TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 9 And btw I received a few dms from fellow hobbyists who have seen both Elite and Regular YFL providers. They gave their honest feedback about their experience which will now help me to decide whether I should go to a regular or Elite provider. That was all I was looking for in first place but unfortunately the post got hijacked and the topic was diverted to something which was not even in the picture. Thanks to the folks who understood the many reasons why this platform is for. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 215 Report post Posted July 9 13 minutes ago, TonyK said: If it was not in your mind, then you wouldn't have brought it up. You mentioned multiple times in your post. Let me highlight below "But what they don’t have is the right to pick apart women they’re not even planning to book, just because those women don’t fit their budget." "especially by those who were never going to book her anyway." "But that should never turn into a debate about the worth of women who were never on his radar to begin with," Who told you that I don't have budget to book an elite provider? I am pretty sure you will never understand or consider that as being disrespectful to a hobbyist. Do you know what budgeting means? Just because someone has money doesn’t mean they want to fit a provider into their budget. I said budget, not income. There’s a difference. If you wish to discuss your income with everyone, you’re more than welcome to open a new thread bragging about your riches. To be honest, I’m uninterested and won’t be participating. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 9 9 hours ago, Pamela Luscious said: Do you know what budgeting means? Just because someone has money doesn’t mean they want to fit a provider into their budget. I said budget, not income. There’s a difference. If you wish to discuss your income with everyone, you’re more than welcome to open a new thread bragging about your riches. To be honest, I’m uninterested and won’t be participating. "just because those women don’t fit their budget." You were being plain arrogant here and disrespectful too how much ever you try to twist your words like budget, income blah blah. You were just trying to implicate that I didn't have enough money so was checking whether to spend more money on elite. And for the second part, who told you that these women are not in my radar? Who told you that I am never going to book them anyway? Do you have a say whom I should book and should not? Where is the freedom of choice lol! Again, your double standards are being exposed time after time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 215 Report post Posted July 9 29 minutes ago, TonyK said: "just because those women don’t fit their budget." You were being plain arrogant here and disrespectful too how much ever you try to twist your words like budget, income blah blah. You were just trying to implicate that I didn't have enough money so was checking whether to spend more money on elite. And for the second part, who told you that these women are not in my radar? Who told you that I am never going to book them anyway? Do you have a say whom I should book and should not? Where is the freedom of choice lol! Again, your double standards are being exposed time after time. Gaslighting, deflection, ego stroking, power games… yawn. Textbook. It’s none of your business to ask if a woman is “worth” her rate. End of story. I don’t care how offended you are, my words weren’t meant to coddle you. If you’re offended that I support women’s rights and autonomy, that’s entirely on you. You were never my clientele to begin with. I’m uninterested and bored about your income. I’ve said what I needed to say, and I’m not entertaining it. You’ve exposed yourself clearly as a client, my job here is done. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 9 51 minutes ago, Pamela Luscious said: Gaslighting, deflection, ego stroking, power games… yawn. Textbook. It’s none of your business to ask if a woman is “worth” her rate. End of story. I don’t care how offended you are, my words weren’t meant to coddle you. If you’re offended that I support women’s rights and autonomy, that’s entirely on you. You were never my clientele to begin with. I’m uninterested and bored about your income. I’ve said what I needed to say, and I’m not entertaining it. You’ve exposed yourself clearly as a client, my job here is done. Lol! If anyone is exposed in this conversation, it's you. You even lost a potential client, I saw one of the guy who said he will never plan to book with you based on your attitude shown here. So let other folks decide who got exposed here. If I was wrong, I would have been cornered from all directions. But fortunately some of the hobbyists understood what my question was and I did not intend any disrespect and answered it clearly. You don't get to say whether it's my business or not. You don't own me, you don't own this platform. You are not entitled. You are just a member, like me. I have every damn right to ask whether my time and money is worth. I don't give a damn about what you care and support. You can support hundred movements and indulge in verbal diarrhea anywhere you want. Who cares? And like you said even I don't even care if you are offended or not. I will keep asking what I need to know as long as I keep the decorum of the forum. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 215 Report post Posted July 9 14 minutes ago, TonyK said: Lol! If anyone is exposed in this conversation, it's you. You even lost a potential client, I saw one of the guy who said he will never plan to book with you based on your attitude shown here. So let other folks decide who got exposed here. If I was wrong, I would have been cornered from all directions. But fortunately some of the hobbyists understood what my question was and I did not intend any disrespect and answered it clearly. You don't get to say whether it's my business or not. You don't own me, you don't own this platform. You are not entitled. You are just a member, like me. I have every damn right to ask whether my time and money is worth. I don't give a damn about what you care and support. You can support hundred movements and indulge in verbal diarrhea anywhere you want. Who cares? And like you said even I don't even care if you are offended or not. I will keep asking what I need to know as long as I keep the decorum of the forum. