Location of SPs

[ottawasocial 477]

I visited a few SPs in the last few months and I must admit I'm was definitely NOT impressed with their in-call locations...

I'm not quite sure what they're thinking hosting clients when their places are an absolute dump.....How do they thrive on repeat clients.....or do they just want the TYFTT one time clients....

I can tell you....going forward I will only be visiting SPs who are staying in nice hotels and luxury condos....

For those of you who don't have these luxury condos......it might be a good idea to at least rent a hotel for a day.....I've seen many threads that you can get a nice hotel for $90-$110/day....

My clients at work will always come back to me because of the professional service I give them.....It is the same in the SP industry......First impressions are huge.....

And when I walk into a dump.....its really hard to get excited about your experience.....

I'd much rather sharing a glass of wine on a nice leather sofa....

Does anyone have any similar experiences....I've left the names of the SPs out because I don't want to be rude....

[Dreamgirl 246]

i totally understand what you are sayin... I take care of my location , keep it clean , buy nice furniture and decoration.

[caveman 147]

My experiences have always been in nice places...I have yet to walk into a dump. Ott.soc, have you been visiting the SPs on the lower end of the donation scale? You can't really expect someone making half or two-thirds the money of an upscale SP to have the same kind of facilities...

[loneskater 25635]

If you think an SPs place could use some improvement you should PM her or send an e-mail with the suggestion. Most SPs I visited had a great location and it was very clean. The way this thread has been written it makes it sound like all SPs can't maintain a clean place unless they live in a luxary condo. Isn't that harsh on the wonderful ladies who really make the time and effort to provide a great incall service out of their own place.

 

Sure they could all buy one luxary downtown condo if they raise the donations substantially but then we saw what happened last time a lady raised her price. Lots of members were screeming.

 

Don't make this sound like all ladies are the same and again send suggestions to those whose place you think could use some improvement. If you prefer from now on to only see ladies at hotels or luxary condos, that is your prerogative but don't make it sound like only the richest can maintain a clean place.

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

I remember when i first started as an escort....i had nothing but an air mattress...lol...but the gentlemen came to see me and not where i lived. I have upgraded since then to 2 apts in halifax but we all have to start somewhere.

 

kisses,

Emma A

[Guest i***k***]

I agree with Emma. There are some SPs I'd go see pretty much anywhere to be with... although I do prefer an upscale location. If I had to choose between my favorite SP and a place that wasn't so great I'd choose the SP hands down.

[ottawasocial 477]

Loneskar,

I thought about your idea about PMing the SPs.....but really who am I to complain....The majority will probably take offence to the comment....

I just thought I'd clarify my comment because it looks like people have already taken objection to what I've said.....Some people like a GFE experience because it adds to the "whole experience".....I myself, like to spend some quality time relaxing with the SP before actually getting down to business...I personally don't enjoy myself when there is no where to sit because there is dishes/Landry etc everywhere and all that is in the room is a mattress and nothing else....

I've been with both high end escorts and obviously lately I've TOFTT a few times and have learnt the hard way.....Moral of the story is to research what you're looking for a little more and understand that when you do TOFTT it might not to that satisfying....

 

I've started this tread because I know I'm not the only one that agrees with me that location cleaniness plays a huge part in time spent with an SP....Also, let me clarify that you don't need to live in a luxory condo to have a nice place...I've visited many SPs that live in regular apartment buildings that just keep that place very clean and provide a nice atmosphere for their clients.....

[caveman 147]

Fair enough, OS...I did indeed misunderstand your original point. I agree that dirty laundry and dishes everywhere would affect the fantasy a little bit... :-D However, I haven't had that experience myself...the SPs I've visited (whether in a hotel or in an apartment/house) have had very clean and tidy places.

[loneskater 25635]

OS I am sure all will agree with you on having nowhere to sit etc... Thanks for clarifying, if you steer away from recommended SPs and TOFTT you can have surprises. I would still PM the person, maybe your right she will not care but when her business starts slowing down, maybe she will look back at your PM and decide to listen.

[jdstar 1065]

Personally, I don't think location is that big of a deal. A find a lower end location just reminiscent of my university days. I think if someone's having trouble making ends meet, or just starting out than you can only expect so much of the surroundings. I imagine that for the most part, this would also be reflected in the price. Generally, I think its more about the company than the place, although I think a high price should come with the expectation of higher end surroundings.

[A***** A***** 510]

I remember when i first started as an escort....i had nothing but an air mattress...lol...kisses,

Emma A

 

LOL

 

Hey, I had a futon :p

 

I keep my place nice and tidy.

 

When the going was good, I would get Molly Maid to come and clean it

 

Now, I do it myself ;)

 

I take pride in my house, and my surroundings. It might not be an "upscale" condo, as that is not who I am. I am a regular girl, in a regular house:D

[Guest K*****2**]

Personally, I find that my "environment" is an extension and reflection of myself. I would never think of entertaining anyone in a less than perfectly clean and orderly environment. Sets a mood and a tone for the experience, at least for me.

Kelly

[ottawasocial 477]

Kelly,

 

I couldn't have worded it any better myself....I love to have guests over and I love to entertain...

 

I would never dare to have my place look like a dump if I'm having people over.....Same goes for all the guys/girls that work out of your homes....

 

Like investment brokers.....Would you have clients over to your house when your place was filthy? No....probably not....because the cleanliness of your place is a reflection of your business....

[PistolPete 61421]

Probably 5 or 6 times in the past 2 years, your place is immaculate and is an reflection of yourself...your body is immaculate as well!:grin:

 

 

Personally, I find that my "environment" is an extension and reflection of myself. I would never think of entertaining anyone in a less than perfectly clean and orderly environment. Sets a mood and a tone for the experience, at least for me.

Kelly

[Emma Alexandra 123366]

hey i didn't say i didn't keep my place clean when i had the air mattres....lmao

[rick_falcon 911]

It is true that it is always more enjoyable when the place feels warm and welcoming.

However, my personal opinion is that it does not need to be upscale or anything high-end. But it would be nice if it was clean and tidy.

 

It is true that your place reflects yourself. If you feel life is shitty then you won't mind living in a shitty place.

A few years ago, I visited an SP and her basement apartment was terrible; but she didn't seem to mind.

Dirty clothes everywhere, sink full of dishes; doesn't realize that, sorry, but it comes to smell bad. Plus the dog that even pissed on the carpet!

Worst, CBJ starts a few strokes and she spits on the floor; saying she doesn't like the taste of these latex condoms.

OMG, believe me that it is also easy for a man to fake orgasm and then I left. :-(

[Guest K*****2**]

Sorry, hope I didn't imply otherwise. My appologies if so. I have a fetish for designer furniture and am a clean freak (probably to a fault) so I get a laugh when people walk in an see that I actually have "normal" stuff here and that it is a home -lol.

Kel

[captain 160]

I'm reminded of one of my worst outcall visits.... when she told me to sit on the couch, I was paranoid as hell, godk nows what I could have sat on... she was definitely bottom of the barrel SP .... but I was afraid to even sit on the couch, afraid I'd sit on a syringe or god knows what.... cleaning up in the bathroom there was fruit loops still floating in the toilet.... geez, fruit loops (for real) .... never repeat that! never! lol spend the extra bucks and feel good about it.

[Capital Hunter 18263]

I have never taken incalls so I can't comment directly on the subject of this thread only to add that everytime I invite a lady (an SP) to my place usually on a Saturday afternnon, I spend the large part of the morning to clean up my apartment and well decorate it and I expect the same from a lady provider if one day I start taking incalls. So, in summary I can sympathize with OttawaSocial in regard to his "not so pleasant" experiences with a few untidy incall locations.

[A***** A***** 510]

hey i didn't say i didn't keep my place clean when i had the air mattres....lmao

 

Ahh too funny, thanks for the laugh:D

[Guest S****tha Ott*wa]

I think it helps with a comfort level for CLs. Picking a location takes trial and error. I would say word of mouth overused either.

 

It is a big factor when choosing a location. From the parking to the way it looks and that it is clean. Atleast for me it is.

 

Home... if you read originally just got an apartment in ottawa east. I really never thought of entertaining at home. is that not a bad thing?

Can't please everyone but can sure have fun trying!

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[cat 262460]

I believe that the environment is a direct extension of the provider. There have been times when I had less than desirable locations and I find it makes it difficult to set the tone for the visit. What is important to remember is the variables in the equation. The cost involved in setting up a location can be overwhelming for a beginner or someone who is entertaining part time. If she is an "end of the month" provider (meaning she only entertains when there is a shortage of money) then you very well may get the fruitloops in the couch and laundry on the kitchen table because the children have just been dropped at Granny's for the night and now has to get her bootie in gear to ensure the rent check clears. She usually knows things should be put together better, but with her full time job and raising her babies it's hard to find the time.

 

Full time independents take time and invest heavily in their surroundings but their considerations reflect that and many guests have a budget to respect. It all boils down to what you want to spend. It is a challenge, but there are always quality providers out there within a reasonable budget. Letting a provider know that her place was less than desirable is tricky, but I would rather someone tell me than just go on the hunt for someone else...

 

Catherine

[Seymour 3970]

Letting a provider know that her place was less than desirable is tricky, but I would rather someone tell me than just go on the hunt for someone else...

 

Catherine

 

Catherine - not everyone has this kind of maturity that you have demonstrated. So - some folks might be offended regardless if the client uses tact when broaching the subject. Just a comment in passing.

[YoungStud 468]

Personally, as long as a place is clean, I don't care. I'm not there for the architecture. And as Cat points out, it's difficult for everyone to have a great place all the time. As long as the sex is warm and friendly, or even better, that, plus somewhat wild and kinky, I'm a happy camper. (Tent optional.)

[AmberWyld 311]

Personally, I don't think location is that big of a deal for most men, although no matter how non elegant your place may be, it should be clean at least. Like Emma said, we all start out some where. Some may already be posh to begin with, but most girls STARTING OUT on their own can't do this right away. We are like a SMALL business that grows in time. WE don't or aren't bck by an agency's money... So we can't provide the PENTHOUSE feeling right away! THEN to suggest that maybe she should get some hotel to entertain is smothing she might not be able to do right away as well. For it to work and be enjoyable for all parties, she needs to be abl to make enough to support the hotel, her essentials (condoms, oils or what ever and still make enough to make it work the while. Because if she (or any SP starting out) might not have a big nough clientel list to do this yet! Myself, when I first started, I too only had a mtress for the floor, and a small night stand and lamp. I have since evolved from that point, and now provide a nice comfortable place with ammenties for my clients. She too will eventually get there as her client lists grow. As long as she's good and true to what she does, she will get there. It's like going shopping for a new car. If you only want to spend 15,000, then you look for a Civic. But if you want to spend 457,250,then you can get a Mercedes-Benz SLR McLareen. I really think if someone's having trouble making ends meet, or just starting out, then you can only expect so much of them and their surroundings. I am sure that all of us have started out living in a place we didn'ty like because it was all we COULD afford at the time. Generally, I think its more about the compaionship rather than the place, although I think with a higher price, you should expect higher end surroundings and service.