frustrated

[n1ght0wlbilly 221]

I think you may have been a victim of the weather, 37C!!, too hot to F**K.

[mrgreen760 37785]

I concur. Only thing I can figure is the demand must be far greater than the supply. Pretty discouraging all in all. I just got tired of chasing my tail and have taken time off for this very reason.

 

Peace

MG

[fortunateone 156618]

I don't have an answer for the question but I do have a suggestion that often eliminates certain frustrations.

 

Altho you made an appt, that was a next day appt. There is nothing wrong with telling the sp you travel a distance and you will be confirming the appt and the appt time before you head to that location. If you don't get thru to her and speak with her when you call that morning, then you will have saved yourself a trip.

 

I have no idea why sps don't use voice mail or something. I assume it has to do with an extra charge for the service and/or to avoid the people who call 25 times leaving messages all the time so that withint 25 minutes, the mail box is full and no one else can leave a message lol.

 

If the sp provides an incall, it is possible she provides it at a hotel, and the sp may find herself without a room at the time. If you confirm ahead, you might have verified that as well. The main thing is that you don't want to waste your time, and traveling without speaking to that person on the day of and within a couple of hours of the time you requested will usually eliminate that issue.

 

If the sp does not normally do this, well then you can mention that it will help her with no shows and no cancel guys as well, freeing up her time for the guys who do show up.

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

I should go for a visit..i answer my emails and phone calls and even provide in call...lol;)

[silverado17 12689]

I should go for a visit..i answer my emails and phone calls and even provide in call...lol;)

 

do you think they could handle you out there lol

[nelle 2165]

I have to admit, in my party days I was bad for that . I would have every intention to make myself available but would be too sick to do so.

 

What kind of girl are you looking for?

 

I think that if your looking for a younger girl , alot has to do with the party and not taking things seriously. I made the same mistakes up untill just recently , but that is only because I'm not 19 or 20. I'm 26, A little older , wiser and been there done that.

You will notice as I have that the majority of the really great ones are in their late 20's - 40's . I'm not saying all the younger girls are bad , there are some good ones.

 

I'm just stating from my experience.

Now I actually will post that I am not available . Things do come up in life. I think that alot of girls don't realize that everything is so based on the internet that they fail and see the importance of answering emails. I also think some girls don't realize that txting is sometimes more prefered since it is a little more discreet. I never realized any of this up untill my last trip to Regina when I ran into a "certain Great one" and she taught that.

 

I don't always offer incalls . I only provide cetain days but I have them posted. I agree that it must be frusterating to guys who just want a good girl to have a great time. We have a surplus of sp's . It shouldn't be so bad that guys have to wait for the traveling girls because the girls in winnipeg dont want to take things serious.

I think we have it pretty good here . We charge alot more for alot less and you guys are generous enough to make us happy.

 

I'm not trying to be hypocritical or bash winnipeg. I am speaking as a girl who used to Fuck the dog all the time. My main priority was to have fun and make life a party not actually taking this buissness seriously. God knows I wouldn't be able to get away with that at a regular job.

 

I think that if you are looking for a more reliable girl . The traveling girls are allways a go and try to look for someone mabye mid 20's they come in all shapes and sizes. or if it's younger you are looking for inquire ( that is what cerb is here for.)

 

good luck

[Winnipegcub 21293]

As a guy who hobbies in many Canadian cities I can attest that Wpg is not high on my rankings for quantity and quality of providers. However, these things do also change over time. A few dependable CERB ladies are in Wpg but may not meet specifically what you are looking for. The only other good part to this is that I have noticed many reputable agencies and a few highly regarded independants are touring into Wpg. In the interim the few quality ladies on CERB who are based there or reliable touring ladies are your best bets. IMHO Cub

[Soleil Sublime 38108]

I find all of this very disappointing to read. It bothers me because it almost insults the rest of us. Whether we like it or not, people generalize. And if SPs in Winnipeg have a reputation of being flaky, non-commital, unavailable, unfriendly, scammers, rushers and overall unprofessional, then its going to reflect negatively on the rest of us.

