keep the decorum of the forum. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 204 Report post Posted 5 hours ago 14 minutes ago, TonyK said: Lol! If anyone is exposed in this conversation, it's you. You even lost a potential client, I saw one of the guy who said he will never plan to book with you based on your attitude shown here. So let other folks decide who got exposed here. If I was wrong, I would have been cornered from all directions. But fortunately some of the hobbyists understood what my question was and I did not intend any disrespect and answered it clearly. You don't get to say whether it's my business or not. You don't own me, you don't own this platform. You are not entitled. You are just a member, like me. I have every damn right to ask whether my time and money is worth. I don't give a damn about what you care and support. You can support hundred movements and indulge in verbal diarrhea anywhere you want. Who cares? And like you said even I don't even care if you are offended or not. I will keep asking what I need to know as long as I keep the decorum of the forum. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 194 Report post Posted 5 hours ago 12 minutes ago, Pamela Luscious said: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 204 Report post Posted 5 hours ago You're talking about rates. I stayed on topic 😉 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 194 Report post Posted 5 hours ago 1 minute ago, Pamela Luscious said: You're talking about rates. I stayed on topic 😉 No,you didn't. You diverted it to women rights, autonomy, objectification, dehumanisation, business model, taxation, budgeting blah blah. Those were not relevant to my question. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 310 Report post Posted 3 hours ago You two should just get married and get it over with 1 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites