Getting an escort pregnant

[Phaedrus 209521]

Actually, I was wondering about the BYOC thing as well. I didn't know the protocol of who gets the condoms (SP or me). So I bought a box of condoms the day of, kept the receipt, and did not open the box. It was still sealed. She ended up having a lot of them herself though, so I need not have worried about that.

 

I've never used one of mine with a SP... they've always been hers. That way the lady you're with knows that they've been stored properly, aren't past expiry, and haven't been tampered with. And I believe most SPs are happy to acquire a specific type or brand if you give them advance warning, but obviously you'd have to ask first and give adequate notice for shopping.

[fortunateone 156618]

Thx, WiT, I had read that somewhere not that long ago. It must be one of those urban legends that 2 condoms is riskier than one. It might reduce sensation significantly tho, and probably will increase the duration of activity which in itself could be a problem.

[SamanthaEvans 166766]

Maybe I've been unusually lucky, but I have never had a condom break with normal use. I've had them break or tear when used on sex toys, many times, but not when used on an actual penis. I've torn a few with my fingernails before putting them on the man. But no breakage while they were being worn. I use a lot of condoms, too!

 

I claim no special skill or technique, though. I've probably used every brand that's on the market and easy to purchase in a store. I have definite preferences, mostly due to flavour and ease of use. I often have new clients help to put the condom on if I'm at all concerned about pinching or getting hair caught in the thing. Most of the time, I put a drop of lube inside the condom before it goes on, but not always. Probably the thing that makes the most difference is pinching the end of the condom to be sure that there's an empty space--a reservoir--which allows for some movement.

[piano8950 32577]

A thought I had in my mind last night regarding this. Even though I think we don't have any here, what about male escorts?

 

Without providing any links, I believe there is an agency in Ottawa with a male companion and I'm sure they are around Canada and around the world, probably in much lower numbers then female companions. Is he just just another anonymous sperm donor should the client decide not to abort (if the client gets pregnant of course). Or should he be legally responsible as much as a male client getting a female SP pregnant (financially at least)

[Parker 19761]

A thought I had in my mind last night regarding this. Even though I think we don't have any here, what about male escorts?

 

Without providing any links, I believe there is an agency in Ottawa with a male companion and I'm sure they are around Canada and around the world, probably in much lower numbers then female companions. Is he just just another anonymous sperm donor should the client decide not to abort (if the client gets pregnant of course). Or should he be legally responsible as much as a male client getting a female SP pregnant (financially at least)

 

It (legally) does not matter the job of the person(s) who create and bring to term a child.

Adding doctor, SP, actor, politician to the persons sex doesn't make ethics or laws any different.

 

I think people are slightly confused about the current laws in Canada regarding child support.

You can be court ordered to pay child support, but they are not allowed to force you to pay as they once were. Which is why there are so many people, including politicians, who simply don't-- and get away with it.

(This doesn't only apply to men either, I know women who were ordered to pay child support and simply don't.)

 

But really, this is pretty black and white thinking... It's not the 1950s anymore. If the world were as simple and you make a baby and care for it, there wouldn't be deadbeat dads and moms, single parents, child support, CAS, foster care, signing over of parental rights.. ect.

 

If you actually worry about getting someone pregnant, even with condoms, pills, spermicide, ect.. and you are male, I would consider a no-scalpel vasectomy. (If you're worried about wanting children later, you could consider sperm freezing and storage.)

I've personally looked into tubal ligation, but was denied such as it's major abdominal surgery and not a simple out-patient procedure.

[tokan 16826]

In some ways I wish the courts would simply just force people to pay child support, as it would probably cut down on dead beats. A relative of mine went through a very messy divorce not too long ago and the ex basically tried every trick in the book to get out of paying child support and spousal support to the point where he was turning the kids against their own mother. The one kid was smart enough to catch on to this but the other not so much, so not only has it kind of put a wedge between their mother but it's also kind of put a wedge between the kids. To me this is just shameful and for what a few lousy bucks and the guy is definitely not hurting in that department. If it wasn't for her dad the guy would have probably gotten away with it too.

 

I always try to own up to my mistakes, so I always figured that if I got a woman pregnant, sp or not, and she decided to keep the child that I would be responsible for it. At the same time though I don't worry about it, at least that wouldn't keep me from seeing a sp. Were smart enough to know to practice safe sex and are aware of most of the common forms of birth control so that worst case scenario, if there was a breakage, we'd know what to do. Even so I know that the only 100% effective route is abstinence, but lets just say I've been down that road and it's no fun.