 

I take what I do for a living very seriously. I chose to do it, with 2 university degrees behind me. It didn't matter. I regularly apply my business acumen to my choice of career and I pride myself on the level of friendliness and professionalism I consistenly maintain. And it isn't always easy, either! lol

 

To those who constantly disappoint, won't pick up their phones, refuse to provide advertised services and so on, shame on you all. This is a business ladies, and your number one priority should always be your client. Try and put yourself in their shoes for a moment. Would you appreciate driving hours into the city, having made an appointment for some fun, to find you're being avoided/stood up? Not a good feeling. Or what about posting photos of yourself that are clearly not of you, or are completely out of date? How can any of you be at all surprised when a client is clearly disappointed with how you really look? False advertising is illegal in most other industries, as it should be in this one. Oh! And let's not forget the young and inexperienced ones who come onto the scene out of nowhere and start demanding $300 an hour. I think those have to be my favourites. :roll:

 

Anyway, my advice to the plethora of SPs available in Winnipeg (more than in any other city), is to try a little integrity. It goes a long way. If you behave unprofessionally, you will be found out, in one way or another, so why even bother?

 

Just because you have a digital camera, a cell phone and an internet connection, does not necessarily qualify you to call yourself a Service Provider.

[livenudecats 4067]

Excellent post Soleil,

 

My comment would be that alot of these issues can be solved with some research on the part of the pooner. Go on the boards and search for reviews. If you go on the boards regularly you'll learn who the honest, reputable reviewers are and who the trolls are. Trust the honest guys. I was lucky enough when I first started this hobby, that I identified and befriended a very experienced gentleman. His advice and guidance was invaluable. Post questions? Ask for opinions on a lady you are thinking of seeing? Try and find guys whose tastes are the same as yours. If you can't find reviews, then PM some of the reputable guys and see if they have an opinion that they haven't posted. I've done this in the past when I couldn't find a review and found it to be very helpful. Winnipeg is a pretty small, tightly knit community. If a lady has a tendency to perform in a poor fashion, you're not the first one to experience it and there will be those out there, more than happy to share their experience with you.

Again, I emphasize, get to know who the reliable reviewers are and use them.

Choosing an SP is like choosing any one who provides a service. If you're just gonna open up the phone book and pick the biggest ad or throw a dart at the yellow pages, then you'll likely be unsatisfied. If you do some homework and ask friends or family for recommendations, you'll likely be happier.

 

And if after all that, you still have a bad experience. Then post about it. Be honest and present the facts. No attacking the SP or getting personal. The others on the board will appreciate it and often volunteer alterantive suggestions for your next experience. Just like the best lawyer or doctor lose the odd case or patient, every experienced pooner has had a few negative experiences. Learn from them and move on because at the end of the day, this hobby is the most fun you'll have with your pants off.

 

Cheers

[rexx 531]

And if after all that, you still have a bad experience. Then post about it. Be honest and present the facts. No attacking the SP or getting personal. The others on the board will appreciate it and often volunteer alterantive suggestions for your next experience. Just like the best lawyer or doctor lose the odd case or patient, every experienced pooner has had a few negative experiences. Learn from them and move on because at the end of the day, this hobby is the most fun you'll have with your pants off.

 

Cheers

 

Are we allowed to post any negative experiences on here?

[livenudecats 4067]

Not as far as I'm aware but you are on other boards. Here on CERB you can usually tell if a guy asks about a certain lady and there are no responses (the old "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all" rule). Guys will often PM you regarding negative experiences.

 

Cheers

[Soleil Sublime 38108]

I guess like everyone else said, do your research. It may take some work, but the pay-off is usually well worth it! ;)

[Carrie Moon 68826]

I give up.

 

Once again the Winnipeg SP community has shown a complete distain for actually providing any sort of service.

 

I realize that calling in the late morning may not always be the best time but many of the ads say 24/7 service.

 

What is wrong with the Winnipeg SP community that they do not want to perform the services that they advertise?

 

Mb

 

Your first mistake is in assuming there`s a consensus of how to be a escort.. and that there`s a community that decided how this is done.

 

All that it takes to be an escort is the decision and to advertise. No work ethic or skills are required. You only find out who is reliable by trial and error and by reviews (hopefully).

 

This is about the only job I know of where a girl can be late, rude, or not even show up and still be given another chance with that person or another client. Any other job and she`d be fired in a heart beat.

 

Lumping ladies into a group doesn`t work.. same here in Ottawa.. it would be like getting bad service at a restaurant and then lumping all restaurants in the city in the same category..

 

I sympathize with your plight though! I finally toured Winnipeg after being begged by so many guys to visit.. and had about 3 or 4 standups.

 

I also however had several bookings that went very well. I certainly don`t judge the city for it. It happens when girls tour. It`s murphys law as well..the longer you travel the more likely something will go wrong :(

 

See Soleil next time :) she`s fun, busty and professional!

 

oh! red flag for me in an ad.. anyone who claims to be available 24-7. If she is indeed available like that.. she is a crackhead In my experience. If she isn`t.. she has no problem with false advertising.

[roamingguy 300291]

Well Carrie already suggested her, but after reading this thread, if I was in manitoba's shoes, I'd be phoning/texting/emailing Soleil, now!!!!

It's amazing how one GREAT encounter with a lady can put the bad ones behind you

And I know if I get a couple extra dollars I'm planning on hopping a flight to Winnipeg.....just something about Soleil that makes me want to meet her

Ramblings for whatever they are worth

RG

[robsrobots 210]

I can attest that if you have not made an appt...it is not unusual to make 20 phone calls to get one reply. Other CDN cities ....not near as bad.

 

JMHO

[ThisOneWorks 4707]

Frustrated? With some ladies? Of course! And you don't think they get frustrated with some of their "clients"?

I know that I have only had to cancel once, but I have been cancelled on more than once. But this is still a hobby for us and source of income for them. If you really want to get that escort back, Don't call her ever again!! That'll teach her! She won't EVER get any of your money!

[Guest E*******h S******s]

Frustrated? With some ladies? Of course! And you don't think they get frustrated with some of their "clients"?

I know that I have only had to cancel once, but I have been cancelled on more than once. But this is still a hobby for us and source of income for them. If you really want to get that escort back, Don't call her ever again!! That'll teach her! She won't EVER get any of your money!

 

I can empathize with your sentiment, however I do cringe at the latent hostility with which it was expressed. That being said, while I agree that I personally wouldn't give someone a second chance that stood me up without so much as a phone call, don't fool yourself into thinking that you are teaching anyone anything. They are going to continue to do what they do happily oblivious as to how you might feel.

[don_204 100]

This site needs to allow full detailed reviews even if they are negative, especially negative ones. All of the other "erb" sites in other Canadian cities allow this. CERB allows SP's who are located or travel to Winnipeg and don't value customer service way too much power to do as they please and not have to worry about being exposed. Good luck trying that stuff in T.O, MTL or Van. If you offer good quality service and don't advertise with fake or out of date pictures then there's nothing to worry about am I right ladies? I have to admit that the lack of proffenialism from our local ladies in the past has made it so I only book appointments with traveling Sp's that visit the city. I can read reviews both positive and negative from their hometown and base my decision that way.

[roamingguy 300291]

This site needs to allow full detailed reviews even if they are negative, especially negative ones. All of the other "erb" sites in other Canadian cities allow this. CERB allows SP's who are located or travel to Winnipeg and don't value customer service way too much power to do as they please and not have to worry about being exposed. Good luck trying that stuff in T.O, MTL or Van. If you offer good quality service and don't advertise with fake or out of date pictures then there's nothing to worry about am I right ladies? I have to admit that the lack of proffenialism from our local ladies in the past has made it so I only book appointments with traveling Sp's that visit the city. I can read reviews both positive and negative from their hometown and base my decision that way.

 

This isn't a review board, it's a recommendation board. When you signed up this was in the rules, and I'll post the link again

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_rules

Most "reviews" I've read on other boards turn out to be bashings, and not constructive

If review boards are what you like, there are many out there, CERB isn't one of them

RG

[Soleil Sublime 38108]

Personally, I find the 'reviews' on the other board, overall pretty tasteless and gross. Far too many gory details and the SP is spoken of as if she is simply a piece of meat. At least here, attributes other than just the physical are mentioned and celebrated.

 

A little off topic I know, but still worth stating, I think.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

... CERB allows SP's... way too much power to do as they please and not have to worry about being exposed.... If you offer good quality service and don't advertise with fake or out of date pictures then there's nothing to worry about am I right ladies? ....

 

How would one go about determining what is a factual "exposure", and what is dis-information designed to unfairly damage a lady's reputation? What to worry about? Liars. Cerb functions just fine as it is exactly because the ladies don't have to worry about being attacked on this board. Cerb was intentionally designed to be different from all the other 'erbs. And the verdict is in: it works. Not everyone's cup of tea, but those who like it, like it a lot.

[Guest E*******h S******s]

This site needs to allow full detailed reviews even if they are negative, especially negative ones. All of the other "erb" sites in other Canadian cities allow this.

 

That's kind of like saying that The Keg should serve Big Macs. Not that there is anything wrong with a Big Mac (I've eaten more than one in my lifetime...lol), but if that's what you want, you need to go where Big Macs are served.

[nelle 2165]

I have to agree with Soliel on the fact that the other boards do have a lot more bashing then here . That is one of the reasons I like cerb alot. . I can understand sometimes the frusteration with you guys and not being able to say everything that you want to say , But like alot of others say " If you don't see many good things said , then it is probally for a reason."

 

I can actually vouche for what Soliel says . I personally had to deal with being bashed on perb. I was bashed from two guy. One who hadn't seen me in like two years and one I wasn't even sure I saw at all.

It was an issue with my weight and my pics. I was posting 165 which mabye because I was partying alot it could fluctuate mabye 165 /170 and my pictures, Which had to be taken down and I had to take new pics and verify .

It was a big drama all because some guy was more picking on me than anything. Alot of guys like my pictures amd were upset and thought it unfair that they had to be taken down . Anyways it became more of a grotesque spectacle than anything. Both mods on Cerb and Perb, as well

as ec were more than kind and understanding . Not too mention the many guys who backed me up.

 

All in all I am all about being fair and I have had many great reviews and not so great ones but at least the guys who wrote the not so great ones were fair , honest and had some class.

 

The reason I 'm writing all this is I agree with both Soliel and you guys . From an sp point of view alot of girls don't really like to advertise on perb because of all the bashing going on and don't want to be victims of it . Some even went as far as to make rude comments about a really reptuable girl and she is like one of Canada's best from what I hear. And for the guys point of view yeah it would be great if you could write more detailed reviews but I think that is why the mod on here is trying to avoid the drama.

The mod on perb is cracking down on the bashers and Perb is great if you travel out west because it's HUGE out there. I for one like both boards but I dont get as nervous to advertise on cerb as I do on winnipeg Perb.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Poor service is indemic in today's society as we all know, whether one spends hours on the phone being told mechanically how important you are to said company, or not being able to find a clerk to provide any assitance and on and on and certainly this game has not been immune to it.

 

For this reason I have reduced my participation and have found it much less frustrating than chasing my own tail.

 

I concur that some of the "reviews" on the other erb can be over the top, but I'll say this more than a couple of "train wrecks" have been outed which in the end is good for all involved. Balance is the key.

 

Peace

MG

[gunit 2403 385]

I concur mr.green