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 9 12 minutes ago, Pamela Luscious said: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pamela Luscious 215 Report post Posted July 9 You're talking about rates. I stayed on topic 😉 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 9 1 minute ago, Pamela Luscious said: You're talking about rates. I stayed on topic 😉 No,you didn't. You diverted it to women rights, autonomy, objectification, dehumanisation, business model, taxation, budgeting blah blah. Those were not relevant to my question. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 334 Report post Posted July 9 You two should just get married and get it over with 1 1 16 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigMike313 0 Report post Posted July 10 Has anyone seen Anna French? Was she here in Halifax? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lemmy Caution 123 Report post Posted July 11 Well, speaking of YFL Elite, Sofia looks like a goddamn knockout. The pictures have a bit of an unnatural look to them, likely some sort of AI filter, but holy shit, she looks gorgeous. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BenDover 305 Report post Posted July 11 19 hours ago, BigMike313 said: Has anyone seen Anna French? Was she here in Halifax? I believe she cancelled the trip, i planned to book her 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 13 On 7/11/2025 at 10:45 AM, Lemmy Caution said: Well, speaking of YFL Elite, Sofia looks like a goddamn knockout. The pictures have a bit of an unnatural look to them, likely some sort of AI filter, but holy shit, she looks gorgeous. True that! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigMike313 0 Report post Posted July 22 On 7/11/2025 at 10:51 AM, BenDover said: I believe she cancelled the trip, i planned to book her Not enough bookings? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BenDover 305 Report post Posted July 23 16 hours ago, BigMike313 said: Not enough bookings? no idea 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AdamSandler 253 Report post Posted July 23 Probably hotel and flights were too expensive honestly. I know some of the ladies also try to save money by flying standby or getting cheap tickets through friends who are flight attendants so sometimes they can get bumped. Never know for sure though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 23 Maybe some of the local providers who have their own place can rent out their space for a nominal fee 🙂 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AdamSandler 253 Report post Posted July 23 29 minutes ago, TonyK said: Maybe some of the local providers who have their own place can rent out their space for a nominal fee 🙂 I've heard some of our locals aren’t that nice to touring providers, especially ones like YFL who often offer lower rates. I’ve heard of some people making fake bookings which turns into a no show for the touring lady just to disrupt business. It’s really unfortunate. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 334 Report post Posted July 23 1 hour ago, AdamSandler said: I've heard some of our locals aren’t that nice to touring providers, especially ones like YFL who often offer lower rates. I’ve heard of some people making fake bookings which turns into a no show for the touring lady just to disrupt business. It’s really unfortunate. This I've heard from multiple touring ladies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RobertDion 130 Report post Posted July 23 3 hours ago, TonyK said: Maybe some of the local providers who have their own place can rent out their space for a nominal fee 🙂 yeeaahhhh, not all SPs talk to each other and are friends and are nice to the competition Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyK 207 Report post Posted July 24 19 hours ago, AdamSandler said: I've heard some of our locals aren’t that nice to touring providers, especially ones like YFL who often offer lower rates. I’ve heard of some people making fake bookings which turns into a no show for the touring lady just to disrupt business. It’s really unfortunate. That's terrible. I was under an assumption that the girls cared for each other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AdamSandler 253 Report post Posted July 24 1 hour ago, TonyK said: That's terrible. I was under an assumption that the girls cared for each other. Some of them are friends for sure but also keep in mind this is a business for them and if someone travels here and is new with lower prices or is very highly recommended and is booking up a lot it means the locals aren’t getting as many bookings and that impacts business and finances. Not saying all of our locals would do that but I’ve heard enough from some touring providers that Halifax can be a tough market. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MsManda 25812 Report post Posted July 24 Halifax is tough in general.. I think every sp here (even local) has gone through the hazing/initiation of daring to be a new face in town 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeyInHalifax 334 Report post Posted July 24 What's the reason to do this tho? To chase the travelling girls off and keep the local clients for themselves? I would be willing to bet that those local ladies who are engaging in this behavior aren't getting many clients regardless of the presence of the travelling girl. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites